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Wolves In The City

Wolves in the City is a podcast about sex, dating, relationships, nightlife and the chaos of being Black and queer in the city.

Hosted by Lee Gray and DJ Jay Jay Revlon, two friends with very different perspectives and absolutely no interest in keeping things polite.

Funny, honest, occasionally unhinged - and probably not one to play out loud at work.

Twirl into final episode of the season three to find out what the wolves were up to this week.
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK final!
We also give our hot take on what we think about the messy tea being spilled about the team over at Pride in London
Our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills is back to give their unsolicited advice which is always from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

#29 A colourless Pride

Twirl into episode eight of the new season to find out what the wolves were up to this week.
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK this week.
We also give our hot take on what we think about the Harry & Meghan's interview with Oprah and the unfortunate death of Sarah Everard. 
Our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills is back to give their unsolicited advice which is always from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

#28 Dear men, please grow up!

Twirl into episode seven of the new season to find out what the wolves were up to this week. 
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK this week.
We also give our hot take on what we think about the upcoming Oprah interview with Meghan & Harry. 
Our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills is back to give their unsolicited advice which is always from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

LGBTQ+ Sexual Health Advice

http://lgbt.foundation/sexualhealth

https://www.stonewall.org.uk/category/sexual-health



#27 Meghan's Got The Tea

Twirl into episode six of the new season to find out why the wolves were away last week.
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK this week.
We also give our hot take on what we think about cancel culture, is it real? Do we need it? Does everyone just need to calm down
Our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills is away this week, so Lee & Jay Jay will be giving their unsolicited advice which is always from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

#26 Cancel me not

Twirl into episode five of the new season to find out why the wolves are thinking of talking to the dead!
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK this week.
We also give our hot take on what we think about Priti Patel's latest comments on the Black Lives Matter protests which took place last year!
Our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills, as he is back givign his  unsolicited advice which is always from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon




#25 Priti don't like ugly, honey!

Twirl into episode four of the new season to find out what the wolves have been doing this week in the pandemic!
As always we are spilling the tea in Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - find out what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK this week.
We also give our hot take on what really happened between Candice, Rochelle and Channel 4 and who should be held accountable!
Jay Jay and Lee are sitting in for our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills, as he is away in the studio laying down hits, nevertheless the unsolicited advice is always from the heart! 
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. 
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC 
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?! 
@wolvesitcpodcast 
@leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

#24 Rochelle, you in danger girl!!

We have come to save the day, help you through the pandemic and this time we promise to stick around! Twirl into episode three of the new season to find out what the wolves have been doing this week in the pandemic! 
For all our loyal fans, we've added in a new segment - Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - spilling our tea on what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK. 
And as ever, the gag of the week will keep you gagging and this week we ponder if RuPaul's Drag Race is for all drag queens, our hot take on what the government could have done better to manage the coronavirus and we're in our feelings after watching Dominique Jackson's documentary on her lived experience as a black trans women trying to make it in America. 
Defining Moments with OZY: Dominique Jackson: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clV8ZFM2Z8M&t=1092s 
Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart! In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?! @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_ @karnagekills @jayjayrevlon

#23 Drag Me To Hell

We have come to save the day, help you through the pandemic and this time we promise to stick around!
Twirl into episode two of the new season to find out what the wolves have been doing this week in the pandemic! 
For all our loyal fans, we've added in a new segment - Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - spilling our tea on what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK.
And as ever, the gag of the week will keep you gagging and this week we're excited to watch Channel 4's latest drama, "It's a Sin"
Our resident Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?!
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_
@karnagekills
@jayjayrevlon

#22 It's A Sin

Yes, you are reading this correctly! The Wolves are back for a third helping of honesty, humour and most of ALL SHADE. 
We have come to save the day, help you through the pandemic and this time we promise to stick around! 
Twirl into episode one of the new season to find out where the wolves have been hiding & what we're doing to get through the pandemic! 
For all our loyal fans, we've added in a new segment - Revlon's RUVEALING RUVIEWs - spilling our tea on what we really think about Rupaul's Drag Race UK. 
And as ever, the gag of the week will keep you gagging and this week we investigate what it means to be trans-racial. 
Our resident Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart!
In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.
Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC
Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?
@wolvesitcpodcast
@leegray_
@karnagekills
@jayjayrevlon

#21 Don't Call It A Comeback

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon. Jay Jay examines why he can't have sex with the lights on. Lee asks the Wolves whether straight actors should be allowed to play gay roles and what to do if you're living with toxic parents. Our resident Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart! In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#20 Toxic Mothers Be Gone

n this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon. Jay Jay opens up on why he is feeling personally victimised in international airports and what he plans to do to stop it! Lee asks whether we should be more sympathetic to our straight passing brothers and looks into the reasons why people might be upset that Disney's Ariel from the fairytale "The Little Mermaid" will be played by a black actress in the upcoming live action remake. Karnage is also back to give you unsolicited advice from the heart. In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon-- Don't forget to rate & review the show HUNTY!

#19 Why Ariel Gotta Be Black?

In this very special episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon - the wolves take a look at London Pride 2019! Jay Jay gives us a behind the scenes insight into what it takes to put on a party during pride while being very booked and busy! Lee gives his annual London Pride and Black Pride assessment - the highs and low down lows! Karnage tells us why he was so late to his Juice stage set and also is back with unsolicited advice from the heart. In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon-- Don't forget to rate & review the show HUNTY! Episode 19: Title: Why Ariel gotta be black? In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon. Jay Jay opens up on why he is feeling personally victimised in international airports and what he plans to do to stop it! Lee asks whether we should be more sympathetic to our straight passing brothers and looks into the reasons why people might be upset that Disney's Ariel from the fairytale "The Little Mermaid" will be played by a black actress in the upcoming live action remake. Karnage is also back to give you unsolicited advice from the heart.

#18 Pride Recap 2019

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon.Jay Jay gives tells us why he finds travelling internationally so problematic? Lee gives us an update on some of the Queer people around the world making it a safer & queerer place for us all. Karnage is also back to give you unsolicited advice from the heart. In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon-- Don't forget to rate & review the show HUNTY!

#17 Nothing To Declare

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon.Jay Jay assesses whether the new Snapchat gender swap feature is insensitive to the queer community? Lee gives us a political update and asks gives his own assessment of Theresa May’s time as Prime Minister.Karnage is also back to give you unsolicited advice from the heart. In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon-- Don't forget to rate & review the show HUNTY!

#16 Politically Incorrect

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon, we got PERSONAL because this episode is all about relationships! Jay Jay opens up about his break up and what he learnt about himself from his relationship. Lee asks the Wolves for advice on his relationship dilemma and Karnage keeps real on why he has found the love his life and what made him say I do. Karnage is also back to give you unsolicited advice from the heart.

#15 He loves me, He Loves Me Not

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills & Jay Jay Revlon. Jay Jay delves into the truth behind the growing voguing scene in London and why he feels this dance form is becoming so popular in the UK. Lee examines why Pornhub buying Tumblr off Verizon might be a good thing and whether porn is a good or a bad thing? Our resident Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart! In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon-- Don't forget to rate & review the show HUNTY!

#14 Let's Talk About Porn

We are back for a second helping of honesty, humour and most of ALL SHADE. Find out where the wolves have been hiding and what we have lined up this season. Jay Jay has a lot to say about the new Marks & Spencer’s campaign and gives some advice to companies who really want to support the LGBTQ+ community. Lee gets personal really quick about some of the problems he has been facing and seeks some advice from the other Wolves. We also honour Nigel Shelby and question whether enough is being done to support young LGBTQ+ kids. Our resident Agony Uncle Karnage is back too, give you unsolicited advice from the heart! In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#13 Help me I'm Broke

In this season's final episode of Wolves In The City we are dedicating the show to our listeners and we have one of our most loyal listeners joining the pack, Tabooade to give us an on air critique, why he has never missed an episode & asks some of the questions that the fans want answers to. Jay Jay recounts his recent trip to Prague and shades airlines who they don't offer more flights when people miss their flights?Lee & Jay Jay question Tabooade on his experiences of coming out, dating & friendships, his cultural background and why he listens to the podcast? The Wolves tell the listeners what being part of the show has meant to them and the reaction to the show has meant to them! This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram? Keep it locked to find details about season two.  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#12 Thank you to our listeners

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon - Jay Jay discusses the recently introduced sugar tax and why he isn't here for the government impacting his guilty pleasure? Lee is gagged by the reaction of Kim Kardashian to Tyrese Beckford comment on one of her instagram pictures - was Kim dragging him out of the closet? Grindr is coming out with a new app called Kindr to combat homophobic & transphobic slurs on the main app - will this help?Our resident agony uncle, Karnage Kills gives advice to one of our younger listeners who wants to know he can break into the music scene? In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#11 I Am Not Your Sis!

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City we are wolf down, Karnage Kills is away but don’t fret - Lee Gray & Jay Jay Revlon are back with a surprise special guest! Jay Jay recounts an experience of feeling uncomfortable in a space which was prominently black and asks the pack how they deal with being in spaces which aren’t black or queer or welcoming.  Lee recaps and assesses London Pride & Black Pride - everything from the brands that sponsored to the organisers to the people that came and asks what does Pride actually mean to the community? Is it still having the same impact? In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visiting shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#10 Pride 2018 Recap

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon - Jay Jay examines the current state of entertainment and whether you need reality tv to make it as a black artist and the struggle between putting yourself out there and not wanting to be perpetuate the mainstream stereotype of gay man. Lee asks whether the first gay royal wedding will help LGBT in the movement for equality in the UK, we also call out Russia for there decision to shut gay safe spaces during the World Cup and we give our opinion on whether it's possible to remain friends with your ex. Our resident agony uncle, Karnage Kills gives advice to anonymous listener who struggling to balance the development of his art and having to deal with real life responsibilities and a 9-5 job & paying rent? And remember a new episode is dropping every week in the month of June to celebrate PRIDE, so don't forget to tune into another episode of Wolves In The City next week!In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlon

#9 Am I A stereotype?

Last chance for you to buy your tickets to Queer Bruk taking place on June 15th at VFD. Queer Bruk is an inclusive LGBT+ club night and tickets are only a fiver! Tickets are being sold on event brite - link below!In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon - Jay Jay wants to know why people feel it's okay to profit off the LGBT & black community without proactively trying to understand it.  Lee explains what it means to be an ally to the LGBTQ community, knowing that self-proclaimed allies are often decent people who are oblivious to what it means to be an "ally". Lee is also gagged by a documentary on Netflix called Explained where an episode examines the idea of monogamy and where it came from - more importantly is good it for gay men?Our resident agony uncle, Karnage Kills gives advice to anonymous listener who wants to know how as a guy, how can they can protect themselves from public abuse due to their feminine image? And remember a new episode is dropping every week in the month of June to celebrate PRIDE, so don't forget to tune into another episode of Wolves In The City next week!In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlonDetails for Queer Bruk:https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-bruk-a-new-night-for-queer-people-of-colour-tickets-46084069693?utm_campaign=new_event_email&utm_medium=email&utm_source=eb_email&utm_term=viewmyevent_button

#8 Say No To Monogamy

Last week if you tuned in you would of heard us discussing the break up with Lee's current boyfriend and if Jay Jay should continue to DJ at his party - well we totally forgot to mention the party which is called Queer Bruk a brand new night for Queer People of Colour. Don't miss it on the 15th June at VFD in Dalston and it's only a fiver! Tickets are being sold on event brite - we will also include the link below!In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Lee Gray, Karnage Kills and Jay Jay Revlon - Jay Jay discusses the grooming of young queer men in the community and gives a warning to some of our younger listeners! Lee is gagged by the reaction of British parents on a video informing kids on the stereotypes of clothing. We also talk about POSE a new tv show on FX set in the 1980's, Pose is a dance musical that explores  the juxtaposition of several segments of life and society in New York: the ball culture world, the rise of the luxury Trump-era universe, and the downtown social and literary scene. Karnage gives his best advice to Brandon Barrett aka Marviking on Instagram who asks "I'm not sure when this started but I've recently developed a habit of hooking up with guys and telling them it isn't my house and I'm just house sitting. I go as far as hanging up pictures of my friends on the wall. Does anyone else do this? #BitchesBeCrazyAnd remember a new episode is dropping every week in the month of June to celebrate PRIDE, so don't forget to tune into another episode of Wolves In The City next week!In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @leegray_@karnagekills@jayjayrevlonDetails for Queer Bruk:https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/queer-bruk-a-new-night-for-queer-people-of-colour-tickets-46084069693?utm_campaign=new_event_email&utm_medium=email&utm_source=eb_email&utm_term=viewmyevent_button

#7 POSE

After six week mid season break, we're back bringing the drama, the sass and some changes. In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Karnage Kills & Lee Gray - we induct a new wolf into the pack. Let's just say he brings the heat and new energy to the podcast!It seems like a simple thing but why is it when you do a good thing there is always one person that should have you're back - always tend to bring the negativity? We give you a few tips on how to the shake that off and keep winning!Lee is gagged by the new show on Youtube called Transparency focusing on the experiences of transgender people, the beef between Cardi & Azealia and wonders whether it's ever okay for your best friend to still work with your ex. Karnage gives his best advice to Josh Cort of Basic Biscuits on whether it's okay to ask men to speak in the mother tongue during sex. In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitcpodcast @karnagekills@leegray_@jayjayrevlon

#6 There's a new wolf in the city

After a short break the Wolves are back (with a few changes)! Tune in on 31.05.2018 for an all new episode of Wolves In The City. You won’t want to miss a drop of this tea!

Irreplaceable

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Urban Wolf, Karnage Kills & Lee Gray, Marc Thompson joins the pack for a sit down on how to take care of your sexual health, gives Urban an education on what exactly the Prep trial, battling sexual health stereotypes and being upfront about sexual health testing. Who is Marc Thompson? An activist, mentor, ‘man-about-town’ and film buff, Marc Thompson has worked in Public Health and been a fierce advocate for social justice for 25 years, with a focus on Black minority and ethnic communities, sexual health and HIV. He is particularly interested in the intersection of race, sexuality and HIV and the impact it has on individuals and society.Marc has worked and volunteered with various community based organisations including GMFA, Big Up, Living Well and Terrence Higgins Trust.Marc is also a co-founder of www.prepster.info, a community based intervention that aims to educate and agitate for PrEP access in England and beyond and a co-founder and editor of www.blkoutuk.com a website dedicated to providing a safe space for black gay men to share their narratives and build community.If you've got questions for Marc - hello@prepster.infoIn need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com.This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?

#5 Talking Sexual Health with Marc Thompson

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Urban Wolf, Karnage Kills & Lee Gray - Urban tells us how he is trying to empower people of colour within the LGBT with the help of the British Film Institute though it seems Urban work ethic isn't exactly what the BFI expected. Urban also assesses him own management style and current issues with trying to keep his team in check. Lee wonders whether everyone is having better sex than him and why we're expected from the legal age to be a pro at sexual intercourse without very little or no experience at all? Our resident agony uncle Karnage gives to advice to someone who wants to know if it's possible to have sex with your friends and still remain friends - or is it just wishful thinking? In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram? @wolvesitcpodcast @karnagekills@leegray_@its.urbanwolf

#4 Let's talk about sex baby

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Urban Wolf, Karnage Kills & Lee Gray- Karnage tells us how we can make it into hoe nation. Urban spill his thoughts on the alleged new relationship with Naomi Campbell & Skepta – are they miss matched or are they couple goals?  Lee explores the latest epidemic of tweeting & deleting - Josh Rivers was fired from the gay times, Munroe Bergdorf had to step down from the Labour party LGBT advisory board, Stormzy & Steff London had to apologise for past homophobic tweets. Should we be held accountable for past actions and does the punishment fit the crime? Our resident agony uncle Karnage gives advice to one of our listeners who is need of guidance due to being in a relationship with someone who is incompatible sexually – should he leave or should he make the effort?  In need of some counselling email your #DearKarnage questions to wolvesitcpodcast@gmail.com. This is podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk  Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC  Where to find The Wolves on Instagram?  @wolvesitc_@karnagekills@leegray_@its.urbanwolf

#3 Sometimes Sorry Isn't Enough

In this week's episode of Wolves In The City with Urban Wolf, Karnage Kills & Lee Gray- Urban spills the tea on his latest experience joining a PREP trial, how he know feels a sudden pressure to have sex & is Grindr the right way to go? Lee recounts his experience of being on the LGBT club scene for 10 years and experiencing racial discrimination for the first time. The Wolves also explore LGBT prejudices including colorism, where Urban gives us a history lesson on why we might be struggling with racial discrimination within our community. Karnage explores his experiences being mis-gendered due to his feminine image, how we feel about people who don't use correct pro-nouns and our advice on how to approach someone when you're unsure of their gender. Finally, The Wolves dig into non-binary which is a catch-all category for gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine - identities which are outside the gender binary and cisnormativity - is language the problemis podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC Where to find The Wolves on Instagram? @karnagekills@leegray_@its.urbanwolf

#2 The Queen Of The Scene

In the opening episode of Wolves In The City with Urban Wolf, Karnage Kills & Lee Gray - we jump right into the gag of the week where Lee recounts his experience meeting a 33 year old man on Grindr who came out two weeks ago? The Wolves think about their own coming out experiences - the highs and lows & what they learnt. Urban Wolf spills the tea on Karnage Kills where we explore his experience on trying to break into the grime scene as a gay man with a feminine image. Finally, our resident agony uncle Karnage Kills gives his best advice on how to come out of the closet, everything from fighting your way out, saving your coins to get out and picking up a sugar daddy to buy your way out. This podcast is created by the ShoutOut Network to find out more about membership by visit shoutoutnetwork.co.uk Or hit us up on Twitter @WolvesITC Where to find The Wolves on Instagram? @karnagekills@leegray_@its.urbanwolf

#1 Black Gay and Proud

Wolves in the City is a fortnightly podcast for black men keen to explore their sexuality in the city. Hosted by three black male creatives, Urban Wolf, Lee Gray and Karnage the trio shine a light on some of the biggest taboos in the black gay community. Expect explicit language, mature themes and candid conversations about sex, sexual health, abuse and dating.