A Really Good Cry

A Really Good Cry

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This podcast won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. Radhi Devlukia brings you a new weekly show called A Really Good Cry, a space where we can embrace the real, the messy and the beautiful parts of life that can be difficult to digest alone, together. Tune in for a good ole’ laugh, maybe shed a tear or two, and join a community where you can have a really good cry!

There's no small talk here, we are diving straight in and it’s gonna get real. Whether it’s raw, unfiltered conversations, debate and discussions of different perspectives and life experiences or going on an emotional rollercoaster. A Really Good Cry is there for you to learn, connect, and find comfort together - that allows us to see the world and ourselves with a new perspective. 

Some episodes will also feature surprise guests, including celebrities, scientists, experts and more. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Tag @areallygoodcry on Instagram with your best crying face for a chance to be featured on our social media channels. Like, comment and follow @areallygoodcry on Instagram if you want the chance to be featured on episodes. You can also subscribe to get exclusive and bonus content. Radhi will give listeners the opportunity to be part of the show by responding to dms, comments, questions and more. 

Episodes

How To Stop Caring About What Others Think, People Pleasing and Overthinking

Why do we care so much about what other people think? In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re having an honest chat about that constant need for approval and why it's so exhausting! I’m diving into my own journey of always worrying about others’ opinions and how I finally learned to let that go (well, mostly… still working on it!). We’ll talk about the moments when I felt like a total stranger in my own life because I was living for everyone else instead of just being myself. We’ll get into the nitty-gritty of why we feel this way, how to start letting go, and what it actually means to show up as the most authentic version of you. And yes, I’ll be sharing some practical tips and little exercises that have helped me stop overthinking and just be ME. So, if you’re ready to have a heart-to-heart about living life on your own terms, grab a cup of tea, get cozy, and let’s figure this out together. You deserve to be loved for who you really are, and this episode is all about helping you see that!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:40 Let’s start with an affirmation 01:23 Are you living in your own life? 03:47 Embracing how we’re always changing 05:22 Focus on being in the present 06:21 The danger of losing yourself to fit in 09:28 Approval addiction 09:40 Signs that you care too much about what others think 13:58 Ask yourself this when you start worrying about what others think 17:13 The real reason we’re obsessed with being liked 20:00 Get to know yourself 22:03 Identify your purpose and value in life 23:30 Setting boundaries 24:49 Practice perspective 25:45 Sit in that discomfort of not being liked 26:36 Finding freedom in being yourself   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/10/2430m 31s

Lisa Bilyeu: How to Master Your Ego and Build Radical Confidence

What if the only thing standing between you and real confidence is your fear of failure? In today’s episode, I’m joined by someone who knows exactly how to turn challenges into confidence. Lisa Bilyeu, co-founder of Quest Nutrition and the host of Women of Impact, shares her powerful insights on pushing past fear and self-doubt to unlock your full potential. Lisa and I dive into the uncomfortable truth about confidence: it’s earned by facing failure and embracing growth. She shares her personal journey of overcoming limiting beliefs, offering practical tips on how to break through the barriers holding you back. We also talk about the critical role of building habits that reinforce confidence, and why stepping outside your comfort zone is the only way to truly grow. Lisa’s advice on embracing failure as part of the process will leave you inspired to tackle your own challenges with courage and resilience. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:49 What is Radical Confidence? 07:37 Name your fear 12:25 Your body stores trauma 15:56 Dressing down is killing your confidence 18:42 How to make confidence a habit 22:52 Show up differently and watch others notice 25:59 Getting out of your comfort zone 29:14 Confidence vs. Arrogance vs. Ego 33:31 Insecurity or ego? 35:38 How to accept change 39:46 Stop trying to please everyone 43:37 Contempt and resentment in relationships 45:16 The first step to building confidence 53:35 Don’t be scared to fail 56:47 Break through your limits 1:06:18 Rapid fire questions with Lisa   Follow Lisa: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisa_bilyeu https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/ https://www.youtube.com/@LisaBilyeu/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/09/241h 10m

Do You Have A Healthy Period? Holistic and Ayurvedic Tools to Reduce Mood Swings, Pain and Cravings

Periods can be a pain—literally—but what if we could turn that pain into power? On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we’re getting cozy and chatting about something we don’t talk about enough—our periods! It’s time to embrace this beautiful, natural process and learn how to love and honor our bodies every step of the way. I’ll be sharing my personal journey from seeing my period as a hassle to viewing it as a time for deep connection and self-care. We’ll explore how aligning with our cycles can help us live more harmoniously with our bodies, how we can manage discomfort naturally, and why understanding what a healthy period looks like is so important. I’ll also be dropping some Ayurvedic gems on balancing hormones and soothing cramps, plus a few of my favorite self-care rituals (like the magical ovary massage) that’ll leave you feeling supported and nourished. Whether you experience irregular cycles, or painful periods, or just want to deepen your connection with your body, this episode is filled with loving guidance, practical tips, and a whole lot of compassion for your amazing female body. I promise you’ll walk away seeing your period in a whole new light!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:34 How my relationship with my period changed 05:32 Why I stopped complaining about my period 07:04 Breaking the taboo around periods 08:05 How do you know if your period is healthy? 10:22 Sync your workouts with your menstrual cycle 12:52 Why your period heightens emotions and what it means 15:44 Foods to eat during your period 20:10 Ovary massage 22:09 How holistic health can help you 24:17 Period acne 26:10 Finding the right period products for you   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/09/2428m 58s

Lauren London: Moving Through Grief and Finding Self Acceptance

Grief can test our faith, but it can also strengthen it in unexpected ways. Today, I have a truly special guest whose journey through loss has inspired so many. Lauren London, an acclaimed actress, entrepreneur, and mental health advocate, opens up about her personal experiences with grief and resilience. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lauren and I chat about the transformative power of faith and vulnerability in navigating grief. She shares her touching story of love and loss, offering heartfelt insights into finding strength and purpose through spiritual connection. We also dive into practical strategies for managing grief, like the healing power of prayer and journaling. Lauren's advice on creating supportive environments for healing and maintaining connections with loved ones who have passed is truly inspiring.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:26 How Lauren got into acting 04:02 Growing from past versions of yourself  10:56 “True faith requires curiosity…” 15:37 How to talk with God 19:55 Getting into journaling 22:09 Lauren & Nipsey’s meet-cute 25:29 Things Lauren learned from Nipsey 29:01 Coping with grief 31:10 What is shadow work? 33:53 Judging less and loving more 36:02 Laughing and living after grief 38:28 Teaching kids about grief 40:54 Stepping out of your comfort zone 43:51 Embracing self-love after loss 47:38 Prioritizing self in a demanding industry 50:48 Having no idea what to do next is okay 55:09 The last time Lauren cried  56:57 Rapid fire questions with Lauren Follow Lauren: https://www.instagram.com/laurenlondon/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/2458m 27s

Do You Want To Sleep Better? Ayurvedic Hacks To Reset Your Sleep Cycle

We all know how it feels to toss and turn, staring at the ceiling, wondering why sleep feels like an impossible dream. On this episode of A Really Good Cry, we're diving deep into the world of sleep—what makes it so essential and why it can be so hard to get. I’ll be sharing some personal stories (because yes, I’ve been there with sleepless nights and groggy mornings) and what I've learned along the way about making sleep work for us, not against us. We’re talking all things sleep—from the basics of setting up a good nighttime routine to some lesser-known tricks like Ayurveda’s take on the best sleep habits. I’ll walk you through easy, everyday changes you can start tonight—like the power of a calming bedtime snack and how even small tweaks to your sleep environment can help you relax more easily. And let's not forget those simple, practical tips for when your mind just won’t switch off. Whether you're a light sleeper, a night owl, or just someone who wants to feel more rested and energized, this episode is packed with practical advice and real talk. Trust me, with these tips, you’ll be on your way to sleeping better and feeling better in no time!   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:33 Relationship between sleep and health 04:10 What happens when you sleep? 05:38 Have a sleep routine 07:52 Ayurvedic guide to sleep 13:25 The best sleeping position 14:28 Separate your sleep space 15:35 Why an evening self-care routine is important 17:48 Set up the environment and ambiance 19:53 Avoid artificial lights 22:24 Journaling before bed 23:57 Stop watching horror movies at night 24:54 Pray 26:12 Take a deep breath 27:47 The best time to eat dinner   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/09/2434m 43s

Camila Alves McConaughey: How to Build Your Community and a Better Relationship with Yourself

They say home is where the heart is.  But it’s not just about the places we live—it’s about the people and connections that fill those spaces with warmth and meaning. This week, I had the opportunity to chat with Camila Alves McConaughey, an entrepreneur, mother, and the founder of "Women of Today," a platform dedicated to empowering women by fostering a vibrant community that offers support, advice, and shared experiences. Camila discusses the community interactions on her journey, the pivotal role of community in personal well-being, and how she’s used her platform to connect and empower women globally. They also explore the transformative power of community, the importance of cultural identity in shaping our interactions, and how initiatives like "Women of Today" are pivotal in creating spaces for women to learn, connect, and grow together.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:43 Camila on leaving Brazil 06:26 Women of Today 09:08 Universal community struggles 10:20 Having friends in different age groups 14:27 The power of sharing wisdom and advice 17:52 How to build community wherever you are 31:08 Handling life’s transitions 33:48 Embracing change and growth 39:00 Being comfortable with the uncomfortable 44:19 Writing a children’s book 48:56 What’s next for Camila? 53:07 Greenlights Grant Initiative 55:27 Camila’s fast fire   Follow Camila: https://www.instagram.com/camilamcconaughey/ https://www.instagram.com/womenoftoday/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/08/241h 3m

Stop Forcing Friendships - Signs You’ve Outgrown Certain Friends

Friendships are supposed to last forever, right? But what happens when the people who once felt like home start feeling like strangers?    In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive deep into the bittersweet reality of outgrowing friendships. As we grow and change, so do our needs and desires, and sometimes that means the friendships we’ve held onto for years no longer fit the person we’re becoming.   I’ll share my personal journey of recognizing when certain friendships were no longer serving me, and how I navigated the emotional turmoil that comes with letting go. We’ll explore the signs that indicate you might be outgrowing a friend—like when conversations start to feel repetitive or when spending time together leaves you drained rather than energized. But this isn’t just about saying goodbye; it’s about understanding that outgrowing a friendship doesn’t mean failure. Instead, it’s an opportunity for growth, both for you and the other person.   If you’ve ever felt guilty about outgrowing a friendship or wondered if you’re the only one going through this, this episode is for you. Tune in as we tackle the challenges of evolving relationships, offer tips on how to handle these transitions with grace, and ultimately remind you that it’s okay to move forward. After all, personal growth sometimes requires leaving old connections behind to make room for new ones.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:16 Outgrowing friends  05:44 You’re now in different phases of your life 07:21 Are they your friend or not? 09:40 Why is it difficult to cut ties with people 11:38 Letting go to grow 12:59 Evolving friendships without cutting all ties 15:33 Redefining your friendship 17:28 Understanding the purpose of every connection 19:30 Friendships should be taken seriously 19:58 Knowing who belongs where in your life   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/08/2426m 16s

Dr. Ramani: Narcissism 101 - How to Identify Toxic Traits and Set Boundaries

How can you spot a narcissist?  It's quite a surprise to think that someone close to us might actually have those traits—or maybe, in some ways, we share them ourselves. Narcissism isn't always obvious; it can hide in plain sight, making it tough to tell who's who and leading us to question whether we see it in others or within ourselves. Today I welcome Dr. Ramani Durvasula, a clinical psychologist known for her expertise in narcissism, personality disorders, and mental health. She's authored several books, including "Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist" and “It's Not You: Identifying and Healing from Narcissistic People". In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Dr. Ramani dives into narcissism, breaking down what makes someone a narcissist and how it affects relationships and society. She talks about spotting narcissistic traits, whether they're innate or learned, and how tough it is to change these behaviors.  I hope this episode provides you with practical insights and a deeper understanding of narcissism, enabling you to navigate relationships with clarity and confidence. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:47 What is a narcissist? 02:43 The continuum of narcissism 07:08 Insecurity vs. Narcissism 08:00 Definition of empathy 14:50 How to identify a narcissist 17:32 Can you be born with narcissism? 22:45 Healing a narcissist 26:21 Narcissist living in the society 28:29 Changing a narcissistic personality 30:49 Spotting a narcissist in a relationship 33:28 Is a narcissistic person capable of love? 36:42 Two narcissists in a relationship 38:05 How does a narcissists express their emotion? 38:54 Staying with a narcissistic partner 44:31 Growing up with a narcissistic parents 46:57 Practicing self regulation 57:19 Narcissism in history and leadership 1:02:32 Setting boundaries in social situations 1:06:10 Navigating trauma and finding inner peace 1:11:04 Healing through therapy and motherhood   Follow Dr. Ramani: https://doctor-ramani.com/ https://www.instagram.com/doctorramani/ https://www.facebook.com/doctorramani/ https://twitter.com/DoctorRamani https://doctor-ramani.com/dr-ramanis-books/   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/08/241h 22m

This Isn’t a Lecture - The Pros and Cons of a Plant Based Lifestyle

Have you ever questioned the true cost of what’s on your plate? We often choose our meals based on convenience, tradition, or taste, without fully considering the broader impact of our choices. But what if those everyday decisions are affecting more than just your body—what if they’re influencing your soul and the world around you? In this week’s episode, we explore the profound connection between what we eat and the lives we touch. From the ethics of our food choices to the spiritual insights of Ayurveda, discover how a shift to a plant-based diet can transform not just your health, but your entire perspective on life. Join us as we delve into my journey of going vegan, the challenges and rewards of conscious eating, and how simple changes in your diet can resonate far beyond your plate. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:58 How I became vegan 03:14 Plants-based vs. vegan 04:53 How eating meat affects people 05:53 The modes of nature 11:52 “Every single being on Earth has a soul…” 14:39 Reflecting on our food choices 22:03 Drinking milk 24:08 Effects of going dairy-free 25:10 Animals in labs and farms 29:09 Vegan culture is not healthy 30:32 How going vegan will impact the planet Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/08/2435m 9s

Alexis Ren: How to Utilize your Feminine Energy in this Masculine World

Ever felt overwhelmed by the constant push to fit into a masculine mold?  In this week’s episode A Really Good Cry, let’s welcome Alexis Ren to share her wisdom on harnessing the power of feminine energy in a predominantly masculine world. Discover how Alexis navigates her journey with grace and strength, turning challenges into opportunities for growth and empowerment. From mastering financial literacy to embracing vulnerability, Alexis reveals the secrets to showing up fully and authentically in every aspect of life. With practical tips and heartfelt stories, this episode promises to inspire you to embrace your true self and thrive. Join us for an engaging conversation that breaks down barriers, challenges norms, and empowers you to live boldly and confidently. Don't miss this chance to learn how to balance your energies and step into your power with Alexis Ren! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:10 Women and finance 06:22 The paradox of life 09:00 Balancing your masculine and feminine energy 15:32 Impostor syndrome 18:11 Learning to be a teacher 20:21 “Was I just performing or being authentic?...” 28:28 How you can show up for yourself 35:03 When life gives you opportunities 37:52 Find things you want to give your 100% into 41:25 Manifestation and success 46:02 Fear of losing everything 49:43 Why you should think about death 57:00 Embracing the feeling of sadness 1:01:26 Becoming comfortable with crying 1:05:08 What kind of crier are you? Follow Alexis: https://www.instagram.com/alexisren/ https://www.facebook.com/alexisrenofficial https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisren https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSoKaD27LRI9nBPJ2KB1lnQ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/07/241h 14m

How Your Food is Affecting Your Mood - A Guide to Improve Your Mood, Energy and Focus Through Your Meals

Is your comfort food really comforting you? We often turn to our favorite snacks and meals in times of stress or sadness, seeking solace in the familiar tastes and textures. But have you ever wondered if these foods are truly comforting your mind and body, or if they might be doing more harm than good? In this week’s episode, we’ll dive into the fascinating relationship between what we eat and how we feel, uncovering the hidden impacts of our dietary choices on our emotional well-being.  We’ll also explore mindful eating practices, the wisdom of Ayurveda, and the transformative power of nourishing your body, mind, and soul.  Discover how small changes in your diet can lead to profound shifts in your mood and overall health. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:10 Food can be medicine 02:39 Association of comfort with food 04:31 Feel what your body is feeling 05:52 Change how you view comfort foods 09:04 Control what you eat, don’t let food control you 11:45 Stop labeling food as good and bad 13:24 The Four Pillars of Health 16:46 The categories of food in Ayurveda 32:19 Adaptogens and spices 35:50 Get your blood tested 38:05 The nutrients you need to boost your mood 41:14 Anti-inflammatory foods 44:06 Invest in your health 53:36 Relationship between our gut and brain 56:16 Glucose spikes in our body   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/07/241h 2m

Cleo Wade: Toxic Self Talk - A Path to Reclaiming Yourself

Ever feel like anxiety is taking over your life? Today, I welcome Cleo Wade, an acclaimed poet, author, and speaker known for her profound insights on self-love, mindfulness, and authentic living. Cleo has touched countless lives with her heartfelt words and has authored several best-selling books that inspire readers to embrace their true selves. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Cleo and I delve into the transformative journey of overcoming anxiety. We explore the healing power of words, discussing how journaling can be a tool for self-discovery and emotional release. Cleo shares her personal experiences and practical strategies for recognizing anxiety and replacing it with grounded choices. We also talk about the importance of creating daily rituals that nourish the soul and provide a sense of peace amidst the chaos. From simple practices like mindful breathing to the profound impact of connecting with nature, Cleo offers actionable advice for anyone looking to find calm in their daily lives. So, find a quiet place, perhaps with a comforting cup of tea, and join me and Cleo for a conversation that promises to inspire and uplift. This episode is a heartfelt journey towards self-acceptance and empowerment that you won't want to miss. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:48 Using words to express yourself 07:26 Fear-based decisions 09:30 Anxiety is fear 11:53 The impact of what we watch and listen to 16:40 Adapting self-care to fit your daily routine 20:21 Finding your unique path to wellness 23:48 How physical activity fuels mental clarity 31:11 Being lost and finding yourself 36:21 “Acceptance is truly our natural state…” 39:56 Understanding pain 44:04 Where is negative self-talk coming from? 48:53 You are what you watch  50:43 Reconnecting with your body and mind 57:15 The power of gratitude 1:02:47 Watching people fall in love 1:06:14 Most difficult emotion to deal with 1:09:05 Why we need to cry more often Follow Cleo: https://cleowade.com/ https://www.instagram.com/cleowade/ https://www.facebook.com/cleowadeofficial/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/07/241h 19m

Is Your Help Doing More Harm Than Good? Signs It's Time to Stop Helping Someone

How much help is too much? This question hits close to home for many of us. We all want to be there for our friends and family, but there comes a point where we need to step back.  Offering too much help can end up making them dependent on us, preventing them from learning to stand on their own.  It's all about finding that middle ground – being supportive without taking away their chance to learn and grow independently. Today, let's explore the idea of figuring out when our help might be excessive, and whether it's causing any negative impacts on us or the person we're assisting. We've all been in situations where we give a lot without receiving the same in return. To handle this, we need to understand what genuine support truly means.  Always remember that there are times when you don't have to be the hero for everyone. Sometimes, it's important to take care of yourself first before reaching out to help others. What We Discuss:00:00 Intro 00:29 The Savior Complex06:49 How do you know if you’re helping someone too much?13:54 Are you helping them get better or make themselves feel better?16:07 What you want for someone is not necessarily what they want18:57 Are you invited to help?21:18 Pathological altruism26:38 What if helping is harming you?30:00 True support Follow Radhi:https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQhttps://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukiaSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/07/2434m 54s

Louise Hazel: Fitness Misconceptions - What it Means to Get Into the Best Shape of Your Life

Strong is the new beautiful, but how can women truly embrace their power? Today, I welcome Louise Hazel, a heptathlete and fitness professional. She gained recognition for her athletic achievements, including competing in the heptathlon, which consists of seven track and field events.  In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Lou and I cover many topics, from why lifting weights is way more than just a workout to busting myths about strength training. But that's not all! We also talked about how our bodies have their own seasons, and why it's a good thing to really listen to them.  Ever wondered what to eat before and after hitting the gym? We talked about that too! We also shared our experience of surrounding ourselves with a supportive community for growth.  Lastly, we shared a candid conversation about dealing with tough times and finding strength in letting go. So, grab a cozy spot, maybe a cup of tea, and join me and Louise for a chat that's as heartwarming as a good friend's hug. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:13 Strength training for women 03:53 The biggest misconception in weight training 06:21 Aesthetics is not athletics 10:58 What it takes to achieve your body goal 19:02 Macronutrients 22:12 Building muscle while losing weight 24:27 What to do if you can’t afford personal trainers? 28:45 Our bodies cycle through seasons 30:28 Listen to your body  32:12 Pre and post-workout meal 40:48 Body positivity 49:31 Embracing transformation 55:48 Quick fitness and workout questions 57:42 Sacrifices to reach goals 1:01:00 Building a community for growth and transformation 1:08:14 Coping with grief through surrendering 1:19:49 Retreating to come back stronger 1:22:57 Go-to emotional release 1:24:32 What type of crier are you? Follow Lou: https://www.instagram.com/louisehazel/ https://www.facebook.com/LouiseHazel/ https://www.instagram.com/slayathletic/ https://open.spotify.com/show/35UovsfJZfat5xU6r6i55b?si=a6d7040d89b94803 https://www.slayathletic.com/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/07/241h 28m

Breaking the Cycle of Family Trauma: How to Create New Thought Patterns and Communicate Authentically

How many relationships could be saved by a single honest conversation? Assumptions can be silent relationship killers, creeping into our interactions and creating unnecessary barriers.  In this episode of A Really Good Cry, we dive into how unspoken assumptions can drive people apart and how open communication can bring them back together. We’ll also explore why we make assumptions, how they affect our lives, and offer practical tips to break the habit. Discover how challenging your assumptions can lead to stronger, more genuine connections. Tune in to learn how questioning your assumptions can transform your relationships for the better. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:47 Resolving family drama  02:24 The problem with taking assumption as truth 03:55 Why do we have assumptions? 06:43 How do you stop yourself from making assumptions? 09:09 Everything is not about you 10:24 Let go of your fear of discomfort 13:07 Assumptions can ruin relationships 15:44 How honest conversations can transform your relationship 17:15 Give someone the benefit of your doubt 19:05 “Humans have the need to know…” 21:05 What to do when you find yourself assuming? Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/06/2431m 4s

Alok Vaid-Menon: Accepting Yourself - How to Not Let the Judgement of Others Mold Who You Are

Real compassion breaks down the barriers that divide us. It's not just about doing nice things, it's about creating a safety net of care. True compassion blurs the lines between "me" and "you." It's about understanding that we're all connected and that looking out for each other is what really matters. Today, I welcome Alok Vaid-Menon, a writer, performer, and advocate known for their activism in the LGBTQ+ community. They're recognized for their insightful discussions on gender, identity, and social justice. Alok's work often challenges societal norms and perceptions, aiming to promote acceptance and equality for all genders. Their powerful storytelling and performances resonate with audiences worldwide, sparking important conversations about inclusivity and self-expression. In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Alok and I talked about how they were able to live authentically and how they found confidence through writing. We also explore finding beauty in the little things and how we connect in this digital world. Alok shares insights on dealing with hate using compassion and where all that hate might actually come from. Make sure to sit back and relax as you listen to this insightful and inspiring conversation with Alok!    What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:29 Living authentically 02:15 Finding confidence through writing 06:17 Growing up different in Texas 08:24 Cultural influence on parenting 14:20 Appreciating parent’s sacrfices 16:34 The beauty in the mundane 20:24 Connection and community in a digital age 24:35 Handling hate with compassion 29:44 Where does hate come from? 33:33 What is true compassion? 39:38 Embracing every emotion in our growth 48:27 The intersection of religion, spirituality, and gender 52:19 Balancing masculine and feminine energies 55:52 Living your truth 58:12  Love across religious divides 1:01:14 The last time Alok had a good cry 1:04:12 What kind of crier is Alok? Follow Alok: https://www.alokvmenon.com/ https://www.instagram.com/alokvmenon/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCG_G2mCoGdNUIOPaPrgorHg https://www.tiktok.com/@alokvmenon Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/241h 7m

What Your Gut Health Says About You: 5 Changes You Can Make to Improve Your Gut

Ever heard of the saying, “Listen to your gut?” Your gut health plays a pivotal role in your overall well-being, influencing everything from digestion and nutrient absorption to immune function and even mood regulation. It's like a second brain residing in your abdomen, communicating with your body in ways we're only beginning to understand. Today, let's dive deep into simple yet effective ways to maintain a healthy gut. We'll cover practical tips for improving digestion and highlight common foods that can naturally enhance your gut health. We'll also touch on recognizable signs that might indicate if you're experiencing any gut-related issues. By following these tips and incorporating digestion-friendly foods into your diet, you're taking a positive step towards a healthier gut and a happier version of yourself.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Everything is linked to our gut 01:07 What is gut health? 02:01 Signs of gut issues 05:56 Your body cleanses your insides at night 07:22 Tip #1: Control your sugar intake 13:54 Tip #2: Eat the rainbow - have a variety of natural foods in different colors 21:38 Tip #3: Stop drinking cold water 25:10 Tip #4: Incorporate spice in your food 29:10 Tip #5: Avoid eating raw foods 32:13 We have a responsibility to look after our health Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/06/2434m 58s

Deepica Mutyala & Francia Raísa: Single, Married, or It’s Complicated? Society’s Expectations on Women and How To Find Your Identity Beyond the Stereotypes

30, flirty, and single?? Today, Radhi welcomes two of her amazing best friends to A Really Good Cry, Francia Raisa and Deepica Mutyala!  In this episode they openly discuss the joys and challenges of their friendship, highlighting the importance of genuine connections and the power of sisterhood. Francia and Deepica also share their personal journeys of defying these expectations and finding happiness in their own paths, proving that life doesn't always follow society's timelines. Tune in to this captivating episode and witness the magic that happens when authentic friendships and personal transformations come together. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 04:18 Being single-shamed 11:08 Choosing not to have kids 13:08 It’s okay to change your mind 14:14 Growing on your own first 18:09 Changing the social norms  20:38 Trusting yourself first, gain confidence after 22:51 Handling negative comments 24:40 Embracing every season of your life 29:40 “Don’t set yourself up for failure…” 33:12 Having a community and surrounding yourself with good people 40:22 Fear of doing something first 41:17 Masculine and feminine qualities in relationships 45:27 Definition of man and masculinity in dating 49:07 Financial responsibility in relationships 51:33 Be okay with your partner’s vulnerability 54:04 What makes a woman? 1:00:05 Qualities of a good friend 1:12:27 Check up on all your friends 1:14:44 How to handle unrequested opinions 1:20:18 Gossiping in relationships 1:27:12 Things to work on to become a better friend 1:34:03 Communicate with your friends better 1:39:53 Be open to new friendships 1:48:36 What type of crier are you? Follow Francia: https://www.instagram.com/franciaraisa/ https://www.facebook.com/TheRealFranciaRaisa/ https://www.tiktok.com/@franciaraisa Follow Deepica: https://www.instagram.com/deepica/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbK1O-GSEDwjdSO5udBVrxQ https://www.linkedin.com/in/deepica-mutyala-0a063711/ https://www.facebook.com/deepica/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/06/241h 55m

Are You Tired All The Time? Easy to Follow Tips to Increase Your Energy Throughout The Day

Have you always been feeling tired recently?  Feeling tired is something we all deal with—it's like running on empty, trying to keep up with everything on our plates. But what if there are simple ways to avoid that drained feeling without making things overly complicated? In this episode, we're diving into eight easy tricks to sidestep that overwhelming tiredness. From small adjustments in your routine to proven strategies, we'll uncover these simple yet effective ways to shake off that tiredness. No need for complex routines—just straightforward steps to get back your spark and enthusiasm. Here are the 8 ways you could do to avoid feeling tired: Get a full-body check-up Understand your hormones and cycles Take care of your gut Make sure to get enough sleep and rest Start exercising Connect with other people Avoid relying on sugar and coffee Do meditation and breathing exercises Join us as we explore these eight practical techniques, helping you bid farewell to feeling worn out and greet each day feeling energized! What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 02:26 Your body is asking for a break 04:45 Get a full-body check-up 06:45 What are the vitamins that you need? 13:37 The two main minerals  17:58 Effects of processed foods on our body 18:38 Hormones and cycles 24:40 Take care of your gut 28:45 How to solve your gut issues 31:29 Sleep and rest 35:22 Get moving and start exercising 37:23 Connect with other people 39:07 Sugar and coffee won’t give you energy 41:40 Meditation and breath work 43:01 Why you need to stay hydrated 44:09 Energy vampires and leaks Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/05/2446m 43s

Jessie Inchauspé: The One Ingredient That’s Ruining Your Health. 4 Hacks on How to Eat Sugar and Carbs the Right Way and Curb Your Cravings

You've heard the saying, 'You are what you eat.' But how true is that really? On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry,  I had the pleasure of speaking with Jessie Inchauspé, a biochemist and author widely known as the Glucose Goddess. She's revolutionized how we think about diet, glucose, and overall wellness. In this episode, Jessie dives into the science of glucose management and its profound impact on our daily lives. She shares her own story of figuring out how to feel better by changing what she eats. Don't miss this episode with Jessie as she talks about her easy hacks for managing glucose, discusses the misleading world of food labels, and the personal breakthroughs that have made her a champion of change in nutritional science. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 01:06 Jessie’s backstory 04:11 You are what you eat 05:27 What is glucose? 08:19 When should you get your glucose levels checked? 13:35 Sugar is addicting 15:09 The correct order of eating your foods 20:34 Dress your carbs 22:10 Exercise after your meal 24:36 Why you should add vinegar to your foods 27:26 Have a savory breakfast 31:06 Find the right diet for you 35:50 Do you want to start wearing a glucose monitor? 36:45 Symptoms are messages from your body 38:10 Food labels red flags 41:54 The role of diet in fertility 51:11 Sugar and dementia 53:28 Can sugar make you depressed? 56:36 Fast round with Jessie Follow Jessie: https://www.instagram.com/glucosegoddess/ https://twitter.com/glucosegoddesss https://www.tiktok.com/@glucosegoddess_ https://www.glucosegoddess.com/ https://www.glucosegoddess.com/books Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/05/241h 3m

Distorted Self Image: Let Go of Negative Self Talk and Create a Positive Relationship With Your Body

Breathe in positivity, exhale negativity.  Ever caught yourself looking in the mirror and just feeling, well, not great about what you see? We all have those moments, and they can lead to us being super hard on ourselves. When we see a distorted image of ourselves, especially about our body and how we look, we tend to become self-critical and resort to negative self-talk.  Today, we are going to focus on breaking out of that kind of mindset and focusing on giving ourselves so much love. Let's talk about how to get out of this distorted mindset and focus more on self-appreciation. We start by discovering three things we truly love about ourselves and how to be in a space where societal expectations and opinions no longer hold sway over your authenticity. There is a profound impact in changing the way we talk to ourselves. Positive self-talk isn't just about words; it's about nurturing inner dialogue that ignites joy and self-compassion.  But it doesn't end with self-love. Compliments are more than words; they're a gift of affirmation that uplifts not just the recipient, but also the giver. Let's celebrate the magic of being unapologetically ourselves and embrace the beauty we hold within us.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Surprise energy work with a stranger 02:20 The 3 things you love about yourself 07:50 It’s so freeing to not just care 10:57 Change how you talk to yourself 12:59 Appreciate your body 15:09 Compliment other people 18:04 Negative relationship with the concept of being skinny 18:42 Take social media breaks 20:02 The truth about comparison 24:40 The clothes for when I… 26:16 You are the soul and not the body Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/05/2428m 47s

Tan France: Your Past Doesn't Define You - How To Find Strength to Break Barriers and Be Yourself

Remember the feeling of excitement as a child when you spotted someone who looked like you on TV? That rush of validation and connection is at the heart of why representation matters.  On this week’s episode of A Really Good Cry, I had the pleasure of speaking with Tan France, a prominent fashion designer, television personality, and author. He’s best known for his chic style and groundbreaking role as a fashion expert on the Emmy-winning series, "Queer Eye."  In this episode, Tan delves into how his unique background has shaped his perspective on fashion and identity, and he shares his journey of overcoming cultural barriers to become a voice of change in the fashion industry. Don't miss this episode with Tan France, as he opens up about his life challenges, cultural influences, and the personal evolution that has shaped him. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:42 From pain to purpose 03:38 Moving out of the UK 09:56 Finding freedom in love 14:15 Relationship between race and self-acceptance 20:03 The burden of minority representation 24:55 Fame and responsibility 28:07 Embracing the duality and maintaining happiness 32:56 What determines a real friendship? 41:26 Is Tan a member of the Illuminati? 44:34 Building confidence and overcoming imposter syndrome 51:59 Wanting to walk away from fame 58:11 Maintaining positivity online 1:01:55 Practicing gratitude 1:04:37 Dealing with rudeness 1:06:23 Rapid fire questions with Tan 1:13:41 What type of crier is Tan France?   Follow Tan: https://www.instagram.com/tanfrance/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tanfrance https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCn2YVZBKTWITFiCqMPGfHcA   Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/05/241h 16m

Are You Emotionally Unavailable? How To Control Your Emotions So They Don’t Control You

When was the last time you cried? For some, crying can be seen as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. Society often teaches us that showing our feelings, especially by crying, should be avoided or suppressed, especially in certain situations or if we want to appear strong. But it's crucial to understand that crying is a natural and healthy way to release bottled-up emotions and stress. It's a physical response that helps us deal with different situations and emotions. Trying to hold back tears can negatively affect our mental and emotional well-being, possibly making us more stressed, anxious, or even physically unwell. Today, let's talk about the positive effects of crying and releasing our emotions. Crying is not a sign of weakness, but rather an essential aspect of being human. It provides an avenue for emotional release, stress relief, enhanced mood, mental clarity, and deeper connections with others. So, the next time you feel like shedding a tear, don't hold back. It's perfectly okay and can be quite beneficial for your overall well-being. What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:39 Story behind ‘A Really Good Cry’ 03:34 Crying and emotional release 05:32 Embracing and processing emotions 07:54 Emotions are signs from our body 10:20 Recognizing and understanding your emotions 14:02 Why do we suppress emotions? 18:01 Signs and symptoms of trapped emotions 22:19 Where do you carry your emotions? 24:56 “Learn how to see people in the gray and live in the gray…” 29:15 Other types of emotional release 34:00 Be equanimous 36:36 Different kinds of criers Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.tiktok.com/@radhidevlukia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/04/2438m 20s

Tia Mowry: You’re Unhappy and You Don’t Know it - Learn to Leave the Comfort of Being Unhappy

In a world where everyone keeps telling us who we should be, finding the courage to love ourselves authentically can be a breakthrough. Today, I had the great opportunity to speak with Tia Mowry, an actress, producer, author, and television personality, best known for her role on the sitcom "Sister, Sister," which she starred in alongside her identical twin sister, Tamera Mowry.  Discover how Tia, known for her vibrant energy and magnetic personality, sets out on a path of self-discovery and healing From the highs of fame to the challenges of personal growth, Tia shares her candid experiences with learning to prioritize self-care, embraces her inner strength, and find joy in the solitude of her own company. Tia's story is a powerful testament to the importance of self-love in a world that often pushes us toward external validation. Whether it's through meditation, journaling, or simply taking a moment to acknowledge her accomplishments, Tia's journey is a reminder that self-love isn't just about self-care rituals; it's about creating a life where you are the source of your happiness and fulfillment. So, tune in to be inspired by Tia's journey and learn how to cultivate a deeper sense of self-love in your own life. It's a conversation that promises to uplift, inspire, and empower you to embrace the beauty of being your own best friend.   What We Discuss: 00:00 Intro 00:58 Learning to choose yourself 03:03 Positive affirmations and being present 06:12 Finding courage in the unknown 10:47 Being comfortable in an unhappy place 15:16 Going to therapy 20:34 Letting go of your past self 24:09 Breaking free from approval 30:45 Coming back home to yourself 35:09 Nurturing spiritual curiosity in children 40:17 Taking responsibility for your life 46:18 Building confidence  49:53 Overcoming negative self-talk 55:37 Going on a solo trip for the first time 1:01:50 Being okay with change 1:05:17 Tia’s go-to self-care products 1:07:57 Dealing with anxiety and anger 1:09:10 What type of crier are you?   Follow Tia: https://www.instagram.com/tiamowry/ https://www.tiktok.com/@tiamowry https://www.youtube.com/@TiaMowrysQuickFix/ Follow Radhi: https://www.instagram.com/radhidevlukia/ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxWe9A4kMf9V_AHOXkGhCzQ https://www.facebook.com/radhidevlukia1/ https://www.pinterest.ph/radhieats/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/04/241h 13m

Introducing: A Really Good Cry with Radhi Devlukia

A Really Good Cry with Radhi won’t solve all your problems, but it WILL go through them with you. A space to feel it all: laugh, cry and everything in between. As you go through the seasons of life, the emotions, the uncomfortable, the good stuff and even on those days you ‘just don't want to’, these conversations will have something for you. Whether it's vulnerable moments with friends, discussions with experts, or the wisdom, research and experiences that Radhi learns herself and shares with you; this podcast will be the bridge between you and the person you’re becoming. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/04/241m 15s
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