Don't invite me, I don't want to go!

When someone asks you for a favour or invites you to an event, do you find yourself immediately saying “Sounds great!” before you have even mentally processed the request?  Today Lauren and Nicole discuss choosing how we actually want to spend our time, how to say no to things we don't want to do. Plus how to prioritise our time and energy with the people we want to be with and how to place boundaries around all of it.  If you like what we do here and want to be part of the club, come follow us at all our channels  To pre order our book “Have You Tried This?” click here - https://www.amazon.co.uk/Have-You-Tried-This-Only/dp/1801293139/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1O7EA4ZF1O5CS&keywords=have+you+tried+this&qid=1699449028&sprefix=have+you+tried+%2Caps%2C125&sr=8-2 For our exclusive merch - https://self-care-club.myspreadshop.co.uk/ Join our private facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/1115099072702743/?ref=share_group_link Instagram   https://www.instagram.com/selfcareclubpod/ YouTube https://youtube.com/c/SelfCareClub TikTok https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMLnXyS1S/ Email hello@theselfcareclub.co.uk  Website www.theselfcareclub.co.uk Studio production by @launchpodstudios Music by purpleplanet.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices