Brown Girls Do It Too

Brown Girls Do It Too

By BBC Radio

For most Asian girls, openly chatting about sex is firmly off limits. Enter Poppy, Rubina and friends.

Episodes

Fourplay

Something to whet your appetite as you wait for Poppy and Rubina to return...
17/03/23·2m 25s

I'm a *****, I'm a Lover, I'm a 5th Century Maid

Poppy and Rubina discuss positions, expectations and role play
30/09/22·43m 21s

A Hole New World

The time has come...
23/09/22·39m 23s

Shout Out To My Ex with Joty Kay

Poppy and Rubina express gratitude for their exes and share tips for surviving heartbreak.
16/09/22·43m 9s

Sexual Healing with Lohani Noor

Poppy and Rubina learn about psychosexual therapy with the Sex On the Couch therapist
12/09/22·43m 35s

This Is Your Life, Rubina

It's Rubina's turn to answer questions from Poppy: Who is she? When did she become cool?
02/09/22·30m 39s

This Is Your Life, Poppy

Rubina interviews Poppy about her life: What has she learned? Does she have regrets?
26/08/22·33m 29s

We're on a break!

Poppy and Rubina are taking a vow of celibacy... or a mid-series break
12/08/22·26s

Another One, Thank You with Bella Hull

Is ethical non-monogamy the answer to lasting love?
05/08/22·45m 59s

My Safe Word is Pakora with Shaaba

Poppy and Rubina ponder whether BDSM has become mainstream in modern dating
29/07/22·41m 18s

How Do You Like Your Eggs? with Seetal Savla

Poppy and Rubina discuss fertility, egg donation and the contraception gender gap.
22/07/22·41m 29s

Nanis I'd Like to **** with Seema Anand

Does sex get better with age? Poppy and Rubina are joined by mythologist and storyteller, Seema Anand, who has sex advice from the ancient texts for all people, young and old.
15/07/22·40m 16s

Stiff Upper Lips

Poppy and Rubina visit a labiaplasty surgeon for a very intimate examination
08/07/22·33m 47s

Series 3: Growing Pains

Poppy and Rubina reflect on the many ways their lives have changed since Series 2
01/07/22·36m 1s

Looking for a third?

Poppy and Rubina are back for a new series of raucous sex and relationships chat!
30/06/22·1m 49s

What Will People Say? with Nina Wadia

In a packed series finale, Poppy and Rubina are joined by former EastEnders and Goodness Gracious Me star, Nina Wadia. They also take on the challenges they set themselves over the course of the series and discuss the topic of 'What Will People Say?' If you're an Asian who is going to have sex, you have to worry about those four words and for Poppy and Rubina the impact of what the community around them may say has impacted their lifestyles. Nina Wadia also talks about the importance of sex in her life, her first time, an elusive orgasm and what has become the bane of her life, the dreaded aubergine!
05/03/21·59m 48s

Who's Your Daddy with Alexa Singh

Would you ever use the phrase 'Who's Your Daddy', in the bedroom? Poppy & Rubina discuss daddy issues and the effect that has on their sex lives. They also speak with model, Alexa Singh, whose own dad had a very unique job which influenced her career choice as a model who does glamour modelling and Page 3. Alexa goes on to talk about her Indian identity and reclaiming the name Singh for herself despite the criticisms she gets, and Poppy takes on another challenge ahead of the Brown Girls Do It Too series finale.
26/02/21·42m 1s

Seduction with Sadia Azmat

Poppy & Rubina are joined by comedian and writer Sadia Azmat to talk about dressing seductively. Sadia says her look often confuses guys and she struggles to let them know that she is open to sex! In an amazingly open and honest discussion about what you wear and what it says about you, Poppy, Rubina and Sadia talk about the expectations of Asian women, losing your virginity in an Essex hotel, and very very messy sex.
19/02/21·42m 57s

Chicken Korma, Sex and Mia Weston

Curry smells during sex? Keeping the spice alive and loosing your virginity twice are all covered in this episode of Brown Girls Do It Too. How does your sex life change over time and in a long term relationship? Poppy and Rubina, both talk about how they've had to keep the spice alive in a relationship. They are joined by Mia Weston who, as a transgender woman, has had an amazing change in her sex life over time, to the extent that she has lost her her virginity both as a guy and as a girl. Mia also talks about her sex life as a gay man, growing up in a Punjabi family, being treated as an Asian fetish by partners and also talks about her gender re-assignment surgery.
12/02/21·41m 45s

Race Traitors and Sharan Dhaliwal

Poppy & Rubina have both dated men outside of their race and have been called race traitors because of it. They discuss this with Burnt Roti magazine editor, Sharan Dhaliwal, who has dealt with it herself. Both Poppy and Rubina talk of making sacrifices in their culture in order to continue dating non Asian guys. Similarly, our guest Sharan, was made explicitly aware, growing up, that she should be only dating within her race, and on top of that she had the added pressure of being bi. We hear how she has only recently come out to her family and how her mother in particular dealt with the news.
05/02/21·40m 32s

Farting after Sex! and guest Sukh Ojla

Poppy and Rubina discuss the funny parts of sex and the inevitable after sex fart, negotiating sexual positions and leaking fluids! They're joined by comedian, writer and actor, Sukh Ojla who talks about the value of humour in a relationship, being 'on the shelf' (or in the bin outback as she puts it) and the importance of masturbation
29/01/21·34m 18s

Oral Sex Class and Kitten Licks with Hardeep Dhadda

Poppy & Rubina get into the highs and lows of oral sex. Today's guest, presenter of the new 'Thank You Next' podcast, offers tips from an oral sex class she took, and also talks about being on a sex break. Poppy and Rubina talk about everything there is to discuss around the area of oral sex, from the techniques they use to the tastes and smells. Poppy relives the comical trauma of her first attempt at it and Rubina reveals her aversion to swallowing. They are joined by guest, Hardeep Dhadda, who offers some tips she learned when she attended an oral sex class. Hardeep also talks about taking a break from sex and some of the reasons behind that choice.
22/01/21·41m 2s

Sex Parties, Coming Out and Oysters with Amani Saeed

Sex Parties, oyster tasting vulvas and confronting nosy uncles are all included in this discussion about sexual preferences. Poppy and Rubina talk about feeling pressured into some of their sexual choices and identity and even being judgmental themselves about others. They are also joined by writer and spoken word artist, Amani Saeed, who reveals how she learned about her queer identity, and also the role her religion plays in complementing her lifestyle.
15/01/21·41m 34s

Sex Toys with Sangeeta Pillai

Where do you keep your sex toys? Our guest, Masala Podcast's Sangeeta Pillai, just about fits them all in, in a massive trunk under her bed! How did Poppy choose her rubber friend Victor? Should Rubina experiment with sex aids and why is their so much embarrassment attached to them for South Asian women? Poppy and Rubina discuss their use of sex toys with Sangeeta Pillai who is a proud sex toy user and someone who has conducted a sex toy use survey among Asian women
08/01/21·35m 54s

Neelam Tailor, Bagels and Porn

One of Rubina's first experiences of porn was finding a VHS tape with no label on it, Poppy has to chose between her bagel or porn and the maker of the documentary, 'Porn Laid Bare', Neelam Tailor, talks about her porn addiction. It's all about the discovery of porn, Rubina was confronted with it at school and then she finds a tape at home, Poppy's porn is a Tom Cruise film and Neelam Tailor's first search in Google, on her brand new laptop, at the age of twelve, was of course the word sex. This episode looks at the prevalence of porn, the type of porn that Poppy and Rubina like, and they are joined by Neelam Tailor who confesses she was addicted to porn at a very young age and that it led to problems in her sex life later on.
18/12/20·36m 56s

Ash Sarkar and Salvador Dali Sex Face

Poppy and Rubina talk about taking nudes and filming yourself having sex, something that Rubina has done in the past. They are joined by journalist, writer and commentator Ash Sarkar who talks about how Social Media can influence you in the decisions you make about what you record with your phone. She goes on to talk about how, as a millennial with a smart phone, nudes are something she's sent herself and how she combats the danger of ever being outed for past behaviour.
11/12/20·37m 6s

Dirty Talk with Babestation's Alicia Sweets

It's all about Dirty Talk and the perfect person to have on as a guest to talk about it is Alicia Sweets. She's one of the few cam girls of Indian heritage in the UK and she feels it's her right as a woman to talk about and experience sex the same as any other person. Alicia describes her Dirty Talk routine, the scenarios she invents and the appetite among her fans for her 'Asianness'. Poppy and Rubina also recall times they've tired Dirty Talking, with various degrees of success, Poppy having a limited sex talk vocabulary and Rubina having failed at it a few times! Alicia teaches them new words they could use to add excitement to their own dirty talk and they both give it a go. Alicia, also goes into detail about the kinds of 'Dirty Talk' her clients want to hear, the stories and fantasies she plays out for them and in particular the appetites of some of the Asian clientele she has. In this new series of Brown Girls Do It Too, Poppy and Rubina speak to a whole range of women, who are all ‘doing it too’ and who are proud to talk about their relationship and sex lives. Poppy and Rubina explore dirty talking and give it a go with professional dirty talker, Babestation’s Alicia Sweets, one of the few Indian cam girls in the UK. Poppy agrees to send a nude pic of herself to her boyfriend after a chat about sex on social media with journalist Ash Sarker and both Poppy and Rubina realise that they are missing out on Sex Toy action after speaking to Sangeeta Pillai who proudly talks about her chest full of dildos under her bed. The stakes are high for a South Asian woman talking openly about her sex life, both Poppy and Rubina have faced enormous backlash online and from their families for being so frank on this podcast. Yet they insist they must carry on – and as Rubina says in Episode One of the new series, “an orgasm is a human right” and so is their right to talk about it. The series also explores problematic porn with writer Neelam Tailor, who has had to give up porn after being addicted to it and, the misunderstandings of bisexuality with spoken word artist Amani Saeed and being funny in the bedroom with comedian Sukh Ojla. Through the series Poppy and Rubina learn about their own boundaries as they grow closer and become more comfortable talking about this most challenging of all subjects
04/12/20·38m 17s

To Get You In the Mood

From Dirty Talk to the AtoZ of Sex Toys, Poppy and Rubina confess all the funny and intimate details of their sex lives. A South Asian woman still can’t talk openly about her sex life, but Poppy and Rubina are determined to change that, beginning with their own experiences. In this new series of Brown Girls Do It Too, Poppy and Rubina speak to a whole range of women, who are all ‘doing it too’ and who are proud to talk about their relationship and sex lives. Poppy and Rubina explore dirty talking and give it a go with professional dirty talker, Babestaion’s Alicia Sweets, one of the few Indian cam girls in the UK. Poppy agrees to send a nude pic of herself to her boyfriend after a chat about sex on social media with journalist Ash Sarker and both Poppy and Rubina realise that they are missing out on Sex Toy action after speaking to Sangeeta Pillai who proudly talks about her chest full of dildos under her bed. The stakes are high for a South Asian woman talking openly about her sex life, both Poppy and Rubina have faced enormous backlash online and from their families for being so frank on this podcast. Yet they insist they must carry on – and as Rubina says in Episode One of the new series, “an orgasm is a human right” and so is their right to talk about it. The series also explores problematic porn with writer Neelam Tailor, who has had to give up porn after being addicted to it and, the misunderstandings of bisexuality with spoken word artist Amani Saeed and being funny in the bedroom with comedian Sukh Ojla. Through the series Poppy and Rubina learn about their own boundaries as they grow closer and become more comfortable talking about this most challenging of all subjects
27/11/20·15m 53s

Love At Long Last

Poppy, Roya and Rubina, have talked about how they lost their virginity, how they masturbate and have even studied their vaginas during this podcast but they haven't really mentioned love or romance, till now. As Brown Girls Who Do It Too and who do it all, what are their experiences of love or romance and what part do their sex lives play in their love lives? Does being a sexually active Asian girl help or hinder finding love? From first crushes to abiding love, Roya, Rubina and Poppy are more intimate then ever before as they are talking about matters of the heart. An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. ‘Brown Girls Do It Too’ is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
29/08/19·39m 35s

Swipe Right for Brown Girl Sex

Having sex right now could well involve dating apps, some flirty texting, phone sex and maybe performing some porn film like moves. Poppy, Roya and Rubina have done it all. In this episode of Brown Girls Do It Too, Poppy, Roya and Rubina, talk about all the things involved in having a relationship or dating right now, from how and why they use dating apps to the effect watching porn is having on their sexual relationships. Roya also goes through her phone messages to give us a taste of her 'sexting' techniques, Rubina gives us a bit of dirty talk and Poppy talks about why she hates nudes. An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. ‘Brown Girls Do It Too’ is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
21/08/19·40m 6s

My Big Fat Asian Vagina

Rubina, Roya and Poppy were all meant to study their vaginas for this episode but guess who didn't? They talk about their findings, attempt to draw their own 'lady bits' and even give them names. Poppy's vagina apparently has an accent! The girls also discuss contraception choices, crusty findings, the numerous names for a vagina or vulva and how to keep things cool down there. An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. ‘Brown Girls Do It Too’ is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
15/08/19·38m 25s

Sexpectations

An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. In this episode, Poppy, Roya and Rubina talk about Sexpectations, all those things during sex that they are expected to do and the expectations they have of their partners. From shaving to swallowing and oral sex to anal sex, what are those expectations that they have to contend with and what are their red lines when it comes to sex? ‘Brown Girls Do It Too’ is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
07/08/19·41m 46s

Flicking Brown Beans

An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. This episode is all about masturbation. A lot of girls, let alone Asian girls, are too embarrassed to even admit they masturbate, that is definitely not the case with Poppy, Roya and Rubina. Listen out for Poppy's ‘seven inch’ guest, Victor, Rubina's account of how she thought she'd broken her back when she first orgasmed and Roya's very cute sounding technique of 'duveting' ‘Brown Girls Do It Too’ is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
31/07/19·43m 35s

Popping Cherries

An Asian girl's sex life is often shrouded in secrecy. However Roya, Rubina and Poppy are breaking all taboos in this revealing podcast. In the first episode they talk about how they all lost their virginities. Expect both funny and shocking stories that involve ex-husbands, sex via tinder and an annoying salwar kameez that keeps getting in the way. Brown Girls Do It Too is a no holds barred conversation between three British Asian girls, who all have sex and are unashamed to talk about it. All the ‘ins and outs’, from the messy realities to the mythical fantasies and sexpectations, Poppy, Rubina and Roya talk about their relationships and sex lives in this funny full frontal podcast. These are genuine and thought provoking conversations, between three progressive British Asian girls who have and enjoy sex, conversations that have never been aired before. How do they navigate the complex world of sexual adventures with their cultural backgrounds and familial expectations?
24/07/19·42m 1s

Welcome to Brown Girls Do It Too!

For most Asian girls, openly chatting about sex is firmly off limits. Enter Poppy, Rubina and Roya. This trio don’t hold back in lol’ing through their sexual adventures and feelings about cultural expectations. So throw away the shame, hop between the sheets, and settle in for some brutally honest conversation and funny revelations. Come on people – its 2019. Brown Girls Do It Too!
23/07/19·4m 36s
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