Goes Without Saying

midnights become our afternoons...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

women are angry, nature is healing <3join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

how does it feel to be god's favourite?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

why is "self-love" so unlikable?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

were you "comforted" or were you just *comfortable*?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

if you don't know where you're going... don't follow us <3join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're happy, free, confused, and lonely,... and over-sensitive! and rejected! and impressionable! at the same time!join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

new year, same chaotic sephy & wing <3join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 12th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... unapologetic, shameless self-celebration. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 11th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... unsolicited advice and cringe wholesome chats on lessons for the new year. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 10th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... personal confessions on jealousy. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 9th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... chats on mental health, the guilt & shame of never doing enough, and unpacking productivity.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 8th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... honesty on eating disorders, self-deprecating mindsets, ethics, morality and the cultural significance of food freedom. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 7th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... chaos incoherence on ageing, graduating and rejecting societal pressure.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 6th day of podmas sephy and wing gave to me... learning self-love and vulnerability. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 5th day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... tears and fears on the end of the year.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the 4th day of podmas sephy and wing gave to me... a confused and emotional rant on privilege, instagram & getting sent free shit. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the third day of podmas sephy and wing gave to me... a heavy pep-talk on self-compassion and heartbreak.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the second day of podmas sephy and wing gave to me... rants about their childhoods that i didn't ask for.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

on the first day of podmas sephy & wing gave to me... reflections on childhood trauma and evolving out of the pain. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

everybody agrees !!!!!!join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

boys will be boys and sephy and wing will be angry.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.co.ukcome and chat in our book club.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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...with luv from the pits <3join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

noo don't get insecure about your podcast ur so sexy aha xxxjoin the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

name a more Aggressively Average duo... i'll wait.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

'sephy & wing szn' is the new SpOoKy Szn...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

just between us... join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

pov u rely on this podcast and we just dropped a new ep...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

one man's trash experiences and life-lessons...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's not me it's you...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

our silly little self-improvement episode...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

tell me ur fave season is 'sephy n wing szn' without actually telling me...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

how much existential panic is *too* much existential panic asking for a friend???join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

same time next week? join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

a big fat dump of all our messiest thoughts # No FiLTeRjoin the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

she's a 10 but she has to re-record her podcast episodes because she's convinced they had "bad vibes"...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is it still seasonal depression if it lasts all year long?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

tell me you can't say "no" without feeling an overwhelming sense of failure and shame without actually telling me...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

what if you *were* just like the other girls?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

i think i can tell the wrong sort for myself, thanks !!!join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

tell me you're trying to navigate female friendships in a patriarchy without actually telling me...join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

thank you for being here. join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this extra chaotic episode, sephy & wing answer your questions. this one's off the record.join the conversation every monday. shop our merch: sephyandwing.com come and chat in our book club! speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: suicide. sephy & wing discuss mental health, the (in)accessibility of therapy, and baked beans.join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

if you're going to his house for closure, why did you shave?join the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

assume the worst xjoin the conversation every monday.shop our merch: sephyandwing.comcome and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

our merch is OUT NOW !! thank you so much for being here - we love you <3sephyandwing.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

A is for Anxiety, B is for But It's In Secret!!!join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

are you lost and confused and underachieving or are you literally just 22? join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

welcome to your emotional support podcast.join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

get in y/n, we're going to fall in love! join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

your emotional support podcast is back. join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

behind every #girlboss is a mental health crisis and impending breakdown. in this episode, sephy & wing reflect on productivity, goals, and success. if ~in 4 week’s time~ you don’t hear from us… assume the worst <3xxxjoin the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

and the girls that don't... how does it feel to be god's favourite? sephy & wing are Going Through It™ in this episode of Goes Without Saying, discussing social media addiction, comparison, and existential dread. fresh from ~the pits. join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

once we overcome our insecurities, self-loathing tendencies, negative self-talk, low self-esteem, people-pleasing, self-sabotaging behaviours and social media addiction, it’s over for you. join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

how “cHaOtiC” is too chaotic? the line is buried deep somewhere in the hysterics of this episode. sephy & wing discuss everything from mental health and university to scientology and tier-ranking snacks… don’t say you weren’t warned.join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

hedonism walked so your main character complex could run. in this wholesome episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing unpack boundaries, self-respect, romanticising life, and all of the ways in which we disregard our own happiness to appease the opinions of others. reformed people-pleasers say ~hell yeah !!join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

#NoRmaLiSiNg finding life overwhelming 100% of the time. sephy & wing discuss their experience with burnout and mental health slumps (it’s their forte) and how they recover (they’re still learning).join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

tell me you’re in isolation and not coping without actually telling me you’re… sephy & wing unpack narratives of independence and loneliness in this episode of Goes Without Saying, reflecting on their mental health, friendships, and patterns of overthinking. niche early 2000s horror stories included.join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

respectfully, get a grip. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing share their deepest fears and anxieties around failure, control and feeling lost. basically please stop worrying about that embarrassing thing that happened to you 7 years ago literally no one cares enough to remember, with love <3join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

and... you are? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing have an existential identity crisis whilst navigating objectively very simple questions. if you've ever wondered what a Goes Without Saying utopia might look like, or can't tell the girls apart - despite sephy taking one for the team and going blonde - this might be the episode for you.join the conversation every monday.come and chat in our book club!speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it’s never too late to make it out of the pits and start girlbossing. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing share their top life lessons from the year and reflect on all the mistakes they won’t be making twice. see you thriving in 2022!<3join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

POV: you’re walking home alone in the dark with your keys between your knuckles and one headphone out whilst listening to this podcast. sephy & wing’s feminine fury is back like it never left in this raw episode of Goes Without Saying. join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

adhd, anxiety and under-performance… is there anything these girls can’t do? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing offer their perspectives and strategies for dealing with deadline horrors and achievement anxiety. your perfectionism is quaking.join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

was #MaNiFeSTiNg the get-happiness-quick scheme we needed all along? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing share their most cringe-worthy manifestation rituals and reflect on how the flawed discourse might not be ~all~ bad news. join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

sex, friendship, uni, rejection and everything in between… once again, sephy & wing should’ve just kept quiet. this episode of Goes Without Saying is filled with all the raw chaos and intimate details to make you feel seen. join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

if you're self-sabotaging and overthinking lemme hear you say "hell yeah"! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing reveal some of their most powerful methods to curb the spiralling and flip their negative perspectives. (you'll be okay, promise !!!)<3join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/DwxFc6CVkz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

they’re back and worse than ever! sephy & wing run their take on the ~content creator classic~: How to Get Out of a Funk, with enough wholesome vulnerability and niche dark references to sustain you for another month if they end up on an emergency break again… join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/j5HsjVCtgw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

the vibes are off! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing talk about isolation, independence and the chaos of oversharing - so you don’t have to. #nOrMaLiSiNg being bad vibes and giving your loved ones absolutely nothing to work with! just girly things! <3xxjoin the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/j5HsjVCtgw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

girl crush or girlboss, choose your fighter. sephy & wing share their girl crushes whilst simultaneously sharing their frustrations with the discourse itself. does “girl crush” liberate and empower, or completely undermine wlw sexuality? the delirious sleepover convo vibes are realer than ever in this provocative episode of Goes Without Saying. listener discretion advised.join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zwhf4g4ayH Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

the girlies comparing themselves to each other again ?? nature is healing! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing consider their feelings and fears on the “that girl” trope. if no one sees how aesthetic your life is… is it even aesthetic at all? join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/kZm8XYyM5t Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

‘secrets from a girl (who’s seen it all)’ walked so this episode could run. sephy & wing share the advice they wish they’d received ~before it was too late, with some chaotic anecdotes and wild references thrown in for good measure. it’s sephy & wing’s life survival guide. results may vary.join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/TvNeXxsYyV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

this is big ~dudley’s “daddy’s gone mad, hasn’t he!”~ energy. sephy & wing push the boundaries of chaotic conversation in this episode of Goes Without Saying, tackling your questions on friendship break-ups, class struggles, periods, pet peeves and mental health taboos. it’s prime sephy & wing content, and in six months when you’re saying you miss “the old ‘Goes Without Saying’”… it’ll be this episode you’re referring to. join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/TvNeXxsYyV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is simply 'acknowledging your privilege' enough, or is this actually just the bare minimum? how do the complexities of race, class and social hierarchies intersect with feelings of shame and guilt around identity? and is social mobility a myth, or a viable reality in our society? in this personal episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing get real about privilege. from the fetishisation of racial ambiguity, to the ongoing gentrification of working-class aesthetics, join us as we explore privilege in its many forms. *horsegirl97 has left the chat* join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/j5HsjVCtgw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is "toxicity" nothing more than a beloved buzzword for girls that are obsessed with crystals, self-diagnosing, and andy from headspace? is there nuance and worthwhile substance in the "toxic relationship" conversation? are we all inherently "toxic", or just jaded and judgemental? all of these questions (and more!) will likely remain unanswered in this wild and chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying. sephy & wing reflect on their own destructive relationships, communication patterns, and attachment styles, whilst breaking down problematic romances, friendships, and family dynamics. alexa, play toxic by britne-- alexa, play goes without saying podcast with sephy and wing. join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram!you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/j5HsjVCtgw Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

just love urself it's easy!! in this ep of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are discussing whether radical self-love is productive, or just a capitalist scam. we're learning how to rebel against normalised self-hatred and genuinely accept our messy lives. from finding neutrality and balance in our perceptions of ourselves, to deciphering performed self-acceptance from authentic self-love, we're delving deep into the online self-love movement. is self-love actually attainable for everybody? how does privilege intersect with self-acceptance? are there any easy remedies for internalised self-hatred? we don't have the answers but we <3 you. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/TvNeXxsYyV Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

are you self-aware, or are you just self-conscious? join sephy & wing for an on-brand convo about whether personal branding is a waste of time, and why your obsession with representing yourself is making you lose yourself in the process. in this ep of Goes Without Saying we're spiralling about our attachments to style and trends, and exploring how the ego intersects with specific aesthetics. from limiting attachments to labels, to finding flexibility in personal identity, we're here to remind you that you're a ever-changing, fluid being that can never be defined by a brand or aesthetic. stunning! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/EGdz6cq4R8 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

(we're not the same). sephy & wing are back with more hot takes and niche references, and this week we're talking about 'shadow work'. from recovering from mental health struggles, to therapy and radical self-care, we're getting serious about choosing ourselves in this ep of Goes Without Saying. we're channeling our inner darkness and getting in touch with the parts of ourselves we don't always like... it's time to get ~uncomfy~. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/kZm8XYyM5t Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

overwhelmed and burnt out? same. join your wholesome and exhausted faves (sephy & wing) for this extra relevant episode of Goes Without Saying. from the ongoing battle between anxious productivity and crippling depression, to how we can ~actually~ allow ourselves to rest, we're discussing capitalism and hustle culture's worst enemy: burn out. come and join your burnt out besties as we redefine what it means to be 'productive' and learn to be disciplined in our commitments to ourselves. emma, it might be you. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/vhxEKsT2vd Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's not me, it's you. sephy & wing are back again to meddle with your relationships, and this week we're not holding back. in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're diving into your dating drama and giving you the advice you never asked for. why isn't your scrappy boyfriend texting you back? how can you avoid anxiety over the socially imposed time limit on 'virginity'? is clear communication actually attainable in sex and situationships? it's time to (say it with us) ~dUmP hiM~. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zwhf4g4ayH Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

choose your fighter: a nuanced podcast with thoughtful insights and a cohesive narrative, or one that spirals into a mess of unanswerable questions and outdated references? well we're back with another episode of This Doesn't Go Without Saying, where we answer your burning and juicy questions that really can't go unsaid. is it a privilege to resist labelling your sexuality? can we ever move past a desire for institutional validation under capitalism? join sephy & wing for another bizarre episode of Goes Without Saying. we'll show ourselves out. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/YCJsuEV8fY Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

brb we’ve got growing pains. in this bizarre episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are unpacking personal development, transformation and growth. from flop eras to hot girl summers, we're chatting about self-imposed 'chapters' and why humans crave stability over everything else. can personal growth ever be measurable? is it inevitable to compare yourself with your friends? is the burger king vegan whopper really better than the royale? join us to unpack all the questions you never asked in this absolutely chaotic ep of Goes Without Saying. (and if you ever see this kieran culkin, call me). join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is it your divine intuition, or is it just anxiety? from bizarre coincidences to undeniable red flags, sephy & wing are back for another stunning episode of Goes Without Saying. is it possible to distinguish fear from gut feelings? can we ever fully trust ourselves? we've been trying to solve the problem of anxiety vs intuition for years, so it's finally time to show our findings. spoiler: we still don't know the answer. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's getting hot in here! in this juicy episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are delving deep into the world of sexual fantasies. from the nuances of sexuality to the complexities of desire, we're daydreaming away our hot girl summer. why are we all falling in love with celebrities and fictional characters? is it possible to fully understand our sexual desires? are our sexual preferences just a freudian nightmare? join us as we unpack sex, fantasy, and why the hound from game of thrones is so fit.join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/kZm8XYyM5t Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

your ~potentially problematic~ internet besties are back with another brutally honest episode of Goes Without Saying. join us (sephy & wing) as we unpack the facade of instagram perfection and ask the question: can anyone be truly authentic online? from virtue signalling to cancel culture, we're discussing whether the aesthetics of wokeness have become more important than actually being a good person irl. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/kZm8XYyM5t Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is it manifesting or is it privilege? in this ep of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss manifesting, spirituality, and how we can ~actually~ get what we want. from the gentrification of spiritual practices, to the emphasis on capitalist success and individualism, we're questioning whether manifestation is really as productive as it sounds. we're ditching the desperate energy and relinquishing control. nobody's coming harry (...or are they). join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/zuPH7gyeGp Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

keep our secrets. sephy & wing are coming clean in this honest episode of Goes Without Saying. you asked us everything you want to know, so we're spilling our guts for your entertainment. brace yourself for realness, deepness, and everything that ~doesn't~ go without saying. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/TRKPAMQk Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

this week we're really ~doing the work~. the internet's wholesome besties (sephy & wing) are back with another wild episode of Goes Without Saying. in this ep, we're discussing productive routes to healing, the issue with codependency, and how to cultivate healthy communication in our relationships. from trusting ourselves to know what's best, to finally acknowledging that our feelings are valid, we're depped but we're ready to talk about it! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you’re invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/BphgYDmb Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

get in loser we're going to therapy. it's your chaotic faves here and we're ready for another (drunk) episode of Goes Without Saying. come and join sephy & wing as we discuss the problem with personal narratives, male therapists and our weekly breakdowns and breakthroughs. from the search for external validation, to how therapy isn't accessible to everyone, we're giving our mindsets a makeover in this ~stunning~ episode. prepare for niche references, bizarre tangents, and plenty of unsolicited advice. brb my therapist is calling. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! you're invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/dad3RM8q Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

feeling like the main character? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are discussing the ~romanticise your life~ discourse and exploring how we can stop performing the aesthetic of happiness. from toxic ideas about romance, to giving ourselves permission to live fully, we're cutting the cameras and learning to accept the reality of our scrappy lives. join our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/M6htGJcR speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

not you meeting up with people you don't like just to avoid your own company! sephy & wing (& jim) are back with another stunning episode of Goes Without Saying, and this week we're discussing the fear of missing out. we promised you a fomo episode, so we're not holding back. we're chatting about how to form genuine relationships that aren't built on ego and performance. from anxiety around acquaintances to balancing communication in ride or die friendships, we're learning to let go of expectations and accept that we are the authorities of our own lives. join the conversation every monday! you are invited to our discord group chat: https://discord.gg/bZ6WtARJWx speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

your ! feelings !! are !!! valid !!!! we're really taking ~vulnerability~ to the next level with this raw, emotional ep of Goes Without Saying. in this extra honest episode, we're chatting about our personal mental health experiences, and how we can follow our own map to happiness. brace yourself, because sephy & wing are spilling the tea and the tears. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the @sephyandwing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

feeling like a fraud? in this stunning episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are here to remind you that you're the authority in your own life. from performing perfection to dealing with anxiety, we're learning how to silence our inner critics and claim our space. we've said it before and we'll say it again: "nobody's coming harry".join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's the trauma talking. in this week's episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are unpacking childhood trauma, generational imbalances, and the desire to heal from the past. from problematic parenting styles to trauma bonding, we're deep diving into personal traumas for your listening pleasure! the human world is a mess, but that's okay.join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: rape & sexual violence. is he really a 'nice guy', or is he using 'niceness' to coerce you into sex? in this extremely raw and angry episode of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we try our hardest to unpack rape culture, transactional sex, and consent. why do 'nice guys' get angry when they are friendzoned, and why to they feel entitled to women's bodies? come with the fury with us and remember that 'no' is a full sentence. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

living in chaos? honestly, same. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are here to reassure you that you're not wasting your life! we're talking about ageing anxiety, biological clocks, and the social pressure to have it all figured out in your twenties. we're rejecting perfection and learning to prioritise ourselves. it's time to ~relinquish all control and trust the timing of life~, some may say.trigger warning to all the cows listening. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

what are you waiting for? this episode of Goes Without Saying sees sephy and wing share their controversial opinions on privilege, the paranormal, and painful life-altering events. tackling your juiciest personal questions (including sexual stories and the ever-elusive chronicles of childhood trauma), nothing gets left unsaid in this episode... although tbh it probably should have. oops.join the conversation every monday.speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

sephy and wing are over party!! welcome to the episode where we call out cancel culture, and probably cancel ourselves in the process. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy and wing discuss holding celebrities accountable, and the importance of making mistakes as a fallible human being. from reductive ‘instagram catfights’ to performative allyship, we’re not holding back. cancel us already!! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

i hate it here!! this week we're cancelling #giRLboSs culture and throwing our internalised capitalism in the bin. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, sephy & wing are getting vulnerable about productivity, and questioning: why do our lives have to revolve around production? from the pressure to have a side hustle, to society's emphasis on creativity, we're taking the guilt out of relaxation and learning to chill the f*ck out. let's get unproductive. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

waiting for a mediocre boy to text you back? it couldn't be us. in this spicy episode of Goes Without Saying, we're unpacking your sexual situs and dating disasters. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss how to date for fun, not fear. from self-partnership to labelling sexualities, we're getting real about sex, dating and relationships in this (brutally) honest episode. your shitty boyfriend is quaking. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

TW: suicide & mental health. we’re 24 going on depressed, anxious and existential in this episode of Goes Without Saying. join us (sephy & wing) for another chaotic conversation. this week we're discussing mental health, social media, and questioning: can happiness ever be sustainable? from toxic positivity to instagram facades to cbt therapy, come join the convo and feel seen. brb calling our therapists. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

orgasm gap is over party!! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, join your problematic faves (sephy & wing) as we discuss vaginas, vulvas, and clits. from ridiculous sex myths we heard at school to the patriarchal beliefs we still hold about our bodies today, we're unlearning all the bullsh*t they taught us. let's get clitty! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

assimilating to fit in with the people around you? we hate to see it. we literally can't stop going on about authenticity, so in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're exploring how we can live as the truest versions of ourselves. are you being authentic, or are you performing realness and relatability? join us (sephy and wing) as we discuss all things ~authenticity~ and how we can stop being fake b*tches. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on the sephy & wing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

not you creating unrealistic goals and getting upset when you don't reach them! in this episode we're welcoming in 2021 with a chat about setting healthy goals, fighting internalised capitalism, and how to navigate self-help culture. from toxic productivity to balanced goals and aspirations, we're learning to let go of perfectionism and actually do whatever the f*ck we want. new year, same sephy and wing!follow along with our ~free~ 14 day empowerment programme! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

kylie jenner was really onto something. it's our final episode of the year and we couldn't be more ready to get the hell out of 2020 and into 2021. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss how bizarre this entire year has been, and delve into all the things we've all learned and accomplished. from redefining success to living with ~authenticity~, we're seeing out the year in true sephy & wing style. see ya later 2020, it's been real. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

not you fetishising pre-pubescent girls and calling it a 'preference'!! in this episode we're discussing how beauty standards have been informed by paedophile culture, white supremacist ideals & fatphobia. from your mcm's porn history to mainstream media's obsession with youth, we're breaking down how beauty standards are actually pretty ugly. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's your average festive podcast, but make it ~traumatic~. in this episode, we're discussing toxic family dynamics and how they play out during the holiday season. from political arguments to racist uncles to triggering body image comments, we're setting boundaries this year. christmas came early! enjoy x join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

*screams in madonna-whore complex* are you really having a 'slut phase', or are you just performing empowerment? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss 'sluts', rape culture, and sexuality. we're questioning whether 'slut phase' discourse is rooted in genuine sexual liberation, or if it's just another fetishised cliché for the male gaze. we really hate to see it. we're so excited to be partnering with Vegums! get 20% off your ~stunning~ vegan vitamins with the code: sephywing20 join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

brace yourselves for some unnecessarily brutal advice because we're ~triggered~ in this Q&A. we asked for your most juicy and deep questions on instagram, and you came through! from how to get a feminist boyfriend, to imposter syndrome, to living with unapologetic authenticity, we're giving you the all the truths you never knew you needed. join the conversation every monday! speak your mind at instagram.com/sephyandwing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

toxic positivity is over party!! this week we're cancelling fake happiness & questioning why we all feel an intense pressure to perform happiness at all time. is happiness political? (spoiler alert: ofc duh!). is happiness the pinnacle of success, or is there something more important? come spiral with us (sephy & wing) in this episode of Goes Without Saying! join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

get out of the bathtub and into the boardroom! your self-care isn't working, and we're here to tell you why. forget everything you thought you knew about face masks, bubble baths, and scented candles, because real self-care is hard work. from patriarchal marketing that tells women they're dumb, to why we're obsessed with therapy, this ep is the self-care you ~actually~ needed. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's your problematic faves here, sephy and wing! prepare to be screaming at us through your headphones because a lot goes unsaid in this controversial episode! we're discussing "men are trash", and whether it's progressive, productive, or completely pointless. come indulge in some feminist fury with us in this triggering ep of goes without saying. essentially, (and we can't stress this enough) f*ck the patriarchy.join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

POV you're listening to this podcast pretending that sephy & wing are your friends. but that's okay because in this ep we're discussing why we're all completely lonely and surrounded by fake friends. in 2020 we've all been confronted with loneliness in new ways, and isolation has become a part of life, but we're here to keep you company during the apocalypse! from friendship breakups to social media realness, we're dropping our egos and shattering illusions in this ~ extra authentic ~ episode. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

bet you thought you'd seen the last of us? we're back with a ~stunning~ new look, but it's the same sephy and wing that you know and love (hopefully)! we're kicking off this brand new season with an episode all about appearances! are looks everything? why are we so obsessed with performing on social media? from 'imagined audiences' to managing perceptions, we're digging deep into why we're all such fake b*tches.warning: embarrassingly niche references from the outset.join the conversation every monday. speak your mind at instagram.com/sephyandwing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

our last ever episode?? we're going out with a bang and spilling all the tea in this steamy episode. we asked you for your dating f*ck ups and you came through with your scrappy dappy doo stories. turns out we're all living the same life! we've all been dating the same shitty men, so we're breaking up with bad dates and men who continue to give us the bear minimum. #dumphim2020 is still going strong!! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

*trigger warning: body image* diet culture is over party!! this episode of Goes Without Saying, we're cancelling patriarchal images of beauty and unlearning all the bullsh*t we were taught about our bodies as teenagers. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss the fact that whilst women get smaller, men get richer. we hate it here (no but really, we hate it here). prepare yourself for feminist anger and more niche harry potter references as we battle it out with draco vs cedric. speak your mind on the sephy & wing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's the low self-esteem for me. we're back with another ~stunning~ episode, and this week we're talking all about comparisons. whether we compare ourselves to celebrities, influencers, or people in our lives, we're breaking down how women are raised to pit themselves against one another. join us (sephy and wing) as we get vulnerable with you, discussing comparison, self-esteem, and insecurities. we're building confidence from within and restructuring our self-perceptions once again. it's time to stop hating ourselves and actually live our best lives. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

*insecurities have left the chat* if you're searching for validation from random people and irrelevant institutions, this one's for you. this week, we're talking self-esteem and learning how we can validate ourselves, rather than expecting affirmation from money, follows, and popularity. from building confidence to rejecting 'imagined audiences', we're learning to release control and ~go with the flow~ speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

sick of being choked by boys with no bed-frames and dirty fingernails? in this episode of Goes Without Saying we're breaking up with bad sex and taking you to the mysterious promised land of ~feminist sex~ ! can feminist sex exist in a patriarchal society? is there room for genuine female empowerment in heteronormative relationships? why do men benefit from sex more than women? join us (sephy & wing) as we get down and dirty, discussing sexuality, power, orgasms, and... shrek? speak your mind on the sephy & wing instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

miscommunication? never heard of her. let’s normalise healthy communication. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are setting boundaries, communicating clearly, and discussing how all relationships can be improved by just… talking! doesn’t sound so scary, right? this week we’re learning that silence breeds resentment, so we’re cancelling fake shower arguments, and breaking up with vague boundaries. class is in session. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

eat !! the !! rich !!! this week we're discussing why capitalism sucks and how we've all been tricked into pursuing a false idea of success. it turns out that our childhood dreams were never ours, and karl marx was really onto something. ready to spiral and quit your job? join us (sephy & wing) as we deep dive into capitalism, success, and why humans are addicted to misery. just girly things. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

disney movies walked so br*ck tu*ner could run. join us in this heated episode of Goes Without Saying as we (sephy & wing) break down rape culture, and how ALL men (yes, all men) benefit from it. from 'boys will be boys' comments to everyday sexism, we go IN on the patriarchy once again with a few twilight references. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

plato walked so we could run! spiral with us in this chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying where we (sephy & wing) ask: is there a meaning of life? join our existential crisis as we discuss what happens after we die, how capitalism ruins lives, and whether humans truly have autonomy. get ready to discover that life is pointless and that's why it's iconic. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

stop scrolling! in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are exploring social media, instagram, and influencing to question why we engage in internet culture when it's clearly making us all anxious and depressed. does instagram make us hate ourselves? are we really addicted to social media? join us to unpack whether we use the internet for human connection, or are we just in it for the clout? speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it's time to throw your fitbit in the bin and delete 'myfitnesspal' because we're going IN on diet culture. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are exploring fatphobia, body positivity, body neutrality, and ~of course~ women's endless objectification under patriarchy. join the conversation every monday. speak your mind on instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

you asked for a drunk episode, so here it is! in this special bonus episode we (sephy & wing) are getting drunk and answering your questions. it's the official 10k party so go and grab yourself a bottle of wine before you press play. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ready for the princess diaries makeover your 12-year-old self always dreamed of? in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are discussing 'glow-ups', and why women are encouraged to transform themselves for the male gaze. can a makeover ever actually be empowering? why do we all feel pressure to change ourselves? join us in this episode to unpack the patriarchal undercurrent of makeovers and explore how capitalism wants us all to hate ourselves. # just girly things x speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're diving headfirst into pick me culture and exploring internalised misogyny in this episode of Goes Without Saying! join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss how the patriarchy has shaped our self-perceptions and aligned femininity with weakness. we hate to see it. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

insecurities? never heard of her. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are talking all things confidence and self esteem. from body positivity to self actualisation, we're living our best lives and discussing our relationships with confidence, self-awareness, and popularity. thank us later! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

BLACK LIVES MATTER. @laylafsaad @renieddolodge @akalamusic @sonyareneetaylor @santandave1 @retweetpodcast @boboandflex @rachel.cargle @thegreatunlearn @laurennicolefk @kimberleylatricejones @theslumflower @munroebergdorf @witchdoctorpoet @danielleprescod @nonamehiding @samanthamariaofficial @chimamanda_adichie @mahalia @roxanegay74 @eziprose  Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in your feelings? it's not you, it's us. in this episode of Goes Without Saying we (sephy & wing) break down the cultural reset that is heartbreak: discussing your stories on breakups and rejection, lies, cheating and pregnancy... are situationships more traumatic? are you still ~fRiEnDs~ with your ex? is it DUMPHIM szn? we love to see it. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're serving dumb bitch juice and spilling all the tea in this HILARIOUS q&a. from our worst sexual experiences to our most awkward arguments, get to know us more in this fun ep of Goes Without Saying (with sephy & wing). we're getting personal, spicy, and a little bit (extremely) disgusting in this super honest q&a episode. enjoy! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're calling nev and max to reverse image search the hell out of your crazy catfish stories. we're talking all things catfishing, social media, and online relationships. join us (sephy & wing) in this episode of Goes Without Saying, as we explore how feminism and the patriarchy intersect with the idea of 'catfishing'. from flattering tinder profiles to sexist tweets, join us as we explore love, lies and loss in the age of social media. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

is he really your "type", or is that just a socially constructed narrative that you project onto people? oop... it couldn't be us. in this fun episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) discuss dating red flags and the problematic idea of "types". we're examining our own romantic relationships and answering your dating dilemmas to find out whether "types" exist, or if that's just good old fashioned patriarchal programming. why are we always attracted to the bad boy? why are we drawn to toxic relationships? join us in this ep as we break it down! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

it’s time to clear your search history because this ep is getting spicy. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) are talking all things porn! from our own experiences with watching porn, the emphasis on the male gaze, and the orgasm gap, we're breaking down whether porn is empowering or problematic. can porn be feminist, or will it always be another product of the patriarchy? find out in this sexy episode. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're dragging ourselves at this point. are you a shitty friend? do you find it hard to be honest with people you care about when you feel insulted? can we ever get over being jealous and comparing ourselves to our friends? honestly... we don't know. but join us (sephy & wing) in mulling over your friendship situs, drama, toxic boy "friends" and more.  speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

written and directed by quentin tarantino's foot fetish. do men abuse power dynamics during sex? can we break away from heteronormativity? why do women settle for mediocre men? are you having feminist sex? in this chaotic episode of Goes Without Saying we (sephy & wing) answer your questions, covering all the bases from sex and racism to scooby-doo. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

to stop us from arguing in this episode we've enrolled you guys as mediators: we're answering your questions! in this fun q&a episode of Goes Without saying, we (sephy & wing) discuss dating and romance during coronavirus, loneliness, and more! we talk about weird crushes, awkward dates and final destination. as expected, it gets weird. enjoy! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

in this heated episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) argue about modern female sexuality and how this is expressed and consumed in the digital age. are nudes empowering... or are we just performing for the male gaze? is it feminist to monetise your own objectification? join us in this fun episode as we explore sex positivity, the rise of onlyfans, slut-shaming and more. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

welcome back to Goes Without Saying! in this episode, we're talking about fashion and feminism. what's the relationship between our personal sense of style and the patriarchy? are we all just dressing for male attention? or can fashion be an empowering, complex act of defiance and conformity? join us (sephy & wing) as we investigate how our relationships with style have been shaped by the male gaze, insecurities, and pretty privilege. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

the apocalypse is upon us and we’re ready to talk about it. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss the only thing anybody can talk about right now: coronavirus. whether you’re quarantining, self-isolating or social distancing, we’re here to get you through the pandemic with your sanity. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we explore COVID-19 and the social changes we're already seeing. from toilet paper to vanessa hudgens' weird instagram live, we're ready to embrace the downfall of capitalism! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

ready to get deep? welcome to part 2 of our extremely personal and triggering chat! join us (sephy & wing) as we ask each other some heavy, juicy questions that we don't usually have the opportunity to discuss. do we fear our own deaths? would you murder someone for money? in this raw episode of Goes Without Saying, we're not holding back. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

this time… it’s personal. in this episode of Goes Without Saying we’re indulging in a good, old fashioned DMC. so get ready to join us (sephy & wing) as we ask each other some deep, heavy, triggering questions. from our first sexual experiences, to childhood trauma, we're not holding back in this raw and honest conversation.  speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

dating for validation? it couldn’t be us. in this fun episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) break down our 10 vali-dating commandments from our new ebook and explore how we can all date with intention. we’re entering romantic relationships with strategy and following fun not fear. discussing dating apps, ghosting, heartbreak, and sex, we’re here to explore how romance can be easy. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

you can’t sit with us… jks you can. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, we (sephy & wing) explore popularity! does coolness equate to happiness? why are we all so desp to be popular? is it even worth being liked? has social media and the rise of influencers made us all obsessed with popularity? in this episode we talk about our own experiences with social cliques and argue about feminism and pretty privilege… speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

welcome to part 2/2 of our love and dating miniseries! in this episode we (sephy & wing) answer your questions about relationships, sex and romance. we're no longer dating boys with dirty fingernails and no bed frames, and we are demanding more from our romantic relationships. join us in this q&a episode as we deep dive into your questions! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

welcome to part 1/2 of our love and dating mini-series! in this special valentine's day episode, we're talking all things dating, sex, and romance. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss love, relationships, and how to demand more. we're breaking down online dating, questioning the existence of soulmates, and arguing about marriage. this vday, we're leaving him on read. come and join the party. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

this week we're getting personal. we're talking all things BOUNDARIES. how do we create them? do they work better in theory than practice? join us (sephy & wing) as we break down how boundaries intersect with self-care, toxic relationships, friendships, and communication styles. with some personal stories and harsh truths, get ready to set some major boundaries this week. speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

we're calling out the catcallers and cancelling the patriarchy once and for all. join us (sephy & wing) as we discuss everyday sexism and share our own experiences with catcalling, misogyny and "boys will be boys" culture. we're learning how to respond to catcalls and unwanted attention from the male gaze, but also how to stay safe in these streets. enjoy! speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

overthinking about overthinking about overthinking? we're back and we're here to drag you. in this episode of Goes Without Saying, join us (sephy & wing) as we explore why society is obsessed with overanalysing. are we all self-obsessed? is fomo the ultimate killer of happiness? is it possible to overcome our tendencies to overthink everything? we're leaving late night overthinking in 2019 and questioning: how productive are our thoughts? speak your mind on our instagram! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.