A Gay and A NonGay

A Gay and A NonGay

By James Barr and Dan Hudson

In a time where we're all threatened by a rhetoric of hate from the people in power; A Gay And A NonGay challenges many of our differences head on and promises that no matter who you are, or what you're into (Bruce Springsteen or Britney), love is love and gay and nongays can be friends.


An independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@DanHudson). Contact us on Twitter, IG or Facebook @gaynongay

Episodes

Breaking Hate with Christian Picciolini

JK Rowling. Donald Trump. Central Park Karen. There's a lot of hate attacking our community and friends right now. Should we try to understand it? Where does it come from and how can we safely engage with people that hate us?James and Dan catch up with Christian Picciolini, a former neo-Nazi skinhead who has dedicated his life to preventing extremism and helping people to disengage from hate movements and other violent ideologies. Trigger warning. This episode contains depictions of violent attacks. Christian talks about his time inside the white supremacy movement, how conversations with black and LGBTQ+ people helped him change direction, and why some minorities can end up embracing extremism.For more information on leaving behind hate and racism, please visit lifeafterhate.org or freeradicals.org.If you’ve been affected by hate and violent extremism and feel comfortable sharing that with us, as ever we’d love to hear from you, please do reach out and email us@gaynongay.com.Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit www.gaynongay.com/shop/ .Join our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ .Please support our podcast, your encouragement helps us to keep going and create meaningful audio that will hopefully one day lead to acceptance for many. Visit www.gaynongay.com/donate/ .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/07/2024m 9s

Pride 2020

Why is Britney a gay icon? Plus Dan's getting a drilling and James tells us his feelings on Pride 2020 after attending the Black Trans Lives march in London. Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit www.gaynongay.com/shop/ . Join our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ .Please support our podcast, your encouragement helps us to keep going and create meaningful audio that will hopefully one day lead to acceptance for many. Visit www.gaynongay.com/donate/ .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/07/2013m 38s

Dating Amber with Lola Petticrew

A year after we travelled to Belfast for BBC Radio 1 documentary about so-called 'gay conversion therapy', the boys have an update on the state of gay in the U.K. Plus we chat to the queer star of Dating Amber, Lola Petticrew about growing up gay in Belfast. This is a beautiful story about overcoming shame and finding one's self.Listen to our series 'From Gay to NonGay' on BBC Sounds here, https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p07lym2f .Watch Dating Amber on Amazon Prime here, https://www.amazon.co.uk/Dating-Amber-Fionn-OShea/dp/B0891QV4YF .Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit www.gaynongay.com/shop/ .Join our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ .Please support our podcast, your encouragement helps us to keep going and create meaningful audio that will hopefully lead to acceptance for many. Visit www.gaynongay.com/donate/ .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24/06/2026m 37s

Love Supreme

We discuss the long overdue US Supreme Court's landmark decision on LGBTQ+ rights in the workplace. Plus with transphobia and racism rife in the UK, does arguing with people on social media achieve anything?Join our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ .Support our podcast, visit www.gaynongay.com/donate/ .Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit www.gaynongay.com/shop/ .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/06/2013m 51s

Smells Like Mean Spirit

James is upset with JK Rowling’s transphobia, Dan is fed up with Nirvana’s Krist Novoselic after his pro-Trump status and we welcome our listener Orren to discuss Black Lives Matter and the struggles of being both gay and black. Thanks for listening babes. Stay safe.Join our listener group, www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ .Support our podcast, visit www.gaynongay.com/donate/ .Shop our merch. Get your very own Pronoun Tee now with 10% to Mermaids, - visit www.gaynongay.com/shop/ .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/06/2021m 53s

Black Lives Matter

A small audio note from us this week & some linksFor ways you can support Black Lives Matter visit:https://blacklivesmatters.carrd.co/..Plus:Anti-racism resources for white people: bit.ly/ANTIRACISMRESOURCES Why don't 'All Lives Matter'?: https://twitter.com/JlTEAGEGE/status/1265838993196740608?s=20/.UK Black Pride: https://twitter.com/ukblackpride/.Watch 13th streaming free on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krfcq5pF8u8  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
03/06/201m 48s

Circus of Books with Rachel Mason

Have you ever wondered what it would be like if your parents owned a gay porn empire? 🍆💦. James and Dan chat to artist and film-maker Rachel Mason about her new Netflix film Circus of Books, which tells the story of her parents’ bookstore and gay pornography shop in West Hollywood. Contains upsetting audio and multiple spoilers.For more information about PFLAG (USA) and FFLAG (UK) visit PFLAG.org. and FFLag.org.uk.Thanks for listening! Our pronoun tee has sold out but we're back in stock soon, be the first to get one - sign up to our mailing list at www.gaynongay.com. Love you babes x  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/05/2020m 52s

Masc 4 Mask

The boys are back and after weeks of amazing guests, it's just family this week. James & Dan chat about our latest documentary 'A Cure For HIV?', will Dan be taking an HIV test? Plus, is wearing a Covid Mask de-masculating? and find out why Dan can't look at a tin of M&S biscuits again.Our new merch, The Pronoun Tee has sold out but it's all good :). We're getting ready for our new #pride collection, sign up to our mailing list at gaynongay.com and be the first to get YOURS.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
21/05/2019m 50s

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 2

"I remember all the people who died with HIV, they’re always in my heart and I want to be their voice".This week we welcome Adam Castillejo, The London Patient - the second person in the world to be cured of HIV.In a truly inspiring, life-affirming interview, Adam opens up about his extraordinary journey and his mission to be a voice of hope for millions - from being diagnosed with HIV at 23 years old, to his fight against both HIV and cancer & his battle to overcome both illnesses, which stunned the world. Trigger warning: Contains upsetting audio.The London Patient: A Cure For HIV? is a two-part series - funded by the Wellcome Trust and the British Podcast Awards Fund. What does the London Patient’s story tell us about a cure for HIV? Plus amongst a backdrop of Covid19, can the story of HIV and AIDS offer the world any hope? The most recent estimate suggests that there are currently around 7,500 undiagnosed HIV+ people living in the U.K. If you are HIV+ and on effective treatment, you can’t pass it on. Undetectable = Untransmittable. Get tested for HIV now, stop the spread. In the U.K. visit https://www.testnowstophiv.com/.. for a free test at home kit..If you're touched by this episode and wish to donate to charity, Adam’s preferred charities are;Anthony Nolan Foundation - https://www.anthonynolan.org/..Imperlal Health Charity - https://www.imperialcharity.org.uk/..Hospitality Action - https://www.hospitalityaction.org.uk/..National AIDS Trust - https://www.nat.org.uk/..This episode is bought to you with thanks to;MTV Staying Alive Foundation - http://www.mtvstayingalive.org/..Terrence Higgins Trust - https://www.tht.org.uk/take-action..National AIDS Trust - https://www.nat.org.uk/..Visit our website for more information on some of the amazing charities currently supporting HIV+ people worldwide.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/05/2021m 55s

The London Patient: A Cure for HIV? Part 1

We've heard about 'expendable' populations before, but last time they meant gay people.32 million people have died of AIDS related illnesses since the 1980s and in 2018, 770,000 people died worldwide because of the virus. The London Patient: A Cure For HIV? is the first episode in a brand new two-part series - funded by the Wellcome Trust and the British Podcast Awards Fund.This week, we look at the start of the epidemic, chat to AIDS activist Sir Nick Partridge OBE and head to Oxford to meet Professor John Frater who explains the science behind HIV. Trigger warning: Contains upsetting audio.Incredible advances in medicine now mean that if you are HIV+ and on effective treatment, you can’t pass it on. Undetectable = Untransmittable. And in March 2019, it was revealed that a second person had been cured of HIV - The London Patient.What does the London Patient’s story tell us about a cure for HIV? Plus in the age of Covid19, can the story of HIV and AIDS offer the world any hope?This episode is bought to you with thanks to the MTV Staying Alive Foundation, the Terrence Higgins Trust and the National AIDS Trust.Visit our website for more information on some of the amazing charities currently supporting HIV+ people worldwide.Get tested for HIV now, stop the spread. In the U.K. visit https://www.testnowstophiv.com/.. for a free test at home kit. .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/05/2020m 20s

Owain Wyn Evans

Famous for drumming to the BBC News Theme and throwing shade in his infamous drag queen weather, welsh weather presenter Owain Wyn Evans joins us for a 'cwtch' to chat acceptance, campness and his favourite contestant on RuPaul's Drag Race Season 12.   See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/04/2019m 1s

Love Lives Here with Amanda Jetté Knox

It's Lesbian Visibility Week and the boys are joined from Ottawa, Canada by LGBTQ/mental health advocate and trans ally Amanda Jetté Knox. Her family’s incredible story is one of the most inspiring queer journeys' we've ever heard.We're so excited, our new brand new merch 'The Pronoun Tee' is out now! Be the first to flaunt your fabulous self, go to www.gaynongay.shop . to customise yours now . 10% of every tee goes to Mermaids' and their amazing work with trans kids and their families.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/04/2032m 33s

Camp

James and Dan chat about an Australian interview with Tiger King's John Finlay, and we discuss the meaning of the word 'Camp' with British comedian Stephen Bailey.We're also so excited to tell you about our new shop! Visit www.gaynongay.shop. and be the first to flaunt our fabulous glitzy pronoun tee. Available in both hot pink and metal. 10% of all sales go directly to Mermaids Gender and their incredibly important work with trans youth and their families.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16/04/2020m 32s

Snatch Game

Having watched a total of zero episodes of Ru Paul’s Drag Race, Dan gives his opinion on Aiden Zhane’s departure from the show, leading to an unexpected conversation about the metal community and also James being bullied.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/04/2018m 22s

Lowkey Worker

Has A Gay and a NonGay's life changed since the UK went on lockdown last week? Dan's a 'key' worker apparently but James has accidentally moved in with someone and things are maybe a little too intimate 😬  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/04/2020m 36s

Dr. Ranj

It's time for some facts from an actual doctor. We're joined by Dr. Ranj to chat Covid-19 and it's effect on the gay community. Are hookups okay? What does it mean for people living with HIV and can we still get pizza delivered?Caught up on Coronavirus? Skip to 18.00 to hear about Dr Ranj's life growing up as a gay Asian man, his marriage to a nongay and how it felt to finally embrace his authentic, beautiful self.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/03/2032m 10s

Five Guys a Week

Live from the gay and nongay bedrooms, the boys discuss James’ 'new Channel 4 show', and the problems with not hooking up during the Covid-19 outbreak.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/03/2015m 22s

Live in Dublin with Colm O’Gormon & Rev. Chris Hudson

This episode contains a priest swearing, themes of child abuse and gay conversion therapy.To celebrate St.Patrick’s Day (yes we know it's next week!) we’re sharing highlights from our live show in Dublin. It’s one of our favourite shows to date featuring a breathtaking conversation about hope with the Executive Director of Amnesty International Ireland Colm O'Gorman, and a surprisingly candid chat about ‘gay conversion therapy’ with godsend Rev. Chris Hudson of the All Souls Church in Belfast. Plus we're playing 'Halo or Homo' - Is it a quote from the bible, or a homosexual?Trigger warning. After being raped by a priest at the age 14, Colm O’Gormon tells us how he sued the pope, forcing the pontiff to tell the truth of what the catholic church knew about the rape and abuse of children by its priests. ---We're on tour soon and we can't wait to see you, tell your friends, bring your own NonGay's! We can't wait to meet you all, get tickets now from www.gaynongay.com/live/. We're playing Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow from 22nd March, with special guests including Dr. Ranj, Sophie Anderson from The Cock Destroyers, Divina De Campo & more!  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/03/2035m 13s

Leather Jackets

Dan and James chat about recent police raids on Gay Village dark room sex in Manchester. Plus our podcast has a brand new sound thanks to queer pop music icon Bright Light Bright Light! Yay. Let us know what you think?We're on tour soon and we can't wait to see you, tell your friends, bring your own NonGay's! We can't wait to meet you all, get tickets now from www.gaynongay.com/live/. . We're playing Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow from 22nd March, with special guests including Dr. Ranj, Sophie Anderson from The Cock Destroyers, Divina De Campo & more!  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/03/2014m 1s

Double Standards

What a dish! Is it ok for James to objectify people even though Dan can't? Plus we've got a very special adult tour announcement! Join us for The Podcast Tour! We've announced some of our special guests and we can't wait to see you all in person. Get tickets now, click here or visit www.gaynongay.com/live. .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26/02/2016m 11s

It’s Gonna Be Okay with MUNA

James and Dan catch up with the ‘greatest band in the world’ for a deep dive into queerness, safe spaces for LGBTQ+ people, self-deprecating lyrics and self-promotion. Plus with everything happening in the world today... Is it going to be ok?Join us for The Podcast Tour! We've announced some of our special guests and we can't wait to see you all in person. Get tickets now, click here or visit www.gaynongay.com/live. .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/02/2027m 11s

The podcast tour is coming

Happy Galentines Day. We're so happy to announce some of the incredible LGBTQ+ guests joining us on The Podcast tour 🏳️‍🌈🎤🎧! We can't wait to meet you and your friends this March :). Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live. .  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/02/203m 49s

Phillip Schofield

The boys discuss the reaction to Phillip Schofield coming out as gay on national television, and the impact of ‘straight-seeming relationships’. If you’re affected by the issues in this episode, visit https://straightpartnersanonymous.com/. . For advice on coming out, check out Ditch the label's top 11 tips https://www.ditchthelabel.org/top-11-tips-for-coming-out-as-lesbian-gay-or-bi/ . here.We’re coming to see you babes. Join us on our first ever UK tour.-22/03 Brighton-23/03 London-24/03 Birmingham-26/03 Manchester-27/03 GlasgowTap here for tickets, www.gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet you  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/02/2016m 58s

Fleabagging

James is educating Dan about some 2020 dating trends, the library is back open and we're putting a load on.We’re coming to see you hunty. Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for tickets http://gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet you!22/03 Brighton,23/03 London,24/03 Birmingham,26/03 Manchester,27/03 Glasgow.Do the admin and respond to our new listener survey please, you'd be doing us a massive favour podcastviews.com. . Thank you.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/02/2013m 57s

The big three

James has said 'the big three', Dan is appropriating gay culture again and we chat about the BBC's official response to our Gavin & Stacy complaints; after they broadcast the word 'F****t' into over 17.1 million homes on Christmas Day.We’re coming to see you babes! Join us on our first ever UK tour, check out our dates below and tap here for tickets http://gaynongay.com/live. . We can’t wait to meet you!22/03 Brighton, 23/03 London, 24/03 Birmingham, 26/03 Manchester, 27/03 Glasgow.Do the admin and respond to our new listener survey, you'd be doing us a massive favour podcastviews.com. . Thank you.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/01/2015m 7s

Friends forever?

The boys discuss how hard it is to keep friendships - but is it easier for LGBTQ+ people? Plus James thinks he's worked out how Dan's relationship works.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/01/2013m 7s

Twenty Twen-T

We’re declaring 2020… TwentyTwenT – the year to actively go out of your way to stand up for our trans friends, especially when people like Sharron Davies are coming after them every day on twitter. -Plus Dan’s invaded a safe space – is everyone really welcome?-Read a recent research report on transphobia online here. https://www.brandwatch.com/reports/transphobia/ .-Please donate to one of our favourite charities , Mermaids UK and help children, young people and their families to achieve a happier life in the face of gender adversity, https://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/donation-web/charity?charityId=1013391&stop_mobi=yes.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
15/01/2015m 25s

Gavin and Stacey

Happy New Year! Dan can't stop using his '2020 vision' joke 🙄and James is no longer a 'salon gay'. Dan gets defensive and Fairytale of New York is back... We discuss the fallout from Gavin and Stacey broadcasting the word F***** on Christmas Day. Sigh.Get tickets for our 2020 tour now, visit www.gaynongay.com/live/. See you in March.What do you think about Gavin and Stacey celebrating the F word? Join the conversation in our new Facebook listener group, an inclusive safe space for you to meet other listeners from across the world 👉www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/01/2011m 54s

Best of 2019

Catch up on the best of A Gay & A NonGay from 2019! We wish you all a happy holiday period and a fabulous New Year! See you in 2020.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.Happy Holigays x  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/12/1933m 52s

Santa Strikes Back

It's the most homophobic time of the year. James has censored 'Fairytale of New York' on his radio show but Dan notices a complication. Plus we welcome LGBTQ+ ally, Santa Claus, for an exclusive chat ahead of Christmas 🎅.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat, visit www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay/ . Get tickets for our 2020 tour, https://www.gigsandtours.com/tour/a-gay-and-a-nongay/ . we can't wait to meet you.Happy Holigays x  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/12/1913m 37s

No Bumming Please

The Bumming Tour is now called 'The Podcast Tour' in some places because we can't promote 'Bumming' on Facebook'. Dan met the Cock Destroyers and James is having trouble adjusting to having a boyfriend. Plus there's an important update on the protests against LGBTQ+ inclusive education at schools in Birmingham.Continue the conversation in our new Facebook group, a safe and inclusive place for our listeners to be themselves and chat. www.Facebook.com/groups/gaynongay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/12/1919m 58s

LGBTQ+ inclusive education with Olly Pike

We chat LGBTQ+ inclusive education with amazing Children's Author/Illustrator and YouTuber, Olly Pike. This episode contains mild themes of bullying and suicide.Donate one of Olly's inclusive books to your school this Christmas, click here.Join us for our 2020 'Bumming Tour'! 'Bum' someone you love this Christmas by surprising a friend with tickets to one of our shows, tap here for more info :).  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/12/1920m 15s

#NotAllStraightMen

James has had enough of NonGay's after Dan moved in... for one night. Plus James has a new boyfriend but refuses to talk about it and we're announcing our 2020 UK tour 'The Podcast Tour' ! Why not 'bum' someone you love by buying them a ticket for Christmas. Tickets are on sale now, click here yay.We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/11/1914m 7s

Live in Manchester: Stephen Bailey

Live from the Manchester Podcast Festival. Dan and James have had a falling out 👀. The boys are joined by our voiceover Fiona live, plus we chat to one of our favourite comedians Stephen Bailey. We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donate Mug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop Thanks for listening x  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/11/1950m 59s

Leaving the Westboro Baptist Church with Megan Phelps-Roper

The Westboro Baptist Church, notorious for picketing funerals and spreading homophobia, are one of the most hateful and homophobic Christian organisations in the world. Megan Phelps-Roper was born to hate, joining her family at an anti-Gay picket at just 5 years old. The pain, sadness and shame Megan and her family have caused LGBTQ+ people around the world is difficult to comprehend, but since leaving the church in 2012 Megan has dedicated her life to spreading love, compassion and understanding. In this episode, James and Dan chat to Megan about her journey. This episode contains strong language, offensive ideology and religious rhetoric you may find offensive.Read #Unfollow, Megan's story about the rarest thing of all: a person changing their mind. It's a fascinating insight into a closed world of extreme belief, a biography of a complex family, and a hope-inspiring memoir of a young woman finding the courage to find compassion for others, as well as herself. Tap here https://www.quercusbooks.co.uk/titles/megan-phelps-roper/unfollow/9781787478008/Come and see us live on tour in 2020! Get tickets at gaynongay.com/liveWe're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/11/1932m 50s

Ellen loves Bush

Dan still hasn't watched #DragRaceUK and the boys discuss Ellen's friendship with George W. Bush 👀.Plus if you want to see us live at a show we're touring the UK in March 2020 - click here to buy tickets!We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/11/1913m 25s

Dan's mate's Dad wrote a Porno

The boys celebrate marriage equality in Northern Ireland and James goes to a fancy awards do where he unexpectedly learns all about Dan’s ‘weird’ life at university.We're touring the UK in March 2020! Get tickets now, click here babes! We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' Recently the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30/10/1911m 47s

James' Feet

James can't walk, and the doctor thinks it's chlamydia. What?!Plus we're ready to bum you! We've just announced a huge 2020 UK tour! Get tickets now babes, tap here! We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.' This week the law changed in Northern Ireland and finally they have marriage equality - we are so happy for you!Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
23/10/1910m 20s

Live in London: Matthew Todd & ShayShay

Live from the London Podcast Festival, Dan and James return to the stage joined by Matthew Todd, author of Straight Jacket and Pride, and welcome their first ever drag queen ShayShay.YAY we're going on tour! We'd love to see you in March 2020 - We'll see you in Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow. Tap here for more info huns!We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/10/1940m 38s

An Outing

Dan and James take part in an accidental outing, and Dan has an unexpected incident with a dog.We're heading on tour in March 2020! We can't wait to meet you in Brighton, London, Birmingham, Manchester & Glasgow! Tap here for tickets and info.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/10/1917m 46s

Live from Edinburgh: Larry Dean

It's our final show live from Edinburgh & today we're joined by Larry Dean! He tells us if he’s a postman or a postbox, deciphers Scottish slang and talks about his hilarious show Fandan.Plus if you want to come and see us live we've just announced a huge UK tour in 2020! Get tickets at www.gaynongay.com/live. We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/10/1948m 57s

Live from Edinburgh: Rhys Nicholson

Live from Edinburgh the boys chat to hilarious Australian comedian Rhys Nicholson and ask the all-important question - is it Home and Away or Gay? And does James actually like the look of dicks?Join us at a live show in 2020! Get tickets for 'The Bumming Tour' at gaynongay.com/live. We're so proud of our three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/09/1942m 6s

Live from Edinburgh: Suzi Ruffell

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - Dan tells us about a rather sexy sounding exercise class he's been going to and we're joined by the incredible comedian Suzi Ruffell.Come and see us LIVE! We've just announced 'The Bumming Tour' and we're coming to a UK city near you! Go to gaynongay.com/live to buy tickets!We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/09/1945m 23s

Live from Edinburgh: Jodie Mitchell & Tom Ballard

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by drag king extraordinaire Jodie Mitchell and Australian comedian and late night TV host Tom Ballard.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay - search Gay Non-Gay on BBC Sounds. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/09/1945m 13s

Live in Edinburgh : Rosie Jones & No Country for Young Women

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we're joined by 'triple threat' comedian Rosie Jones talking about her identity as a gay disabled woman, and how she discovered her sexuality, as well as the stars of BBC Radio 1's No Country for Young Women podcast, Sadia Azmat and Monty Onanuga.We're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/09/1943m 50s

Live in Edinburgh : Sophie Duker & Jen Brister

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 - we've got some big dick energy in the house with our amazing guests - Sophie Duker and Jen Brister. Plus we're so proud to announce our new three part BBC Radio 1 documentary From Gay to NonGay. Lots of you got in touch telling us about LGBTQ+ life in Northern Ireland so we headed out there with the BBC to learn what it's like to be gay in NI with the pressure of the church and so called 'gay conversion therapy.'Help us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
04/09/1939m 26s

Live in Edinburgh : Richard Gadd & Christina Bianco

From the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 listen to our live recording with Richard Gadd and Christina Bianco. On today's episode James challenges impressionist diva Christina to make metal more ‘Gay friendly’ and the boys chat to comedian Richard Gadd about his latest show, the award-winning ‘Baby Reindeer.' Trigger warning - this episode does contain conversations about abuse.Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxHelp us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/08/1928m 0s

Live in Edinburgh : Jena Friedman

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena Friedman to talk democracy, the state of America, their fave bros Russia and smashing the trolls! Plus join James and Dan celebrating Slipknot's UK #1 album (let's face it - this is just Dan)Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay.Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxHelp us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/08/1942m 42s

Live in Edinburgh: Jena Friedman

Live from the Edinburgh Fringe Festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness. Today we're joined by American political comedian Jena Friedman to talk democracy, the state of America, their fave bros Russia and smashing the trolls! Plus join James and Dan celebrating Slipknot's UK #1 album (let's face it - this is just Dan)Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay.Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxHelp us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop
22/08/1942m 42s

Live in Edinburgh : Jack Rooke & BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluids

Surprise! We're live from the Edinburgh Fringe festival 2019 and bringing your feed extra GAY and NONGAY-ness every Monday and Wednesday. In our first recording, Dan's baked cakes 😱we invite gay comedian Jack Rooke on stage to chat about homophobia, plus the stars of BBC Radio 1's Unexpected Fluid's Alix Fox & Riyadh Khalaf talk sex and... spaff.Join James and Dan plus special guests at the #EdinburghFringe every night from 10.25pm, until August 25th 2019. Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now http://www.underbellyfestival.com/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-non-gay.Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxHelp us out by donating as little as $1 a month. Join our patreon at www.gaynongay.com/donateMug someone off in our official shop, visit www.gaynongay.com/shop  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/08/1937m 32s

Ikea or Death!

Dan gets his tongue tied, and not just from kissing James! Plus we revisit a game from Dan's past.---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/08/199m 43s

James 5

Ever dated anyone with your own name? Dan is fascinated to find out what James does with James, er 5? ---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
07/08/198m 46s

A Gay, A NonGay and A Mae

Live from our big London show at The Underbelly in June 2019 - hear our chat with the amazing Mae Martin at A Gay & A NonGay Live!--Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31/07/1920m 0s

Metro

Dan writes an article for a newspaper that has James 'double tapping' for days Read it here: https://tinyurl.com/NonGayAlly---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24/07/1913m 35s

Jamie Dornan and Macklemore

Dan is buzzing after James' DAD mistook him for Jamie Dornan. Will James accept this as proof that they look alike?---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/07/199m 38s

A Gay, A NonGay and a Pizza? 🍕

James and Dan are back from World Pride in New York. Did James finally submit to the lure of Scott's Pizza Tour? And is Dan a good ally? He doesn't think so.---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/07/1919m 29s

Pizza Pride 🍕🏳️‍🌈

James & Dan are off to #WorldPride in NYC - both want inches, but of a different kind! Happy Pride from A Gay and A NonGay!---Get tickets for our BIG Edinburgh fringe run now at http://www.underbellyedinburgh.co.uk/whats-on/a-gay-and-a-nongayListen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26/06/1913m 52s

Phubbing

Is it okay for James to watch the RuPaul Final during our podcast recording? Are we allowed to be on our phones if we're hanging out with mates? Dan is triggered.--Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/06/1911m 39s

James' Big Weekend

The curse of James announcing he has a boyfriend on the podcast and then having to retract it a week later continues... 😞--Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/06/1920m 19s

A Gay, A NonGay and A Grandaddy with Armistead Maupin

Happy Pride month! Iconic author Armistead Maupin joins James & Dan to chat about Tales of the City being turned into a Netflix Original in A Gay, A NonGay & A Grandaddy! The boys chat about our shared LGBTQ+ history, Trans rights, Stonewall 50 and err 'bumming'.We kick off our first ever Pride Tour this weekend, see you this Saturday 8th June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live We're playing Dublin (23rd) and Belfast (24th) this month too & return to the Edinburgh Fringe 2019 this August. Tap on gaynongay.com/live for info.--Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/06/1927m 33s

NO SPOILERS

Dan goes on a ridiculous rant, but NO SPOILERS.Plus we want to see you next Saturday 8 June in London at our BIG SHOW - buy tickets at gaynongay.com/live--Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxGet in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/05/1913m 30s

Guacamole

James has something to tell you... he’s guacamole. Plus we dive deep on iced coffee and the need to feel special. --Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxGet in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/05/199m 28s

Shawn Mendes

Should NonGay people have to come out too? Plus there's a huge announcement about our first ever UK Pride Tour! Tickets are on sale now at gaynongay.com/live ---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxGet in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
15/05/1914m 51s

Gay Relationships Are Hard

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse.Today's episode celebrates Digital Pride: the online movement, created by Gay Star News so you can take part in pride whoever and wherever you are. This year Digital Pride is tackling loneliness and isolation, find out more at gaystarnews.comWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxGet in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/05/1921m 50s

Hugs

Dan didn't make the rules but he's got some thoughts on man on man hugging. Plus who tf is Pete?--Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.comGet in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/05/1912m 45s

A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary

We talk a lot about being Gay & NonGay, but today Caitlin joins us for another perspective in our special episode A Gay, A NonGay & A Non-Binary. Host of BBC’s NB podcast, Caitlin joins us to help us understand what it means to be Non-Binary, how to be a better ally and how gender identity can be confusing no matter how you feel.Listen to Caitlin & co-host Amrou’s NB podcast on BBC Sounds for more.& A Non Binary is the second in our series learning more about other identities and sexualities. You can listen to our previous episode & A Trans.---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.comMug someone off at our shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24/04/1933m 36s

Consent

Dan's got a pitch for our big live show at Underbelly Festival... get ready for 'Play Your Gays Right'! Plus we talk consent in LGBTQ+ spaces and whether it's okay to 'mug someone off' if you've invited them back for sex?---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/04/1916m 16s

Dorchester

We catch up on the horrific change in law against LGBTQ+ people in Brunei and the subsequent protests going on at The Dorchester in London. ---Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yx We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/04/1919m 9s

Burnout

Dan and James feel like they're suffering from burnout but for different reasons. Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
03/04/1911m 36s

Eau d'amour

Dan's discovered a new perfume that he thinks James might be into... Listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and get in touch us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/03/1912m 57s

Kebab Awards

There's a lot of confusion around room odorisers and Dan has finally convinced James to go to the British Kebab Awards! And a brand new NonGay Eye as Callum asks Dan's advice on how to come out.For more advice on coming out listen to our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here: https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p073t6yxWe hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop and invite us to the Whale of the Year Awards at us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/03/1911m 39s

0121

What do Dan and James think of couples who call their partner "This One" on social media? We've a huge announcement about our BBC Radio 1 team up with Life Hacks and the latest on homophobic protests outside a school in Birmingham. Plus NonGay Eye's back and our listener Mason wants to know if he's missing out on the fun of his 20s whilst being in a gay relationship? We've taken loads of your wonderful messages to our favourite advice podcast! Listen to our brand new series with Radio 1's Life Hacks podcast via the BBC Sounds app or stream it here https://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0738blz. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/03/1916m 43s

Exclusively Gay

How NonGay is Dan? James puts him through a vigorous Kinsey Scale test - plus we remember Queer As Folk and the boys discuss the UK Government’s new LGBT Education action plan--We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/03/1915m 6s

Destroyers

Dan’s fed up of people asking him questions and James introduces Dan to gay twitter’s most iconic new meme - the Cock Destroyers.--We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/02/1911m 4s

A Technicality

Dan and James talk about Manchester Pride's decision to add black and brown to the rainbow flag. And what does "technically single" mean?---We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20/02/1915m 20s

Timothée Champagne

James has done the maths on how many guys he's slept with and so has his mum! Dan has no idea who Timothée Chalamet is and Talia needs to press 15s repeatedly. We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/02/1911m 16s

NonGay Night Out

Dan has a big night out with his friends, and it's the most NonGay thing you've ever heard... or is it?We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/02/1917m 2s

Erased

James & Dan have a huge announcement, and with Boy Erased opening in cinemas in the UK soon the boys discuss gay conversion therapy with star and director Joel Edgerton.We hope you join us at our big show - June 8th @ Underbelly Festival, South Bank, London. Buy tickets now at gaynongay.com/tickets.Find out more about The Trevor Project's 50 Bills 50 States, or the podcast UnErased to understand more about conversion therapy in the US. Check out The Rainbow Project in Northern Ireland, promoting the health and wellbeing of LGBT+ people and their families. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Valentines at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30/01/1930m 9s

Fabulous

Fabulous means Fabulous and James uses the podcast as a sensible (!) way to communicate with someone romantic.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shopThis episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
23/01/1912m 10s

Tales from Miami

James is back from a holiday to Miami with some new vocabulary, a new use for twitter and shocks Dan with an upsetting story.For support and information about HIV we recommend Terrence Higgins Trust in the UK and in the US Greater Than Aids.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shopThis episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16/01/1914m 27s

Dan's Pants

Dan's world is thrown into confusion when a new moneymaking opportunity presents itself and James is cute to Dan. Swoon.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/01/1921m 50s

TwentyBiTeen

#20GAYTEEN is over! Happy 20-bi-teen!This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for New Year at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/01/1915m 55s

Best of 2018

Dan’s had enough of James’ ‘meltdowns’ for one year, so he’s complied a Best Of full of his fave 2018 moments! Expect admin, your mum jokes and some pretty shocking cow biology. Plus more serious stuff including an interview with the amazing Juno Dawson from our special episode A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans, and highlights from our 100th Episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival. This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/12/1841m 46s

Santa

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays from A Gay & A NonGay where we're delighted to welcome Santa back down our chimney to spill the tea on his wishes for Christmas 2018.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/12/1812m 14s

Fairytale of New York

You scumbag you maggot you cheap lousy f*****... is Fairytale of New York homophobic? Are radio and TV stations that play it uncensored in twenty-Gay-teen, implicitly homophobic? James & Dan have a new version, and the only thing offensive is their singing.This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men - chappyapp.com. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop - gaynongay.com/shop--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/12/1818m 29s

STI

Back together after the #RedRun, Dan shares his top tips on how to get over someone and is all this 'depression stuff' James talks about just 'podcast content'? Please remember to get regularly tested at your local sexual health clinic - find out more at ASHA or the NHS or your local clinic.Plus we finally have MERCH! Mug someone off for Christmas at our shop!This episode is supported by Chappy, the gay relationships app for men. Download it in the app store now and find your next gay relationship.--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/12/1815m 8s

World Aids Day

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection.Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.  Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources:Terrence Higgins TrustGreater Than AidsI Want Prep NowThe Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. ❤️--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/12/1831m 9s

World Aids Day 2018

A special episode for us to talk about how we feel about AIDS and HIV. December 1 marks the 30th anniversary of World AIDS Day. Launched in 1988, the annual observance highlights worldwide efforts to combat HIV/AIDS and is also an occasion to show support for those living with HIV and to remember those who have died from the infection.Join Dan & James as they meet our listener Christian who got in touch after PrEPisode to tell us what it's like to live in London as a HIV+ man in 2018. They then travel to London's Noël Coward Theatre to meet with actor John Benjamin Hickey who is currently starring in the essential must watch play The Inheritance - that explores the generation after the peak of the AIDS crisis, plus journalist Matt Cain joins us to talk about the stigma of life on PrEP and his trip to Russia to investigate how homophobia fuels Russia's HIV epidemic.  Please don't take anything said in this episode as medical advice or absolute fact. For more information about HIV/AIDS please talk to your doctor or we recommend these resources:Terrence Higgins TrustGreater Than AidsI Want Prep NowThe Aids Memorial on instagram tells stories of love, loss and remembrance. ❤️--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/12/1831m 6s

Wrestling

It's a tale of two nights out involving semi-clothed men when James & Dan have both have a very triggering experience in each other’s worlds. Is WWE and hitting people for 'entertainment' just another display of toxic masculinity? And is all male BOYLESQUE basically just porn? And if you want to impress Dan, don’t get your dick out. Order pizza. 25 of them.Support the boys in this weekend's 10K #RedRun in aid of Positive East on Worlds Aids Day.If you're in London, get tickets for Briefs Close Encounters at Christmas.--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
28/11/1826m 23s

Deep Feelings

How easy is it keeping your friends if you talk about them on your podcast, never mind any new love interest? TLDR - James is no longer dating.Podcasters anonymous - tell us your woes: us@gaynongay.com--A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
21/11/1816m 48s

Isolation

James shares some upsetting but unsurprising news from Stonewall on LGBT mental health in the UK but Dan’s friend seems a bit bored of us discussing James’ depression on the pod. There's also some admin and both A Gay and A NonGay clearly know absolutely nothing about vaginas. Read the full LGBT in Health Report online.-A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/11/1824m 22s

PC 4 PC

We dive deep on the perils of Instagram and find that Dan doesn't even recognise his own humble brags. #Blessed-A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
07/11/1821m 54s

👻 Ghosting 👻

James wants you to know he is ok and discusses the stigma surrounding anti-depressants. We also talk ghosting, because it's Halloween and we love a tenuous link. How long can you be 'mugged off' before you've been ghosted and is ghosting the right thing to do if someone you don't fancy keeps getting in touch? Top tip : don't have a nap if someone is waiting on a reply.Plus love and solidarity with all our LGBTQ+ Brazilian family.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31/10/1821m 29s

Exclusive

Trigger warning : this episode contains discussion of depression and suicide.James is having a difficult time and Dan knows a weird amount of Meat Loaf lyrics . Plus how do you know when it’s time to go exclusive in a gay relationship.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24/10/1814m 6s

First Boyfriend

James tells Dan about his first boyfriend and everything takes a turn for a conversation we thought was confined to Gay & NonGay fanfic.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/10/1823m 0s

Paula

It's getting cold but Dan is here with 10 fantastic reasons why you should wear shorts all year round, plus memories of the Solihull Library and Arts Complex in 2003. What more could you want?---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/10/1813m 38s

Bert & Ernie

Dan reviews his queen of rock Avril Lavigne's new single at HIGH VOLUME, and there's a startling realisation about Dan & James similarity to Bert & Ernie.Plus some important information on the Gender Reform Act - please find out more and submit to the consultation here: https://www.stonewall.org.uk/gender-recognition-act---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
03/10/1812m 40s

Pride & Prejudice

It's the end of Pride season in the UK and James has some upsetting thoughts. Plus Dan has a beard - does he need to keep it oiled?---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26/09/1828m 15s

Come Together

Happy 101st! It's business as usual as James propositions Dan for some male bonding. ---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/09/1816m 37s

100

It's episode 100 of A Gay & A Nongay! Can you believe? It's a long way from 'Hello' and NonHat wearers.Listen to our centenary episode recorded live at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September. Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate ---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/09/1840m 6s

Banana 🍌

It's a short one this week as Dan and James get ready for their celebratory 100th episode!Rule No. 1: Don't sexualise a banana 🍌---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/09/188m 12s

Gay on the Train

Dan gets chatted up on the train and won't stop bringing up YMCA while James can't stop laughing at Dan's recent foray into the world of lip-sync.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/08/1817m 17s

Gay for Pay

It’s official. Dan is ‘gay for pay’. Plus the boys are back from sell out shows at the Edinburgh Fringe festival where they discussed NonGay Jack Whitehall getting cast as Disney’s first openly gay character. Featuring a chat with out LA actor, star of brilliant ‘Tilda Swinton Answers an ad on Craigslist’ (see it in Edinburgh until August 26th) Tom Lenk (aka Andrew from Buffy) ---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/08/1819m 24s

Number 10

We discuss James' recent DJ set at... 10 Downing Street. What should you do when politicians with questionable histories invite you round for tea? Read the UK LGBT Action Plan here.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show - our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
15/08/1822m 6s

Taxi 4 James

Nothing makes James laugh harder than Dan's teenage band, and Dan has finally caught up with Queer Eye.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018 or our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/08/1814m 29s

Birds

Dan wants water, and knows an alarming amount about birds. Say hey to him if you see him at Brighton Pride this weekend, but James won't be there. Plus an announcement about our forthcoming 100th episode!---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018 or our 100th episode at the London Podcast Festival on Sat 8 September.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/08/1818m 9s

Freaky Friday

Dan has “finished The Velvet Rage” and is now the expert on gay men.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/07/1819m 49s

Mincing

Dan's back from celebrating his first ever Pride in Seattle! The boys discuss the anti-trans protesters at #PrideInLondon, and "what kind of fresh hell, is a lad?". ---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/07/1816m 53s

Save Dan

Is James 'hysterical'? Is Dan being bullied? #SaveDan. Plus James is done with f*ckboys and Dan's had a tweet about ice cubes.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/07/1818m 20s

BREEDER

Dan has 'the gist' of Pride, and James needs to remember this weekend is not all about husband hunting. Plus a case of vocabulary when the nongay gets called an unexpected name.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
04/07/1815m 3s

Russia

Would your family and friends be proud of you being LGBTQ+, even if it put themselves in danger? Should a gay person lie about their sexuality if they're in danger? James' brother is heading to Russia for the #WorldCup and it raises some questions... Plus the boys are coming to Edinburgh Fringe and there's so much ADMIN (Dan needs a place to stay...)---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/06/1819m 2s

Pronouns

James and Dan explore whether to talk about pronouns in daily life, and Dan is inspired by the fab five to dish out some advice.-----This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (he/him - @imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (he/him - @danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia (she/her)  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20/06/1818m 12s

Section 28 🤢

We forgot to wish Section 28 a happy birthday, oops! And why is everyone going on about Russia? Ugh.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/06/1818m 11s

Thirsty

James & Dan go to a festival, but James is too thirsty for all this NonGay chatter.---This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukCome see us at our next live show at the Edinburgh Fringe on 16/17 August 2018Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/06/1812m 10s

Shorts

Dan's love of shorts comes back to bite him (IN THE BUM)This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30/05/1811m 57s

The Bum Sex Files

James has had 'hot sex with a hot guy' and wants to tell Dan all about it. Meanwhile, Dan has questions regarding a recent Amazon purchase.----This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
23/05/1816m 37s

Officially Funny - our British Podcast Award winning entry

We just won the Bronze Award for BEST COMEDY at the British Podcast Awards and consider us weeping and screaming all at once! Bottoms, Santa, Avril and Bumming - we thought you might like to hear what makes us award winning :-) Thank you for being with us!------Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/05/1819m 2s

Meringue

James wants to talk about gay dads leading Dan to somehow accidentally volunteer to become a co-parent with James.----This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16/05/1815m 50s

Berlin

Everyone gets a bit giddy when a trip to Berlin is mentioned. The least morning commute appropriate episode ever.----This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/05/1813m 42s

Gay Bar

Dan finds himself uncomfortable on a night out, while James stresses about becoming a home owner.----This episode is supported by Emerald Life, the UK's award-winning inclusive insurance provider - emeraldlife.co.ukTickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/05/1816m 4s

🐓 Blocker

It's finally time for James to apologise to Dan after he receives some listener feedback. Plus has Dan been deliberately 'cockblocking' James? ---Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/04/1813m 14s

Slow Cooker

Say what, we've been nominated for Best Comedy Podcast at The British Podcast Awards. Yay! James is "shook" and Dan has a problem with it. Plus the boys discuss Dan's new toy. Spoiler alert: it's a slow cooker. Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/04/1815m 50s

Korn or Porn

Dan has prepared a special ROCK game for James to 'enjoy.' James makes a phone call and gets an unexpected answer.Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/04/1812m 52s

Bi Now, Bi Later

We’re chatting bisexuality, James has his first Patreon Boyfriend plus Dan’s explanation of inverted hatred in the metal community is alarmingly familiar----Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
04/04/1817m 43s

A Gay, A NonGay & A Trans with Juno Dawson

"Transphobia is the forest fire that needs urgent attention “To celebrate and commemorate International Transgender Day of Visibility we’ve recorded a special episode with amazing author of books like The Gender Games and This Book is Gay - Juno Dawson! James & Dan talk to Juno about the absolute STATE of the press witch hunt against trans people, how to be a good ALLY, Juno’s sex-life since transitioning and lots more.For more resources and help we recommend reaching out to Mermaids in the UK and Trans Lifeline in North America.-------------Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughPlease support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
28/03/181h 11m

Ugly Cry 🎡

James & Dan both break their promises for lent. Yep. It’s sp*** and meltdowns all in one place after James is triggered by the incredible new movie Love Simon. And we're getting ready for next weeks special episode, ‘A Gay and A NonGay and A Trans.'Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
21/03/1812m 14s

Top and Tail

Dan and James plan their night sharing a bed together, while James is jealous that Dan's more popular on instagram than him.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/03/1812m 30s

Lowkey Offended

A Gay and A Non Hat Wearer. ICYMI the boys reveal their sexuality. Why does James feel different after 2 months of taking PrEP? And Natalie Imbruglia has some surprising subliminal messaging in her songs.  Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate Tickets for A Gay & A NonGay live at the Brighton Fringe are now on sale - June 2 at The MarlboroughA Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
07/03/1814m 17s

You Mug!

The UK's LGBTQ+ homelessness crisis is top of mind after James hosts Student Pride and Dan's asked our voiceover lady to record some special 'NonGay' liners. The Albert Kennedy Trust is a voluntary organisation based in England, created in 1989 to serve lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender young people who are homeless, living in a hostile environment or in housing crisis. Please visit them for more information.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
28/02/1816m 5s

D before Date?

Dan has a novel take on what 'bumble' might be for and James suggests a new approach to dating, inspired by Love, Actually.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
21/02/1813m 35s

Mummy and Daddy

Happy Valentines Day - a day when James wants to call Dan 'Daddy.' Plus A Gay & A NonGay brings you an unexpected biology lesson about cows. Soz.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/02/1816m 12s

Orgy

Do nongays have as many orgies as gays? James is back on the dating apps and shows Dan how Grindr works. Plus the results from James' survey are in - Does Dan look like Jamie Dornan?Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
07/02/1813m 43s

Fifty Shades Of Narcissism

Dan thinks he looks like the HOTTEST MAN IN HOLLYWOOD. James does not agree.Please support our special little friendship at gaynongay.com/donate A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31/01/189m 37s

PREPisode

James & Dan chat safe sex . What is PREP? Can it protect you from HIV and does it make you... erm, fart?Find out more about HIV and the need for better sex education in the UK at Terrence Higgins Trust, and in the US at Greater Than Aids.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
23/01/1818m 20s

School

Dan wants to ‘smash James’s poppadoms’ with his masculinity and James drags up some of Dan’s old social posts to see if he’s worthy of their friendship.We thought this was an interesting article about the difference between bullying and banter. Just to be totally clear though 'banter' is one of the worst words in the world used to excuse all types of horrific nonsense: A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/01/1815m 17s

James 3, The Finale

James comes face to face with his gym crush.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/01/1813m 24s

That Boy is a Bottom

James tests Dan on our sassy new jingles which leads to more BOTTOM ADMIN chat. Plus our listener Jacobi's sent us a special cookery book... New Year New Eww! Soz.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
03/01/1817m 25s

A Teeny Weeny Little New Year Thank You

We just wanted to say thanks 💕See you in 2018 for more meltdowns, wokeness, live shows and the return of James 3  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/12/174m 37s

Wonderful Christmastime

How difficult is it being gay at Christmas? Is it James’ new year resolution to find a boyfriend? Plus we invite Santa into the studio for his first LGBTQ+ interview.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20/12/1714m 41s

Insecure

Dan is insecure. Or is he very secure? Discuss.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/12/1710m 59s

Cuddles

James thought it might be funny to do a 'would you rather' but, finds out from Dan that it's not.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/12/1710m 36s

Irish Goodbyes

Turns out when you put things on the internet, people can hear them, as James found out this week from his ex.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/11/1711m 5s

Rebound

Dan's in a mood and James is on the rebound.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/11/1710m 14s

James 3, Part 2

James is back obsessing about a certain other James... and don't you dare phone Dan unless it's an emergency.Plus... AUSTRALIA, we love you and are so happy about marriage equality!!!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
15/11/179m 2s

Relationship Update

Oh dear. James has a relationship update Don't call it a 'meltdown'A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/11/1713m 51s

Bring Your Own...

James has a BOYFRIEND... but his BF has a 'thing' for Dan?? Meanwhile Dan wants to invite James to an exciting new cookery class but it's bring your own WHAT?!Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/11/1718m 24s

#metoo

#metoo---Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
25/10/1714m 44s

Bowie

Plans are afoot for the next live show, but there's just one problem - James can't pronounce 'David Bowie'Come and see us at Waterstones, Tottenham Court Road in London (sorry) on Thursday 9 Nov when we'll be in conversation with author Darryl W Bullock, whose latest book David Bowie Made Me Gay is the first book to cover the breadth of history of recorded music by and for the LGBT community. There will be cocktails!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18/10/1710m 40s

On Religion

James tackles our first complaint while getting a masterclass in the branches of religion from Dan. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/10/1720m 30s

Nudes

James reveals all about his relationship with 'Dan 3' and is already thinking about the wedding. Meanwhile the boys discuss unsolicited dick pics, selfie sticks and how to take the perfect photo of your bottom.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
04/10/1723m 59s

LIVE @ London Podcast Festival

Yay! It’s A Gay & A NonGay LIVE at the London Podcast Festival. We’ve had so many lovely tweets asking for longer episodes so we hope this satisfies your THIRST.James chats coming out, Dan finally reunites with his college band Taxi for Paul and we answer your gay questions!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch via twitter, facebook or insta @gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/09/1743m 8s

Slagtag

How long do you have to hang around flirting with a guy after you realise he's straight? Plus Dan's giving up his favourite word for October.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20/09/177m 5s

Palm Springs

This episode is 'clothing optional'. James is back from L.A with a lot of tea to spill. The boys chat strip clubs, open relationships and why Dan takes so long to reply. Plus, how do you prepare for nongay sex?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/09/1715m 21s

Cake

Gross Alert! We had to rename this episode from the original title James gave it. Let's just say Barr discusses lots to do with his online video collection.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
06/09/1715m 39s

Pastry Man

Today's lesson - don't ever offer Dan Hudson free food and then not give it him. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30/08/179m 53s

Breakup

James breaks up with the most important person in his life while Dan has trouble connecting with his emotions (but in a shock twist, not his bum.)A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/08/1713m 7s

Wikipedia

We're back! And someone has been tampering with James' wikipedia page.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16/08/178m 28s

Best Bits

We're on our holidays but in case you're new to the podcast, here's our best bits from the last year. Thanks for being a friend, we love you!A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/08/1724m 44s

Garden

Have you heard? Dan has a garden. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 17 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/08/1712m 32s

Pride Bandwagons

It's a No Meltdown special as we explore James' new lovebite as well as review how London Pride made us feel. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 16 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay2ughiswd  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26/07/1713m 55s

Taxi for Paul

Plans for the next live show are afoot so to help James goes deep on the internet to discover Dan's past. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.Our next live show takes place at The London Podcast Festival on Sunday 16 September at 6pm. Buy a ticket and join us at kingsplace.co.uk/gaynongay  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/07/179m 57s

Lust for Love

James has a revelation about his approach to dating, and someone steals Dan’s toothbrush. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/07/1711m 6s

Pride

Thanks for Pride Month, USA... now it's our turn! London Pride is this weekend, but is Dan invited?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/07/1710m 1s

Jellyfish 🐟

Is Dan more or less 'homophobic' since hanging out with James? After a recent interview things are getting heated, and wet - bring a poncho. A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
28/06/1713m 24s

Bumming

Bumming? A word you can use in 2017 or not? A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
21/06/177m 52s

Between Stags

Dan is taking James out of his comfort zone, but first he's got a couple of stags to go to.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/06/178m 44s

Bath Maths

... that moment you decide to triple check that your nongay friend is definitely 100% nongay! Can James' accountant friend break Dan's unwavering commitment to a heteronormative life style?A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay.Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
07/06/1714m 9s

Nongay problems

It's time for Dan to let rip. He's a minority too guys, and he won't let James forget it. \ m /A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us at us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on Twitter @gaynongay, Instagram @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Come and see us live on 28th June in London - find all the details on our socials.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31/05/178m 38s

BEARS

Does Dan know what a dark room is? Does James know what a clitoris is? The answer to both these questions is of course no.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24/05/1722m 6s

SLUT

James is desperate to know if Dan thinks he's a 'slut' - but what does that actually mean? Plus the boys discuss the concept of 'expiry dating' and if James will be single forever.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/05/1717m 50s

JAMES 3

It's time for another meltdown - James fills us in on a mysterious guy from the gym... also called James.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/05/1710m 43s

POWER SNEEZE

Dan introduces James to the bizarre concept of 'power sneezing', and James discusses the issues surrounding airport douching.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
03/05/1711m 1s

COLIN STRIKES BACK

It's the podcast equivalent of a F.U.R.B answer back song - A Gay & A Non Gay with special guest star - COLIN.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26/04/1716m 5s

Colin

A comprehensive BREAKDOWN of James' love life - or why giving 6/10 is not okay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/04/1713m 50s

Baghdad

What's more of a struggle? The LGBTQ+ movement or liking alternative music? Plus we're nominated for an award, and we've already rehearsed our speech. Yay!  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
13/04/1712m 46s

The 1.7 Percent

What does James do on a train when nobody's looking? And will he move to Paris? Plus the boys are accidentally going on holiday to New York together, but will Dan convince James to go 'off the beaten track?'  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
05/04/1715m 7s

Victorian Porn

Has James had sex with a woman? Has Dan kissed a man? Plus uninsured pizza parties...  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/03/1719m 42s

First Date

Dan and James investigate The 36 Questions That Lead To Love  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14/02/1713m 14s

An Investigation

James launches a special investigation into an invasion of his privacy. There's one suspect, you guessed it, Dan.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31/01/1710m 43s

SPRINGSTEEN IS DADDY!

Nongay Dan decides if he's a top or bottom whilst James' intolerably single life goes from bad to worse ... also are dicks nice to look at?  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/12/1624m 28s

Bromosexuality

James and Dan discover they're part of a new friendship trend. #RIPCrabs  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
01/11/1628m 29s

HOUSEMATES

Dan and James talk housemates asking weird questions and deciding who to let in through the front door.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27/09/1624m 5s

GOLDEN

Dan and James are back and they've become such good friends they've been on holiday together.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11/09/1621m 10s

The Story So Far

James brings us an emo look back at his and Dan's special friendship so far. A Gay Non Gay returns soon.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16/08/1624m 3s

WEDDING

Dan insists on further douche talk, James goes off on one about wedding lists and we discuss DIVORCE!  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
09/05/1615m 38s

THRUPPLE

Dan is 'quite' emotional after a run. James is back from hanging out with star of Ru Paul's Drag Race ALASKA in NYC and there's THRUPPLE problems.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
28/04/1624m 52s

Manscaping

Dan & James dive into bush trimming and chat about all the men Dan's been having round  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/04/1614m 9s

GAY QUESTIONS GAY ANSWERS

James is mad about not being offered coffee, and we're talking 'cleaning up' at other people's houses  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30/03/1619m 40s

Kebabs

James is upset that Twitter won't verify him, but Dan is more excited about his invite to the British Kebab Awards  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20/03/168m 56s

Birthday

James forgets Dan’s birthday, we discuss open relationships, sausages and if your mum jokes are funny when you’re an adult.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29/02/1612m 58s

Valentines

It's Valentines - James is three months clean of tinder and introduces Dan to new the new dating app 'Bro'.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/02/1614m 10s

Professional

AGAANG is back and James and Dan have decided to 'go professional' while discussing their love for Oasis and The Corrs.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
08/02/169m 35s

The Christmas 'Special'

Dan and James get together for one last time in 2015 to talk weddings, beer and Christmas. It's a Christmas Special y'all!  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22/12/1517m 1s

Rude Questions

James gets asked an awkward question and then puts Dan on the spot.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/12/1511m 51s

Chickens

One word... Chickens.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
17/11/1512m 28s

Showers

James finally puts Dan in his phone but then learns something gross about his hygiene.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10/11/158m 40s

James2

James is affronted when he finds out that he is referred to as 'James 2' in Dan's life.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
02/11/157m 8s

Lads

James questions Dan's hatred of being tagged a lad, and Dan learns what 'On Fleek' means.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19/10/158m 23s

Hello

The very first episode of A Gay & A NonGay.James & Dan's mutual friend, Dan's girlfriend has gone away for a month and left them both at a loose end... There is no way these two men would hang out of their own accord but here's what happens when they have to.A Gay & A NonGay is an independent podcast from James Barr (@imjamesbarr) and Dan Hudson (@danhudson). Email us@gaynongay.com or stay in touch on twitter @gaynongay, ig @gaynongay or facebook.com/gaynongay. Exec produced by @talia.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/10/1510m 2s

Introducing A Gay and A NonGay

Imagine being gay and having to hang out with your girlfriends straight boyfriend. This is the hilarious tale of two unlikely friends forming new friendships, challenging our preconceptions of each other and crossing divides. Welcome to A Gay and A NonGay, one is gay, the other one isn't.Join our listener group www.facebook.com/groups/gaynongay.Shop our merch www.gaynongay.com.Follow us on instagram @gaynongay.  See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12/10/1529s
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