Strawberry Letter

Strawberry Letter

By Premiere Networks

If you have an issue that you'd like The Steve Harvey Morning Show to consider for on air discussion and guidance, you may submit your issue in the form of "Strawberry Letter." Your Strawberry Letter may range from personal topics, career decisions, marriage issues, dating issues, social problems, family problems, money matters, religious interests or any other life topics.

Episodes

Financial Motivation: UNCF helps you engage with Fortune 500 companies, nonprofit organizations, and government agencies through career fairs.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer, Rushion McDonald, interviewed Stacy Spratt. She has worked with the United Negro College Fund for 15 years and has been the Director for The Empower Me Tour for ten years. Her mission is to help provide resources for minority students in areas that do not have any HBCU colleges. She is a proud Clark Atlanta University graduate and a Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. member. UNCF is celebrating its 80th anniversary this year. UNCF Empowerment Tour is one of the leading programs that tours the country to provide job and scholarship opportunities. #BEST #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/10/2425m 23s

She Sent Us The Proof

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15/10/2413m 20s

Legacy Name: Built Fanbase social media app that enables instant monetization, with no censorship.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, Isaac Hayes, III.  His business career started in 2013 when he served as president and C.E.O of Isaac Hayes Enterprises. Managing the name, image, likeness, brand, masters, and publishing catalog of his soul icon father, the late Isaac Hayes.  He is also a visionary to change social media forever.  That vision is Fanbase.  He used his fearless and savvy use of social media to help elect Atlanta’s 61st Mayor, Andre Dickens and has been a civil servant for the community, demanding equality for all creators in the social media space. Fanbase is a Black-owned social media app that focuses on instant monetization with no censorship, making users owners of their own IPs. Isaac is also in a raise for his Fanbase app. Isaac conducted an Investathon, which was star-studded with influencers, leaders, and media personalities. It went extremely well and the details are attached. #BEST #STRAW #SHMS          See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/10/2428m 5s

My Mother And My Ex Are Besties

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14/10/2413m 22s

Is He Faking It with Me

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11/10/2413m 18s

Small Town Success Story: Oversees Rolling Stone, Dick Clark Productions, Robb Report, Variety and SXSW.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Paul Rainey. He serves as Executive Vice President of Operations and Finance for Penske Media Corporation (PMC). In this role, he works across PMC’s portfolio of award-winning brands, including Rolling Stone, Billboard, Variety, The Hollywood Reporter, Vibe, Robb Report, SHE Media, Dick Clark Productions, Luminate, Sportico, and SXSW. Rainey oversees all operations and financial decision-making affecting the various operating companies that report to him. He provides strategic financial input companywide, including developing and implementing operational and financial procedures to improve and maintain the economic health of PMC and its leading media brands. He also guides acquisitions and investments.  Paul also serves on several boards.  He is the Audit Committee Chair of Redaptive, Inc. board of directors and a SXSW director.  An accomplished senior executive with 25 years of financial leadership experience across multiple verticals with extensive international experience in billion-dollar operations spanning five continents.   Rainey holds a Master of Science in Accountancy and a BBA in Finance and Computer Applications from the University of Notre Dame.   *Company DescriptionPenske Media Corporation (PMC) is a leading global media and information services company whose award-winning content attracts a passionate monthly audience of more than 350 million. Since 2004, PMC has been a pioneer in digital media and live events, reaching viewers on all screens across its ever-growing constellation of iconic brands, which includes Variety, Rolling Stone, The Hollywood Reporter, Billboard, Dick Clark Productions, WWD, SHE Media, Robb Report, Deadline, Sportico, BGR, ARTnews, Fairchild Media, Vibe, IndieWire, Artforum, Gold Derby and Luminate, the premier data and analytics company. PMC’s journalists and content creators deliver daily the most comprehensive news and information in their industries and areas of coverage, unequaled in ambition, depth, and courage. In addition, PMC owns several of the most iconic and vital cultural events such as the Golden Globes, Country Music Awards (ACMs), Billboard Music Awards (BBMAs), New Year’s Rockin Eve, SXSW, American Music Awards (AMAs), LA3C, Life is Beautiful, Latin Music Week, and ATX Television Festival. Penske Media is headquartered in New York and Los Angeles with additional offices in 14 countries worldwide, for more information, please visit www.PMC.com I have worked for some of the largest companies in the world (General Electric for 15+ years across 5 continents) and have been a board advisor to startups with a few employees that have gone on to obtain Fortune 100 companies as clients.  I have seen many paths and time horizons to financial stability and can share what I have observed in a few areas specifically in a time where people are struggling with remote work to return to offices turning the "work/life" balance and or priorities upside down. While they are also trying build wealth to gain financial security while they pursue professional careers: Talking Points1) Work life balance - How to navigate in today's environment2) Wealth building - What is reasonable time horizon (overnight?), How to think about generating passive income, keys to investing #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/10/2424m 17s

He Brought Me The Wrong Clothes

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10/10/2413m 23s

His Bad Jokes Backfired

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09/10/2413m 16s

Five Core Values for Success: Customer Service, Integrity, Teamwork, Accountability, and Respect

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning Television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviews Ken Taunton, founder and president of The Royster Group, a nationally recognized, certified Black-owned professional staffing firm. Solidified with the five core values for success, including customer service, integrity, teamwork, accountability, and respect, The Royster Group is one of North America’s fastest-growing professional staffing agencies providing diverse and highly qualified executive-level talent for the public and private sectors, including healthcare and government. Here are some interview highlights: Ken established The Royster Group after noticing a need for more diversity, including women and people of color, in senior-level executive searches while employed at Korn Ferry. A minority business enterprise certification legitimizes Black-owned businesses' capability and capacity to do business with Fortune 500 companies. Healthcare support services careers are among the top job markets due to the nation’s growing population of people who need help caring for themselves. As a new business owner, having a mentor who shares free information about important business decisions can help you avoid costly mistakes in the future.  The U.S. Small Business Administration and SCORE are excellent resources for small business owners who need guidance on establishing the appropriate business model. Established in 2001, The Royster Group is a multi-million-dollar firm with national clients in over 20 states. In 2023, Ken was named the U.S. Small Business Administration Small Businessperson of the Year for Georgia. #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/10/2430m 16s

He Stinks Because of His Mama

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a twenty nine year old mama's boy. We dated off and on for a few years, so I'm really cool with his mom. I decided to date him again even though I know his mom is a huge part of his daily life. His father died when he was a teenager, so he feels responsible for his mother. That's the part I love about him, but he needs to realize his mother is only forty seven and she can have a man if she wanted one. Here's the part I don't like. He is staying with her temporarily because someone tried to break in one night. They live in his grandmother's old house, and all of the furniture is from the eighties. The windows are nailed shut, so there's never fresh air circulating in there. The drapes are dusty, and so is everything else in there........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/10/2413m 3s

Building Your Brand: Skincare harnesses the power of Africa’s natural resources - R&R Skincare.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, Valerie Obaze.  R&R Skincare is a premier, woman-owned beauty brand dedicated to crafting high-quality, cruelty-free skincare products that harness the power of Africa’s natural resources.   1. Overview of R&R Skincare as a woman-owned, cruelty-free beauty brand founded in 2010 in Ghana. Emphasis on the brand’s commitment to ethical sourcing and sustainability. 2. Valerie's background as an entrepreneur, philanthropist, and mother. 3. The inspiration behind founding R&R Skincare, highlighting the personal connection to her mission. + Valerie’s clear vision is to establish R&R as one of Africa’s leading beauty brands using indigenous African ingredients, such as Shea and Baobab, and their healing properties. 4. How R&R Skincare empowers African women through job creation and fair trade practices. 5. The role of African culture and heritage in shaping the brand’s identity and product offerings. 6. R&R Skincare prioritizes sustainability in its supply chain and product formulations.The brand’s approach to creating luxurious products that are environmentally friendly. 7. Overview of R&R Skincare’s plans of expansion into the U.S. market and its significance for the brand, along with future plans for engaging with diverse audiences while showcasing African beauty secrets. 8. Valerie’s commitment to philanthropy and community support through R&R Skincare. 9. Reflections on balancing entrepreneurship and motherhood. 10. (Closing Thoughts) Invitation for listeners to connect with R&R Skincare and explore its product offerings. Encouragement to support ethical and sustainable beauty brands that celebrate African heritage. #BEST #STRAW #SHMS  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/10/2432m 16s

His Female Friend Was In His Bed

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend was out of town, so I went to pick up our dog so he could stay with me. I heard a female voice say, hello, "who's there?" I knew the voice, so I walked back to my boyfriend's bedroom and it was his female friend lying in his bed. She was all cozy under the covers watching a movie. I remained calm as I asked why she was there. She said that she has been having issues with her marriage, so my boyfriend suggested that she stay at his house while he was out of town. She said that he was supposed to tell me about it. I played it off like maybe he did tell me, and I forgot. I noticed this woman was wrapped up in the monogrammed robe I gave my boyfriend for Christmas as she explained how special my boyfriend is to her and how he always gives her great advice about her marriage..............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/10/2413m 20s

He Fell Asleep with The Video On

Dear Steve and Shirley,  My husband falls asleep on the couch all the time while he's scrolling through his phone. The other night, I thought the TV was up too loud, so I went to tell him to turn it down a little bit. He was knocked out with his phone on his chest and he had his AirPods in. I took them out, and when I did, I could hear a video on his phone and there was music playing and a woman in the background. I started watching the video because a woman was bare chested. She'd bent over and kissed a man and told him to take a selfie with her.................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/10/2413m 22s

Faith and Business: Army Veteran started skin care product line and Fade Shop barbershop brand.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Ozell Graham.  He is a US Army Veteran who started The Fade Shop Brand in 1996 inside a tent while serving his country deployed in Bosnia during Operation Joint Endeavor. After eight years of Honorable Service, Ozell transitioned back into the civilian workforce, moving to Arkansas to pursue his career in Cosmetology. Upon graduation, Ozell moved to Dallas, Texas, where he worked in several barbershops where he learned more about hair and how to run a business. In 2005, Ozell stepped out on faith and followed his dream of entrepreneurship, and opened his first barbershop in Dallas. He currently has three successful locations in the Dallas Metroplex,  and a Hair and Skin Care Product Company called AT Ease!  AT Ease Hair and Skin Care's Mission is to provide universal hair and skin products, education, and training to consumers so they can maintain personal grooming for healthy hair and skin, leaving them relaxed and worry-free. *Talking Points/QuestionsHere are 5 Effective Steps to help you grow and  Maintain a Healthy BeardStep 1-  Let your facial hair growStep 2: Once you have a beard, big or small, you want to wash it using a beard wash. This will remove any dirt, product buildup, and dry or flaky skin that can cause a blockage that stunts hair growth. Keeping it clean will also open your pores and allow your beard to grow smoothly through the skin.Step 3—After your beard is clean, you want to add a non-pore-clogging beard moisturizer or oil. This will keep your hair and skin moist to prevent dryness, protect the hair from breakage, and prevent skin cracking. Doing this will also improve your hair and skin's texture. Step 4-Brushing or Combing your beard daily helps distribute the natural oils to moisturize, while stimulating blood flow that can improve beard growth because the more nutrients that are going to your beard follicles will return a healthier beard.Step 5-Maintain a nice curb appeal on your beard keeping your borders (top and bottom) clean and neat by using a trimmer or razor. Doing this will be a great foundation for that Stand Out Beard. #BEST #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/10/2423m 21s

When I Can Be Myself Around Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I relocated for work and I rented a house. I used an agency to help me locate the home, and a nice religious man ended up showing me around. When my furniture arrived, he offered to help me get my house in order. He showed me around the city one day, and then he surprised me by asking me out on a date. I was eager to get to know him better. I learned a lot about him, like he likes proper women, as he calls it. He said he likes a woman that is classy at all times, even at home. He said he loves a woman that still smells good after an eight hour workday, and she can command attention without saying a word. I told him the type of men I'm attracted to, and I assured him that he's my type..................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/10/2413m 18s

He Risked It All for One More Night With Her

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that was married. When I met him, he was going through a hard divorce, so I allowed him to vent and even cry sometimes because he was going through it. I loved how he never said anything negative about his ex wife. I felt like she had to be an evil person because of how bad the divorce was. I finally talked to her for the first time, and she's far from evil. But first, let me tell you what happened. Two weekends ago. I went to Dallas for the day and I drove back home that same night. My boyfriend said he was out watching the game. He sent me a text that said he wanted to see me before I left, and another one that said please, please please.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/10/2413m 28s

What Does She Do That’s So Amazing

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend is in love with his brother's wife and he won't admit it. It started as a joke, but now it's starting to get under my skin. I met his brother. The same night I met him. His brother had just started dating the lady he married. That was four years ago. They are married, but my boyfriend and I are not. My boyfriend idolizes his sister in law and compliments her when she's all dressed up, which is all of the time. Her hair is sure and fly and she has expensive purses and shoes. She called me last week and asked me if we could do a day of pampering together.................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/10/2413m 22s

Why Does My Husband Go Out and Without Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I decided early against having children. We have a great social life and our house is still the hangout spot for our friends. He's sixty one and I'm fifty nine, and we have made the marriage work for twenty seven years. Last year I found out he was cheating. His lover kept calling his phone over and over, so I told him to handle it. He told me that he handled it. I decided not to stress about it because there was nothing I could do to stop him from cheating, and I was not ready to leave him and be alone, so I didn't ask any questions. He did all he could to show me how remorseful he was for cheating, and I was just happy that our friends didn't find out, so I didn't have to deal with the embarrassment and stress.........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/09/2413m 18s

She Gives A Great Performance

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been dating a very attractive woman with the perfect body and beautiful brown skin. I met her at a gym and she asked me out, which I loved because she is not afraid to go after something if she wants it. We have been dating for a little over a month and we finally had sex over the Labor Day holiday. I wasn’t expecting the performance I got.................................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/09/2413m 16s

Hot and Heavy Every Night

Dear Steve and Shirley, I got married three years ago and I love sex. My husband works hard as a construction worker, so I let him relax before I get nasty with them. I make sure I feed him first. When we go to bed really early because his days start early. He makes sure we're having sex by 9pm. He takes care of business and I go on to sleep every time. I was living the dream and didn't know that he had a problem with anything we had going on in the bedroom. But apparently he does, and I found out through a third party...........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/09/2413m 21s

Am I Just A Rebound With A Nice Apartment

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am twenty eight years old and my boyfriend is twenty seven. He was an old flame that I had in school, and I decided to rekindle things with him. He pursued me, and I finally gave in. I realized he was the missing piece in my life and he told me the same thing. He moved in with me the second week of our relationship, and we were learning to love each other again. All was well until he took me to his family reunion. His ex-girlfriend was there and he knew she would be there. He has a daughter with her, so she came with his daughter......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/09/2413m 24s

Financial Motivator (s): Techniques on bridging the wealth gap and fostering financial empowerment.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer, Rushion McDonald interviewed George Acheampong and Carter Cofield. They own Melanin Money, which aims to empower the Black community through financial literacy and wealth-building. They have been recognized for their innovative approach to bridging the wealth gap and fostering a culture of financial empowerment. Melanin Money has implemented the challenges they have had to overcome, as well as their advice for aspiring entrepreneurs.   The interview would cover topics such as: - The inspiration behind founding Melanin Money - Key milestones and achievements in your journey - Strategies for promoting financial literacy within the Black community - Personal stories of success and overcoming obstacles Future goals and projects for Melanin Money #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/09/2423m 31s

How Did He Get That In His Shoe

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for twenty four years and married for fifteen years. We dated and broke up a lot in the past because he's a cheater. He had sex with six women that I know of, and I'm sure there are plenty that I don't know about in the past fifteen years. He said he's been faithful and he stopped all of the messing around a year before we got married. My husband has embarrassed me to no end, and my family still has a problem with accepting him. I thought things were going good and I kind of let my guard down, but my family was right and I never should have married him. I could be wrong, but all the evidence points to him cheating again........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/09/2413m 15s

Making A Difference: How to plan personal and business strategy during an uncertain election, cost of living and market volatility.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Dr. Rebecca Homkes. She is a high-growth strategy specialist, best-selling author, executive adviser, and Consultant.   Dr. Homkes teaches at two business schools and runs a USA-based LLC SRT Strategy. She is a Lecturer at the London Business School, Faculty at Duke Corporate Executive Education, Advisor and Core Faculty for BCGU (Boston Consulting Group), and a former fellow at the London School of Economics Centre for Economic Performance. A best-selling author, global keynote speaker and recognized thought leader, she is also the global Faculty Director of the Active Learning Program with the Young Presidents Organization (YPO), leads several fintech accelerators, and serves on the Boards of many high-growth companies. She earned her doctorate at the London School of Economics as a Marshall Scholar and is now based in Miami, San Francisco, USA and London. UK. Company Description *     Talking Points/Questions * Why we need to get away from viewing uncertainty as something inherently negative Planning vs. preparing: Why leaders need to set planning tools aside and instead go into preparation mode when facing uncertainty How leaders can develop a pragmatic strategy in these uncertain times (election, market volatility, etc). Why few economic and business decisions should be delayed entirely until after election How to distinguish the difference between purposeful, strategic waiting from passive waiting— as the latter will put you farther and farther behind Depending on who wins, immigration, trade and offshoring will be impacted— How businesses can plan for contingency NOW Kickers and killers for companies: Stop asking "What could happen?" and focus on these 2 questions; What could break us? (a killer) and What could make us? (a kicker) An brief overview of Survive, Reset, Thrive: Leading Breakthrough Growth Strategy in Volatile Times #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/09/2425m 33s

I Can Remember How Good It Felt

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married, but my husband and I haven't slept in the same bed for two years. His sleep meds didn't work and he would try to watch TV all night. I sleep lightly, so I told him that I needed the room to be quiet. He went and slept in the other room two years ago and never came back. After the first year, he moved all of his clothes into the room with him. He came to my bed a few times wanting sex, but he did not want to cuddle afterwards, so I stopped being intimate with him. Luckily for me, I travel every two months for my job, and I'm gone two weeks at a time. My last work trip was in July and I was having dinner with two other managers, a male and a female.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/09/2413m 20s

Follow Your Passion: WellWithAll invests 20% of profits in the fight for health equity in Black, and Brown communities.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Demond Martin.  He founded WellWithAll, a Black-owned, purpose-led health + wellness brand.  Their mission is to improve wellbeing for all of us to achieve generational wellness. We invest 20% of our profits in the fight for health equity in Black, Brown, and underserved communities.   1.    Origin Story: What was the spark that drove you + your co-founder to start WellWithAll?According to Pfizer, Black people are at a higher risk for heart disease, stroke, cancer, asthma, and diabetes compared to their white counterparts. But that is not all. Based on research recorded by Psychiatry, Black people with any mental illness have lower rates of obtaining mental health services, including prescription medications and outpatient services, compared to white men and women. Demond Martin, Co-Founder + CEOAn investor and philanthropist, Demond was a senior partner at Adage Capital Management where he invested in the consumer sector for 22 years. A graduate of Harvard Business School and former assistant to President Clinton’s White House Chief of Staff, Demond has served as a trustee on a number of non-profit boards including the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, the Grammy Global Venture Board, and the Obama Foundation. We encourage + support our customers on their wellness journey while inspiring us all to do good in our communities and in our lives. Talking Points/Questions * 1. Origin Story: What was the spark that drove you + your co-founder to start WellWithAll?  2. Product/Solutions: What are solutions/products that WellWithAll offers to solve for better wellbeing? **Demond to share how our product, content, community are here to help put more life into years (pursue our joy/living well), especially for Black and Brown consumers who have been underserved or overlooked in the wellness space overall. 3. What does generational wellness mean to you? **Dialogue between Demond and Rushion and their respective points of view. 4. Conscious Capitalism/Biz Model: WellWithAll doesn't just sell quality products, it also has a passion and purpose. Can you share more about your innovative business model to build heath equity for driving positive social impact and change? #STRAW #BEST #SHMS  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/09/2427m 35s

He Makes Me Hot In More Ways Than One

Dear Steve and Shirley, I came home after a party late at night with my sister and walked in on a man having a drink in my living room. I was tipsy and so was my sister, but we could see that this man was fine. My husband was passed out on the couch, so I got another drink and sat with this strange man. He told me that my husband said he could stay over because he was in town to kick it with my husband for his birthday. My sister decided to stay over at that point, and she poured herself a drink. I went to change out of my dress but couldn't unzip it, so I yelled for my sister to help me. The strange fine man came in and said he and I were the only two people still awake in the house. As he unzipped my zipper, his tongue followed the zipper down my back.............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/09/2413m 19s

His Friend Ace Is Not A Man

Dear Steve and Shirley, I busted my husband with his side chick Ace. They were in a booth at a pool hall having wings and beer. I walked up on them, and she smiled because she knew who I was. She says she was just waiting for me to catch them because she's been having sex with my husband for a while. She put it out there and I didn't have to ask any questions....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/09/2413m 15s

I’m Tired of Yelling at My Husband

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a big baby that acts like he can't do anything without me. I even went on his last job interview and sat in the lobby for moral support. I never liked a whimpy man, and he hasn't always been like this. He lost his confidence when he started having problems with the erectile dysfunction. It took away his swagger and ruined our sex life. I adjusted and never blamed him or made jokes about it. He used to drink a lot, and that's why he couldn't have sex with me. Over time, it became the norm. So now that we're not having sex, I tend to treat him like he's just a roommate.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/09/2413m 17s

Financial Tips: Financial Advisor and Diversity and Inclusive Specialist discuss how Black Entrepreneurship bridges racial wealth gap.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviews Travis May, Sr. and Alair Castro from Northwestern Mutal, one is a financial advisor and the other is a Diversity & Inclusion Specialist discuss how Black Entrepreneurship bridges racial wealth gap.  The racial wealth gap refers to the disparity in assets of typical households across race and ethnicity. The gap in assets is far wider than disparities in wages across races. Income inequality, housing policies, limited educational opportunities, and a lack of support structures contribute to the racial wealth gap. Talking Points -    Can you provide an overview of the Community Conversations initiative and its purpose?-    This is the third Community Conversation you’re hosting—what impact have the previous two events had so far?-    Travis joined the firm as a result of the first conversation. How did that connection come about, and how has his journey exemplified the goals of these conversations?-    In what ways do you feel these events are making an intentional and impactful difference in the Black community?-    How does Community Conversations help identify individuals who align with the firm’s vision and goals?-    What makes these events unique in fostering relationships and opportunities within the Black community?-    Northwestern Mutual is a financial partner that offers personalized plans, top-rated services and life insurance.-    What inspired Northwestern Mutual’s Callaway Black office to focus this year’s panel series on Black entrepreneurship as a solution to bridging the racial wealth gap?-    Why do you believe entrepreneurship plays a pivotal role in narrowing the racial wealth gap, specifically for Black communities?-    What unique challenges do Black entrepreneurs face in starting and scaling businesses compared to other demographics?-    How have historical barriers, such as limited access to capital and systemic racism, impacted Black entrepreneurship, and what changes are being seen today?-    How important are mentorship and financial literacy in supporting Black entrepreneurs and future generations of business owners?-    What resources or programs do you believe are most effective in helping Black entrepreneurs succeed in today's business landscape?-    How can financial institutions, such as Northwestern Mutual, support Black entrepreneurs in accessing the funding and resources they need to grow?-    What role do community-based organizations and initiatives play in empowering Black entrepreneurs and addressing wealth disparities?-    Can you share any success stories of Black entrepreneurs who have directly benefited from your efforts or the broader financial ecosystem in Atlanta?-    How can the success of Black-owned businesses help inspire and empower younger generations in closing the wealth gap?-    In your view, what are the most effective strategies for ensuring that Black entrepreneurship leads to long-term wealth building within families and communities?-    Looking forward, what do you hope to see in terms of Black entrepreneurship and wealth-building in the next decade?-    How can the community come together to support Black entrepreneurs and ensure that their efforts are sustainable and impactful? #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/09/2427m 55s

I Went to Her House To Get My Husband

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm fifty three and I've been married twenty two years. I've been struggling with my husband's two female friends for twenty five years, since the day I met him. We met at an alumni ball and they were his dates. They had to approve of me before we got serious with each other. My husband's two female friends live next door to each other. Their husbands accepted my husband as their wives bonus husband. I never liked it, but I never said anything about it. Many nights, for many years, my husband has been partying over at one of their houses.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/09/2413m 20s

Perserverance: She has assisted 3K entrepreneurs to launch their own drug test center or clinical lab, inspired by her son’s death.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Sheila Michelle Foye.  Her career began with the Gas Company here in Atlanta just before natural gas was deregulated. She began as an Office Assistant and moved lattice style into mission-critical senior leadership roles within organizations and across industries such as SunTrust Banks (Truist), CapGemini, Accenture, Cox, and healthcare giants such as Morehouse School of Medicine, Piedmont, and Grady. Foye leveraged her corporate knowledge gained over the years to become an award winning, respected successful Entrepreneur in Drug Testing and CLIA-waived Laboratory Testing. Drug Testing was chosen due to her oldest son’s murder (age 24), which was drug/ gang violence related and her family history of substance/alcohol abuse that made for a rocky road in life. Nearly two years into the business, Michelle was able to innovate and pivot Precis Screening by establishing a consulting arm that has now assisted more than 3,000 Entrepreneurs and counting. #BEST #AMI #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/09/2429m 5s

Nerd In the Boardroom and Boss In the Bedroom

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been messing around with the guy that I worked with. He said he saw something special in me, so he got me transferred to his team. I looked up to his man because of his work ethic and how he commanded the room at our meetings. He is a straight nerd, but there's something about him. It's probably all of the big words he uses, but OMG, he is stuck in the late nineties with his hair, his suits, and even the way he talks.  Thank goodness, he's not that way in the bedroom. He's large and in charge there............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/09/2413m 19s

Making A Difference: A holistic and wellness advocate who became motivated by her father's poor healthcare.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, Tonya Millions-Fitch.  ASTRE Wellness is your trusted partner in achieving optimal health and wellness, offering a luxurious environment where personalized care meets clinical excellence. Our commitment to exceptional service, proven results, and meaningful client relationships sets us apart. Whether you're seeking IV hydration, weight management solutions, or cutting-edge medical aesthetics, our team of experienced professionals delivers tailored treatments designed to help you reach your unique goals. At ASTRE Wellness, we believe in empowering you to live your healthiest, most beautiful life, all while indulging in an atmosphere of sophistication and comfort. Talking Points/Questions     Medical backgroundWhat does “ASTRE” meanHow did you get startedWhat are you most proud of with your company? (Voted best Wellness clinic 3 years in a row)What is your biggest accomplishment so far?What types of services do you offer? Tonya Millions Fitch is a distinguished healthcare professional with over 25 years of experience, including 12 years as a Certified Registered Nurse Anesthesiologist. As the founder and leader of ASTRE Wellness, Tonya is committed to transforming lives through her extensive knowledge and passion for health and wellness. Her deep understanding of the healthcare industry, combined with her dedication to patient care, drives the mission of ASTRE Wellness. Tonya’s vision is to empower individuals to achieve optimal health, happiness, and beauty, making her a trusted advocate for holistic well-being and a leader in the wellness community. #BEST #STRAW #SHMS  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/09/2426m 12s

It’s Between Me and The Mouse

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married and I think we have a rodent problem in our house because of my husband's friend. Let me be clear. We don't have a filthy house, and we don't eat anywhere but in our kitchen and occasionally in our living room. My husband got out of the military a few years ago and we chose to settle down in a metropolitan area. When our friends come to town, they always want to stay with us. So when my husband's friend got out of the military, he has to stay with us for a while while he looked for a house in our area. Since he's been in our home, there have been certain smells that I have never experienced before...............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/09/2412m 53s

He Asks So Many Questions

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I are on shaky ground because he thinks I'm cheating. He's the one whose phone rings all night long? So why is he so paranoid about me? Whenever I go out without him, he calls me repeatedly. He'll even ask me to FaceTime him so he can see where I am. He thinks he's slick, but it makes me think he could be cheating on me. The thing is, I do not care because if he is, it will come out eventually. He's suspicious about everything thing I do, and now he's questioning me before, during, and after sex..........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/09/2413m 12s

I Figured It But He’s Still Lying

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband's office is near the airport, so he usually leaves his car at his office when he travels. He travels at least once a month, and he started ghosting me when he's on a trip. I became suspicious and hid out in the parking lot of his job to see if anyone was getting in the lift with him to go to the airport. I didn't catch him doing anything that day, but the last trip he went on has me thinking that he's seeing someone that lives one hundred miles from his office. Here's what I discovered. The morning of his trip, I checked the odometer on his car.....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/09/2413m 22s

Perserverance: Kier "Junior" Spates is changing how we view people with Sickle Cell.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Kier "Junior" Spates. Co-Host of Steve Harvey Morning Show and founded Kier's Hope to provide underprivileged individuals who suffer from Sickle Cell Disease to ensure they receive the medical, physical, and emotional attention they deserve. Suffering from sickle cell disease in silence is not uncommon in the African-American Community as there is a lack of knowledge of the disease. So, he created the Kier's Hope Foundation. The annual Kier's Hope 5K Fun Run and Walk and Junior Claus is an opportunity for families and those with sickle cell disease to gather and learn more about new treatments, spread awareness, and increase community engagement. Sickle Cell Disease is misunderstood as being contagious, an automatic death sentence, and that people with SCD can't do what "normal" people do!  Kier is changing that narrative. #AMI #BEST #SHMS  #STRAW  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/09/2423m 31s

My Best Friend Likes Sexy Strangers

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 33 year old single woman and my best friend is a 32 year old wild woman. She works as a bartender and she uses her job to as a way to hit on guys and most of them are in their mid-twenties. She also has sex with these guys. She says that guys our age can't keep up with her so she sticks with the twenty-somethings because they are great in bed. I try not to judge her, but her sex life is a big problem for me, because she always uses my guest room to hook up with these random men...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/2413m 23s

Planning Success: She helps male entrepreneurs surpass revenue ceilings by redefining their leadership at home and in the office.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Annie Yatch.   Annie transitioned from her role as a Consultant for the Defense Intelligence Agency to become one of America's most prominent Team Leadership and performance Coaches. She is a remarkable transformational expert whose prowess extends from startups to multimillion-dollar enterprises. She expertly prevents costly mistakes, boosts revenue, and catalyzes lasting behavioral changes within teams to drive consistent and remarkable results. Talking Points/Questions *1. Northstar Leadership is a company driven to help already successful male entrepreneurs surpass revenue ceilings by redefining their leadership at home and in the office.2. What is trauma, and how does it affect the entrepreneur?3. What are the lies entrepreneurs tell themselves that reduce their ability to create wealth?4. Why is unlocking your trauma the key to more success and fulfillment in business?5. What are the top 3 leadership gaps for most entrepreneurs?6. How can entrepreneurs redefine success for themselves to feel more fulfillment each day?7. What are the biggest relationship issues that entrepreneurs face and how can they resolve them to be more connected to those they love?8. How can entrepreneurs keep their teams growing and inspired? With a track record of guiding businesses across various sectors, Annie has consulted with companies from ground zero to 1.2B in revenue. Her prowess extends from startups to multimillion-dollar enterprises, as she expertly prevents costly mistakes, boosts revenue, and catalyzes lasting behavioral changes within teams to drive consistent and remarkable results. Recognized as the Chief Transformation Officer for Influencers and Entrepreneurs, Annie has earned this title through her unparalleled ability to empower you to rewire the subconscious patterns that limit your net worth. Her methodology extends beyond the surface, aiming to dissolve deeply ingrained trauma patterns that hinder your growth. By helping you and your team overcome these limitations, Annie paves the way for achieving monumental goals with newfound ease and unwavering confidence. #BEST #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/09/2428m 40s

He Is Scared To Sleep Next To Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for almost a year and we have a four month old daughter. We currently live in a hotel suite because the water heater flooded the main level of our home right after we moved in. It's been a rough year so far. I haven't been able to sleep because I take care of the baby all day and I also go back and forth to check on the restoration of the house. My job let me work from home before I have the baby, and my maternity leave is up, so I work and take care of the baby in this hotel room............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/09/2413m 20s

Entrepreneur: Afro Unicorn was discovered on social media and has generated over 20 million in total sales in 5 yrs.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed April Showers.   My next guest is the Founder of Afro Unicorn, the first black woman-owned fully licensed character brand in major retail with over 20 million in total sales. Her groundbreaking brand celebrates diversity and empowers women and children of color, inspiring countless individuals to embrace their uniqueness and potential. Please welcome to Money Making Conversations Master Class April Showers.   Talking Points/Questions *1.    Afro Unicorn®️, a brand designed to represent the uniqueness of women and children of color in a truly diverse and inclusive fashion.2.    You started your entrepreneurial journey at the age of 19, what inspired you to become an entrepreneur?3.    You’ve created a brand that celebrates diversity and empowers women and children of color, what has your experience been like as a female entrepreneur?4.    You made history as the first black, woman-owned, fully-licensed character brand in major retailers, how did this happen?5.    You’ve been nicknamed “unicorn” for your ability to run multiple successful businesses while being a devoted single mother, what does being a “unicorn” mean to you?6.    As a single mother of two, how do you find the balance between your personal life and Afro Unicorn?7.    How has your use of social media helped create buzz for Afro Unicorn? What is your philosophy and strategy for social media that has garnered you success on multiple platforms?8.    You’ve had support from celebrities such as Tiffany Haddish, Sherri Shepherd, Alicia Keys, and Oprah Winfrey since the launch of Afro Unicorn, how has this impacted your brand?9.    Afro Unicorn has over 25 product categories, including books, bedding, hair care, party supplies and 45 licensee partners worldwide. Can you talk more about your current products?10.    What's next for Afro Unicorn? #BEST #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/09/2434m 50s

I Saw It So I Know He Did It Too

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty three year old married woman and my husband is thirty six. We met on a blind date that was set up by one of our mutual friends. This friend of ours recently got married and we weren't invited because I don't get along with his new wife. I'm a ride or die type of friend, so I warned our friend about this woman before he married her. She had cheated on her first husband and she used to mess with my brother. She works at night, but she is not always at work. She usually takes a two hour lung break and she goes to hang out at a restaurant next to her job...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/09/2412m 47s

Is His Granddaddy Expecting Something

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05/09/2413m 23s

Entrepreneur: Easy to apply for Nationwide SBA loans for underserved minority small businesses through Arkansas Capital Corp.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Craig Calafati.  The Executive Vice President and Director of Lending for Arkansas Capital Corporation, Arkansas Capital Corporation.  A community development finance company that was chosen by SBA to receive one of the three new SBLC licenses and now offers flexible capital solutions nationwide to small businesses and entrepreneurs in underserved minority communities.  Company Description *Arkansas Capital Corporation (ACC) is a private, nonprofit lending corporation dedicated to empowering entrepreneurs in Arkansas and surrounding states. ACC offers flexible capital solutions to meet the unique needs of entrepreneurs, small businesses, and economic and community development projects, emphasizing serving low-income, minority, and rural communities. Since 1957, ACC has partnered with commercial banks, government agencies, and others at local, state, regional, and national levels to deploy over $2.34 billion in capital financing. Talking Points/Questions *Talking points: If you don’t have a Business Plan you will not be successful.   What is the purpose of Arkansas Capital Corporation? The SBA does not lend money. Instead, it provides guarantees so lenders are more inclined to lend money to small business owners. Small business owners should establish a line of credit with immediate access - especially for small businesses with payroll employees. Aspiring entrepreneurs are encouraged to spend time with entrepreneurs who are already operating a successful business in your area of interest to gain valuable insights. Small business owners should always know how much money they need before speaking with a lender. #SHMS, #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/09/2431m 6s

Entrepreneur: Attorney Jalene Mack discusses ten tips on developing your business.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Attorney Jalene Mack, America’s Favorite Entertainment Attorney, and discussed ten tips on developing your business and avoiding signing a contract that can ruin your dream.  There are bad contracts, and there are scam contracts.  Tell us the difference between the two. Where can you go if you don't have much money for legal advice? Ten tips on how to develop your Business #1 Identify Your Project#2 Make sure you have a Plan#3 Form a Team#4 Prepare a Budget#5 Form a Business Entity#6 Get an EIN#7 Open a Business Bank Account#8 Protect Your Assets#9 Contracts#10 Marketing Jalene is not only an entertainment attorney but this industry renaissance woman and ARTivist has successfully integrated the demanding roles of wife, mother, TV & Film producer, writer, actress, playwright, and author of The Business of Stage, Screen & in Between, Entertainment Attorney Jalene Mack’s Practical Advice for Performers, Playwrights & Producers by keeping the focus on her long-term goal “to make an impact on the entertainment industry.”  From her base in Houston, she has expanded her reach into the film centers of Las Vegas, NV, Miami, FL, Atlanta, GA, Los Angeles, CA, New York, NY, Chicago, IL, Baltimore, MD, New Orleans, LA and the UAE. Ms. Mack’s legal skills in Arts & Entertainment include a wide range of matters regarding Film & Television (scripted and unscripted), from development through distribution, Theater, Music, Books, Performing Artists, Contracts, Film Finance, Distribution, Federal Trademark & Copyright Registration and more. Jalene has served as either Producer or Production Attorney on over three dozen or more films and TV series. A few recent films she produced/executive produced or served as production attorney include Senior Moments, The Pillow Case (BET+), Staycation (ALLBLK), Friend Zone (Tubi), One Crazy Christmas (BET+), The Great Divide (BET+) and My B.F.F. (Aspire). Hip Hop Family Christmas and its sequel, Hip Hop Family Christmas Wedding (VH-1), Safe Room (Lifetime), and North of the 10 (BET+), were filmed in L.A., Chicago, and the UAE. A few clients, former or present, include Steve Harvey, Rushion McDonald, Tommy Davidson, Kim Burrell, AJ Johnson, Kiana Dancie, LeToya Luckett, Thomas “Nephew Tommy” Miles, Kenny Smith, Carl Payne, Greg Carter, Datari Turner, Rhyan LaMarr, Jilly Anais to name just a few. In addition, she’s compiled a long list of acting credits in over 40 productions, including Better Call Saul, Batman vs. Superman: Dawn of Justice, and AllBLK’s Houston drama 5th Ward, a hit television series of two seasons. Look for her alongside Jamie Foxx in The Burial out on Amazon Prime. She even won a Hollywood & Africa Prestigious Award (HAPA) for Best Supporting Actor for BET’s film Christmas Belles. She is also a proud member of Delta Sigma Theta Sorority, Inc. You can find Jalene on all social media and professional platforms: @JaleneMack. Websites: www.jalenemack.com, www.mpac-arts.org #AMI #BEST #STRAW  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/09/2432m 30s

It's Always The Same Mess with Her

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04/09/2413m 19s

It’s Too Much Going On To Get It On

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03/09/2413m 15s

Financial Motivator: Using social media effectively, know YOUR business strengths and product marketing.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Stephanie Stuckey.  The Chair of Stuckey’s.  A pecan snack and candy company based in Wrens, GA. She is also the author of “Unstuck: Reviving an American Icon.”  Stuckey’s growth lies in their partnership with almost 5,000 retailers nationwide that sell their delicious pecan snacks and candies. Questions About the Company’s History and Legacy: Stuckey's has such a rich history. Can you share what initially inspired the rebirth of the brand after all these years? How does social media on LinkedIn work? The Power of Marketing and Branding. What strategies did you implement to turn Stuckey’s around and bring it back to the forefront of the market? Acquiring a pecan manufacturing facility was a major step. How has owning this facility impacted your product offerings and business growth? What role does innovation play in the resurgence of Stuckey’s, especially in terms of product development and marketing? Questions About Branding and Marketing: Stuckey’s is known for its nostalgic appeal. How do you balance honoring that nostalgia while also appealing to modern consumers? How important has social media and digital marketing been in the rebirth of Stuckey’s? Questions About Leadership and Vision: What’s your long-term vision for Stuckey’s, and how do you plan to continue the momentum you’ve built? What advice would you give to other entrepreneurs wanting to start their own business? Questions About Partnerships and Community: How have partnerships with retailers and other brands contributed to the comeback of Stuckey’s? Stuckey’s has deep roots in Georgia. How important has the local community been in your company’s resurgence? Can you share any upcoming collaborations or new product launches that will be part of Stuckey’s comeback story?   It all started with a borrowed Model A Ford and a $35 loan   With that, W.S. “Sylvester” Stuckey, Sr. founded Stuckey’s as a roadside pecan stand along Highway 23 in Eastman, GA in 1937. With that Ford that he retrofitted to haul pecans and the loan (from his grandmother), W.S. drove around the countryside and bought pecans from local farmers to sell at his stand, along with local honey and souvenirs. His wife, Ethel, added her delicious homemade candies – southern delicacies like pralines, Divinities, and our iconic Pecan Log Rolls.   Through grit and determination, the Stuckeys grew the stores from these humble beginnings to a roadside empire. At its peak in the 1960s, the little pecan company had become an integral part of the American road trip. It boasted 368 stores in over 30 states, each offering kitschy souvenirs, clean restrooms, Texaco gas, and of course, our famous candies.   Stuckey’s also owned a candy plant in Eastman to allow for larger production of sweet treats, a trucking company, and a sign company that produced the 4,000 Stuckey’s billboards that dotted America’s highways. Stuckey’s merged with Pet Milk Co. in 1964 to add capacity and capital for the company to grow.   Decline and Rebound   W.S. Stuckey, Sr. died in 1977, the same year that Illinois Central Industries, a Chicago conglomerate, bought Pet Milk Co., and they began to close Stuckey’s stores across the country. Stuckey’s fell into a decline until 1984 when W.S. “Billy” Stuckey, Jr., son of the founder and a five-term Congressman from the 8th District of Georgia, acquired Stuckey’s and began to turn the company around.   Under Billy’s helm, the Stuckey’s Express concept – or a store within a store – was launched, and the company expanded to over 115 franchises in 17 states. The Eastman candy plant continued operations by a third-party contractor but was shuttered in 2009 during the Recession, although Stuckey’s branded candies continued to be produced by outside vendors.   In November of 2019, Ethel “Stephanie” Stuckey, Billy’s daughter, took over as CEO of Stuckey’s. In August of 2020, Stuckey’s acquired Front Porch Pecans, a pecan snack company that sells to domestic and foreign markets, including grocery channels in the Southeast U.S. With this merger, Stuckey’s gained management support with R.G. Lamar as new President to run Stuckey’s with Stephanie.   In January of 2021, Stephanie and R.G. acquired a pecan manufacturing facility in Wrens, Georgia to drive growth of the company through snack and candy making. Later that year, they added a third equity owner, Ted Wright, a marketing professional based in Atlanta.   Today, Stuckey’s is making a comeback, thanks to reinventing the brand as a pecan snack and candy company. They are once again making the delicious products that Ethel first made in her country kitchen, and Sylvester sold at his roadside stand. There are still 13 original blue roof Stuckey’s stores in operation. These stores are not owned or operated by the parent corporation but are licensed to sell our products and remain an important part of our past and story. Stuckey’s growth lies in our partnership with almost 5,000 retailers nationwide, including Hobby Lobby, Bealls, Ingles, Wawa, TravelCenters of America, and others, that sell our delicious pecan snacks and candies. The company also maintains an online store, a fundraising business, and a corporate gift program. In August of 2022, R.G. Lamar, Jr. transitioned to the role of CEO, and Stephanie Stuckey assumed the role of Chair. They continue to run the day-to-day operations of Stuckey’s, with R.G. driving internal growth and Stephanie being the external face of the brand. From a humble pecan stand to a nationwide brand, the future looks bright for Stuckey’s. Look for our products soon in a store near you — and be part of our comeback journey! #SHMS, #STRAW, #BESTSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/09/2436m 16s

I’m Stressed Out In My Classroom

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old man and I just started a job teaching adults that are getting a GED. I'm loving it so far, but I need advice on how to handle a very aggressive female student in her early 60s. At the end of one of my lectures, she approached me and asked what gym I go to because I have a very nice body. I blushed and didn't know what to say! She winked at me and left.................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/09/2412m 52s

Bubble Bath, Bourbon, and Berries

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30/08/2413m 22s

He Was Sleep In The Backseat

Dear Steve and Shirley, I got a call that my husband was sleep in his car behind the bar that he goes to on Friday nights after work. I pulled up on him there and he was asleep in the back seat with the windows cracked. His pants were unbuttoned and his shoes were off. I tapped on the window and he did not budge, so I hit the button to unlock the car. Then he jumped up and screamed. I told him to get out of the car, but he refused to. He said that he did not know how he got there. I should lead because it was not safe for me to be there. I told him I wasn't going anywhere until he got out of the car...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/08/2413m 27s

Perserverance: "Keep Pedaling," Learn to navigate LIFE's ups and downs through resilience, and determination.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Karon Joseph Riley. He co-stars in the popular The Black Hamptons series on BET+. His book navigates life's ups and downs and uncovers the importance of perseverance, resilience, and determination. It shares his insightful reflections entitled "Keep Pedaling: Things I Learned On My Bike."   Whether facing steep inclines or unexpected detours, he learns to embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and transformation. Through encounters with nature, encounters with others, and moments of solitude, he discovers the power of mindfulness and living in the present moment. "Keep Pedaling" is more than a self-help book; it's a roadmap for navigating life's twists and turns with grace and courage. Through Karon's heartfelt lessons and candid reflections, readers will find inspiration to overcome obstacles, pursue their passions, and savor the beauty of the journey itself. "Keep Pedaling" is a reminder that no matter where life takes you, as long as you keep moving forward, the possibilities are endless. Full-scale production company that has the capacity to take a film or television project from creation to distribution and all the production necessary in between #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/08/2426m 25s

I’m Sticking Beside Him

Dear Steve Shirley, I'm married to a man that loves to talk big and bad, but when it comes down to handling his business, he lets me handle the tough stuff. It's gotten worse over the years, and he still won't shut his mouth or stop harassing people on our app for the neighborhood. It started when my sons were in school and his way of handling bullies was to go up to the school and talk all big and bad to the principle. But that never solved the problem. I had to snatch one of the bullies up one day and threaten him with the frying pan.  When he came in our yard talking about he was going to kick my sons behind. My husband looked at it all through the window, through the screen door. His boss bullies him and he comes home telling me all that he's going to do and say, but he just takes it and still is not getting paid what he's worth.............................................................. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/08/2413m 21s

What Does I Need Space Mean

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my boyfriend for seven going on eight years, off and on. He's broken up with me three times because he says I'm not domestic enough, or I say the wrong things when he asked me to do things. Then he'll call so we can get back together. Just recently, I moved back in with him and he got upset that men were speaking to me at a motorcycle event when he left me alone for hours at a time. Mind you, these men were not hitting on me at all, and he knew one of the guys and a guy told him we were all just hanging around and talking, but the whole time he was over with a group of women showing off his bike..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/08/2413m 22s

Financial Tips: A CPA founded The Financial Literacy Institute to close the wealth gap.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Jasmine Young.  You would never have guessed that such a powerful, nationwide-spanning voice for the African American community began in small-town Jackson, Alabama, but that is precisely where Jasmine Young got her start. She is the Founder & President of The Financial Literacy Institute, a CPA by trade, and Founder of the Southern Heritage Financial Group in Atlanta, GA. In addition, she is also the Producer of the Black Wall Street Black Business Expo, which aims to empower and uplift the African American community in both the 21st century and beyond—Are you interested in hearing about her mission? Want to know more about her event and what it all entails? Well, tune in to the Money Making Conversation Master Class today to learn more! #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/08/2419m 56s

My Boyfriend Can’t Tolerate Much

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a twenty seven year old female and I just got out of a ten year relationship that was going nowhere. Now I'm dating a twenty nine year old man that pursued me for a few years. He was there for me after my breakup, so I got used to him being around. I want to get your advice before I fall for the wrong man again. He works as a manager of two movie theaters and he runs his mobile detailing business on the side. He's also a really good cook, but I can't get him to cook anything spicy...................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/08/2413m 19s

My Friend, My Husband and My Mother

Dear Steve and Shirley, I wrote in about my husband helping out my best friend after her husband died. My mother visited us from Nigeria and she told me that I was giving my husband permission to cheat, and I didn't want to believe her. I got so offended by what she said because I trusted my husband. My mom wasn't having it, and she was so persistent that she told me to pass by my friend's house after we picked my son up from preschool. My husband's truck was on the side of my friend's house, not in her driveway, but on the side of her house a little ways up from her house. She told me to park the car and call my husband........................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/08/2413m 21s

Everything Is A Minor Inconvenience

Dear Stephen Shirley, Everything is a minor inconvenience for my husband, and I need to see if something is going on with him outside of our household. He used to love doing everything with me. He used to initiate intimacy and afterwards he would always get up and cook breakfast, no matter what time of day or night it was. That was our little fun time. He wanted to have a lot of kids before we got married, but now he's saying that he doesn't know if we can afford to start a family. He said that babies take up a lot of time and are inconvenient most of the time. That broke my heart, because how can a child be inconvenient? He's been saying crazy stuff like this, and I've been taking mental notes......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/08/2413m 19s

Entrepreneur: He's making it easier for people with Opioid Use Disorder to commit to their methadone treatment program.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Dr. Michael Giles. Our Virtual Dosing Window™ allows patients to record their take-homes by using a phone or computer to scan the QR code on their methadone bottles and then recording a video of themselves dosing for their care team to review. This patented solution helps build trust between OTP patients and their care teams, empowering clinics with real-time insights to make informed treatment decisions. Sonara also increases patients’ likelihood of earning more take homes, which in turn improves program retention rates. Since starting Sonara in 2020, Dr. Giles has expanded the solution to a network of modernized, tech-enabled clinics in 11 states that provide accessible, patient-centered care for individuals struggling with OUD. Sonara® is on a mission to support OTP patients, with a remote dosing solution that makes it easier for people with opioid use disorder to commit to their methadone treatment programs, so they can get their lives back. Sonara provides OTPs with the confidence they need to approve more take-home doses responsibly, to improve the quality of life for patients and expand treatment accessibility for those who live farther away from clinics. Notable investors in Sonara include Mark Cuban and First Trust Capital. With Sonara, OTP patients can achieve their treatment goals without putting their lives on hold. To learn more about partnering with Sonara or bringing the Virtual Dosing Window to your OTP, visit sonarahealth.com/contact-us to get in touch. #STRAW #SHMS  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/08/2428m 19s

It's Impossible To Sleep Next To Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband is threatening to divorce me because I haven't slept in the bed with him for almost two months. I have asked him to do a few minor things, but he won't and to add to the things he does to irritate me at night, he does not wear his sleep mask, so he snores like sasquatch. We got married in 2017 and he moved back to our hometown to be with me. We met over twenty years ago, but we were just good friends until we realized that we had a lot in common.  Our long distance relationship was fine because he always came to see me............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/08/2413m 22s

I Put My Money On The Other Dude

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20/08/2413m 23s

Financial Motivator: Insights on Supporting and Scaling Black Businesses with Morehouse Innovation and Entrepreneurship Center Founding Director Tiffany Bussey.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Dr. Tiffany Bussey.   As the Morehouse Innovation and Entrepreneurship Center (MIEC) Founding Director, Dr. Tiffany Bussey stands at the helm of profit-yielding partnerships bridging the gap between the supplier diversity initiatives at global brands and multi-million-dollar Black and brown businesses. An engaging dialogue with Dr. Bussey around the ways MIEC creates unique pathways to help minority businesses scale using what she calls the three Cs: Capital, Connections, and Contracts.  Here are some of the interview highlights: MIEC's engagement with 400 scalable, mid-size minority-owned businesses has been instrumental in creating 850 new Atlanta-based jobs, granting access to $34 million in new capital, and generating nearly $82 million in new revenue growth. MIEC's unique business education prepares minority business owners to obtain contracts with large firms seeking business-to-business partnerships with small to mid-size businesses. Atlanta is one of four national accelerator locations for The Clean Tech Infrastructure Academy at Goodwill, a new 4-week program designed to grow the electric vehicle workforce. At the academy, student workers are paid $15 an hour to learn how to install and maintain EV chargers, heat pumps, and solar panels. This training equips them for jobs in the growing electric vehicle industry, where maintenance techs can start earning $30 per hour.  About MIEC: ·  Since its inception, MIEC has garnered over $50 million in grants and contracts and positively impacted over 2,100 students. ·  MIEC incorporates a holistic approach to supporting the business leaders it serves, providing education, access to capital, procurement opportunities, mentorship, and student involvement. ·  125 minority-owned businesses participating in Ascend Atlanta have experienced an increase in revenue of $13.5 million and have gained access to $5.5 million in capital funding. #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/08/2428m 25s

He Saw Right Through My Lies

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19/08/2413m 23s

Financial Motivator: You can start a delivery business with Amazon, Million Dollar Club Realtor, Building Booming Construction Business.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Dr. Justin Lee, Sr.   He is not just constructing buildings – he's creating a legacy with Amazon. Whether you're eyeing a real estate deal or a groundbreaking construction project, this member of the Million Dollar Club in real estate is your go-to guy for expert guidance and unmatched service tailored just for you.  Plus he tells you how you can register to make money with Amazon.   Talking Points:•    State of the real estate market•    How does interest rates impact the market•    How does it feel to be the first in your family to Hold a Dr. degree•    How do you balance being a full-time single father and owing three striving businesses•    Ways for first-time buyers to buy without having much money•    Credit the good the bad, and the ugly•    ATL real estate meetup / free workshop 8/22 6-8 pm at Fleur De Lee’s Event Space 1932 Austin Dr. Decatur ga 30032   #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/08/2428m 38s

Affordable Homeownership Program: No down payment. No closing costs, No fees, No mortgage insurance.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Angeanette Dowles. Homeownership is one of the critical aspects of the American Dream. However, that dream seems more like a fantasy than an attainable goal for many of us. Well, Angeanette Dowles of NACA is here to tell you that homeownership is achievable for all at an affordable rate too. For the rate of only a few months’ rent, people with even 420 credit scores you can purchase homes in the hundreds of thousands with little interest rates! It sounds too good to be true. Well, this is one time you’ll be happy to be wrong as it is just as good as it sounds.  With Americans facing skyrocketing rents and climbing interest rates, NACA provides the best affordable homeownership program for low to moderate-income individuals and people of color.  Homebuyers will receive one-on-one counseling from a HUD Approved NACA Counselor during this event, and many will get a same-day qualification for NACA’s Mejor en América mortgage to begin their housing search.  All NACA services are free of charge.  NACA has over $20 Billion for its unique mortgage, including $15 Billion from Bank of America.  NACA’s Mejor en América Mortgage features no down payment, no closing costs, no fees, no mortgage insurance, and a below-market fixed interest rate.  NACA is the nation’s largest HUD-approved nonprofit community advocacy and homeownership organization. #STRAW #AMI  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/08/2420m 54s

Why Would She Keep Telling The Same Lie

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16/08/2413m 23s

Perserverance: Was Laid off, but she Regrouped! Her Cookies are now sold in 4,100 stores nationwide and Canada.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Dr. Shica Little.  During COVID, Dr. Shica was laid off and decided to pursue her dream, and she created Vegan Cookies and Cookie Dough Mix.  Dr. Shica's Bakery: Nationwide Roll-Out:  Our Snack Cookies (Chocolate Chip, Oatmeal Raisin, Lemon, and Confetti Sugar.  •    Nationwide Retail- All HomeGoods, TJ Maxx, and Marshalls (throughout US and Canada)- over 4120 stores•    Costco- We will start a Roadshow with Costco in the Culver City (near LAX) location next month. We'll be in-store sampling and selling our new snack cookies.•    ISM Middle East/Dubai- Selected to be a speaker at the largest Snacks and Sweets Show in the Middle East, which is called ISM. •    Canada Minority Program—Selected to participate in the trade show for the Minority Supplier program in Toronto, Canada.•    Fundraising- We have a new fundraising opportunity for organizations to use our cookies to raise money. The fundraising link is on our website. #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/08/2428m 17s

Showbusiness Isn’t For Everyone

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15/08/2413m 8s

Financial Tips: Managing your monthly budgets, build partnerships, joint ventures, and strategic alliances.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Dr. George C. Fraser.  He is back and bringing another bottle of medication for your financial ills in the form of the “7 Main Streams of Income.  "It's not how you start, it's how you finish, that God has great plans for each of us, we must simply listen for his voice, follow directions, overcome the obstacles, and stay the course. He is the Chairman and C.E.O. of FraserNet, Inc., a global networking movement that brings together diverse human resources to increase opportunities for people of African descent. He is also a renowned networking guru, entrepreneur, and motivational speaker. He will discuss action plans for success and tips on developing your plans for success that you can use in your personal and business world through networking. 1. Help Black people build wealth that can be transferred inter-generationally. 2. Help Black people become the #1 employer of Black people in the 21st century 3. To facilitate the building of a global network of Africans throughout the diaspora whose focus is personal and business excellence and to use it to build partnerships, joint ventures, and strategic alliances. Don’t see the importance of financial literacy as an African American? Have thoughts about quitting your job? Are you confused about how High-Yield Savings Accounts and investing in Stocks can benefit you? Don’t understand the importance of supporting Black-owned businesses as an African American? No problem! Dr. Fraser is here to help you build your Black wealth checklist here on the Money Making Conversations Master Class podcast. #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/08/2417m 52s

I Should Tell Him Before Marriage

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14/08/2413m 18s

He’s Afraid of The Competition

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13/08/2413m 24s

Financial Tips: Debit Cards vs Credit Cards. How to improve your buying power!

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Dr. George C. Fraser.  Dr. George C. Fraser is the Chairman and CEO of FraserNet, Inc., a company he founded over 35 years ago. He is a renowned networking guru, business leader, author, and entrepreneur who is regarded as one of the foremost respected authorities on entrepreneurship and building generational wealth and economic empowerment for the Black community. Got financial ills and in need of healing? Well look no further because Doctor George C. Fraser is in the house and ready to administer a prescription in money management! From the trap of only paying off your monthly minimum balance on your credit card to the pitfalls of buying things on sale and borrowing money, Dr. Fraser debunks many financial myths that can ruin your financial future while providing easy-to-swallow methods on how to build generational wealth. The information train doesn’t just stop there though. Dr. Fraser is also here to introduce us to the Power Networking Conference, a conference that he started 23 years ago to connect African American business across the diaspora and increase the value of Black dollars.  #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/08/2424m 4s

He Repeated Everything I Said About Her

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12/08/2413m 24s

She Saw My Mama And Didn't Stop

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09/08/2413m 24s

Financial Tips: Former Wall Street Banker Tells All about buying stocks and building generational wealth.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Ashley M. Fox. “Breaking News! Former Wall Street Banker, Ashley M. Fox, Tells All!” Ever wanted to learn how Wall Street operates? How the rich cultivate generational wealth for their descendants’ descendants? Why Ashley M. Fox left her lucrative job on Wall Street to start her company, Empify? How do properly invest in the Stock Market and actually see a return on investment? Well, the Money Making Conversations Master Class podcast has the scoop on all this information and more! Tune in today to hear this enlightening (and illuminating) exposé! #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/08/2419m 48s

His Daughter Gets Better Gifts Than I Do

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a wife and a bonus mom to two teenagers, and my husband has a good co-parenting relationship with his ex-wife. His fourteen year old son lives with us. His seventeen year old daughter is living with her mother. She turned seventeen on July thirtieth, and that is what prompted me to write in for your opinion. My husband told me that we were buying his daughter a car for her birthday, but he did not tell me it was going to be a car that's better than both of our cars. It's a sporty coup with too much horsepower for a teenager..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/08/2413m 24s

Why Was She At The Same Hotel

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a man that has a lot of female friends. I don't like it, but they seem harmless, so I've learned to go with the flow. He is on a bowling team with two of his closest friends from his childhood. They're girly girls, and it bothers me because I don't do all of the weed, makeup, lashes and stilettos like them. I feel self-conscious around them. To be totally honest, he assured me that he isn't into all of that either, and he loves how I dress and how I carry myself. He told my stepdad that he wants to marry me. So I have been on pins and needles, thinking he's going to pop the question at any minute. He booked a weekend trip to the nearby beach, and he said he just wanted to get away.................................................. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/08/2413m 24s

Please Help Me Figure My Man Out

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 51 year old married woman and I'm eight years older than my husband. He is successful and he loves the Lord. Those were the two main things I prayed for when I was dating. God gave me exactly what I asked for, but I also got lots of things I didn't ask for. My husband has a quick tongue and loves to talk back when I'm telling him how things should be. I know that he hasn't been exposed too much, so every chance I get, I get him out of his comfort zone. He wasn't used to different kinds of food, so I took him to eat different kinds of seafood and shellfish. I also exposed him to high end scotch and bourbons because he loves to drink...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/08/2413m 22s

Overcoming the odds: Revolutionized scalp care with her innovative Braid, Loc & Scalp Refreshening Wipes. Tress Clean.

Two-time Emmy and three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Kiyana Pearson.   Kiyana Pearson is a dynamic entrepreneur, scalp specialist, and innovator in the natural hair care industry. As the founder of Tress Clean, the first Black woman-owned hair wipes company, Kiyana has revolutionized scalp care with her innovative Braid, Loc & Scalp Refreshening Wipes. A graduate of Morgan State University, Kiyana's journey from Baltimore, MD, to Miami, FL, inspired the creation of a groundbreaking solution to a universal hair care dilemma. Faced with the challenges of maintaining her signature braids in Miami's relentless humidity, Kiyana's quest for innovation led to the development of Tress Clean’s Rinse-Free Braid, Loc & Scalp Refreshening Wipes. Drawing on her cultural identity and expertise in protective hairstyles, Kiyana identified a need for convenient, effective scalp and hair refreshment. Through meticulous research and development, she crafted a product that embodies her commitment to quality and holistic haircare. Tress Clean’s wipes are now a household staple, empowering individuals within the braid and loc community to maintain their styles while nourishing their scalps. As a recognized Scalp Care Specialist, Kiyana blends tradition with innovation, offering solutions that prioritize moisture, anti-fungal properties, and follicle protection. Her dedication to providing exceptional products underscores her mission to redefine haircare norms and empower individuals to embrace their unique beauty with confidence. #SHMS #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/08/2425m 54s

He's Angry Because I Like His Side Piece

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty eight year old single mother of a twenty eight year old grown man. Like me. My son started having children at an early age. I encouraged him to marry the mother of his three children. So they went to the courthouse in 2022 and got married. His wife has done a complete 360. She means one eighty. Now that she's married, or now that they're living together and we can see who she really is. He has tried to overlook her weed smoking, drinking, and hanging out with hoochies. He's told me that he's trying to make it work. That was before last month.................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/08/2413m 20s

He Called Me The Name That’s Tatted On Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dealing with a man for a few years, but we can never stay together longer than three to four months at a time because he disappears for a few days and then pops up like nothing happened. We argue over other women a lot because he refuses to be honest. That's how we fell out again, and this time I don't think I can look past his lies. He has four names tattooed on his body, among his many other tats. His mama's name is across his heart, with his daughter's name and his baby mama's names under his mom's name..................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/08/2413m 22s

Financial Tips: Morgan Stanley's Sonia Fears uses simple formulas to grow your money and build family wealth.

Two-time Emmy and Three-NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed Sonia Fears.  Sonia Fears of the Fears Group at Morgan Stanley, She is the First Vice President, Financial Advisor, Senior Portfolio Manager, Alternative Investments Director, Global Sports, and Entertainment Director - All Black Wealth Management Team Sonia Fears of The Fears Group at Morgan Stanley; she is one of the leading financial experts in discussing stocks, savings programs, compounded interest portfolios, Name Image and Likeness and lines of credit.    Sonia built a family practice at Morgan Stanley along with her two daughters.  Sonis provides Alternative Investment opportunities, Retirement plans, and Entertainment and Sports financial consultations.  #STRAW #SHMSSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/08/2426m 1s

I'm Tired Of Covering For This Man

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a guy that's been living with a woman for six years and they're not married, so technically he's single, so we're not cheaters. He's not happy with her, but he tries to make her think he is, which is confusing to me. I've been acting like I am his cousin, and I'm tired of covering for this man. If I call him, he pretends like he's talking to one of his homeboys. I have been on FaceTime with him many times and I've had to drop my phone. When she walked in the room, everyone is hinted to her that her man is cheating, and she's mentioned it to me before, but I always assure her that her man is faithful...........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/08/2413m 20s

Why Can’t I Say Another Man Is Blessed

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm sixty three and I've been married for a year. I've known my husband for about thirty years, and we dated off and on for many years before deciding to make it official. This is the first marriage for us both, so we're very set in our ways. I remembered my husband to be open minded and fun loving, but he's changed since the wedding. He knows that I love music and concerts. He has taken me to at least twenty concerts, and he loves how I sing all the songs and dance the entire time............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/07/2413m 21s

He Was Next Door with The Neighbor’s Sister

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in a bad place all because I found him next door with my neighbor's sister. The lady calls to tell me that my husband was complaining of chest pains. I told her to dial 911, and she said my husband didn't want to go to the hospital. She also said my husband didn't want her to call me, but she did anyway. I didn't ask questions until I saw how my husband was doing. This strange woman was standing outside of my neighbor's house........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/07/2413m 21s

Faith and Finance: Getting wealthy quickly in your 50's, Pastor Dexter B. Jenkins.

Two-time Emmy and Three-NAACP Image Award-winning, television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald, interviewed renowned real estate investor, financial expert, and creator of the REWealth Creation Summit.  Pastor Dexter B. Jenkins, a renowned real estate investor and financial expert and creator of the REWealth Creation Summit.  The REWealth Creation Summit is a unique opportunity for aspiring real estate investors, seasoned professionals, and anyone interested in securing their financial future through property investments. With a lineup of esteemed speakers and experts, this event aims to provide attendees with invaluable insights, proven strategies, and practical tips to navigate the real estate market and generate substantial wealth.  Dexter B. Jenkins is a faith-based financial mentor with more than two decades of experience in the financial services industry. He is passionateabout helping families build generational wealth with easy-to-implement steps.Jenkins inspires and instructs hundreds of people with his podcast, programs,online courses, and books. A popular speaker on wealth building God’s way, he is an authority on faith and finance. What is The SHIP Method, and why is it the secret sauce to wealth building? What’s the correlation between faith and finances?  What is the inner game of wealth, and how does one play it? What is your new book coming out this fall about? How can a person in their 50s get wealth quickly?  What does a person need to know before becoming a real estate investor?  How important is it to know about real estate before investing in property? #SHMS #STRAW    See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/07/2426m 40s

Married and Celibate

Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past 23 years, I’ve been married to the nicest guy in the world and I have always tried to be the perfect wife and mother. In the beginning of our marriage, our sex life was perfect, but over the past 7 years, things have drastically changed. In 2018, we had sex maybe 8 times in the whole year. I counted them. I don’t think he is cheating, because all he does is go to work and come home. If he goes out, we go out as a family. I just don’t think that he is interested in sex at all. He is completely complacent and I’ve stopped initiating sex because I get tired of him telling me to “move” all of the time......................................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/07/2413m 27s

Financial Tips: How to manage your debt. Simple family tax write offs for a home-based business rarely taken advantage of, Dr. Lynn Richarson.

Two-time Emmy and Three-NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Dr. Lynn Richardson.  Financial planning executive and fan-favorite Dr. Lynn Richardson returns to dispense invaluable information for the listeners! This time, she brings with her information on how to manage debt properly, how the Black community’s skepticism of the finance sector will only hurt them in the end, and the secret tax write-off that every family with a home-based business rarely takes advantage of employing their children in their business. That’s right, child labor is perfectly legal if you follow the right steps! Curious? Skeptical? Both? Well then, there is no better solution than listening to this episode of Money Making Conversations Master Class.  #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/07/2427m 2s

Do I Need His Approval To Live My Best Life

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for thirty years. Since I was nineteen darned years old. I had two babies, and my husband wanted one more. I had another one, and then another one. I never even wanted children, but I love my children and gave them all I had, all I had to give. The youngest finally got a job and his own place. I went as fast as I could to get some fillers and injections in my face to look as young as I feel well. I took the other shots too, and lost....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/07/2413m 27s

We’re Not Going to Make It ‘Til November

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old, married married man. My wife's twenty nine year old niece got divorced recently and moved back to town. Her daughter is in a really good preschool that happens to be by our house. So my wife asked if she and her daughter can stay at our house until November, when her alimony payments start and she can move into her own house. She works part time for now, and I work second shift, so I don't head out to work until two pm daily. My wife goes to work around seven am, and she drops the kid off at school. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/07/2413m 29s

How Important Is Conversation When You’re in Love

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend is the sweetest person I've ever dated. We met when he picked me up from the airport in his SUV. I had just moved to Alabama and my company hired him to be my driver until my car was delivered. He showed me around the city and introduced me to some of his female friends, but they weren't the kind of women I wanted to be associated with. They're big weed smokers and drinkers, and I'm more laid back. I needed someone to hang out with, so the driver was always available to go to dinner, festivals, and movies with me.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/07/2413m 28s

She Posted A Picture of My Gifts

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty three year old single woman and I've been in a long distance relationship for the past eight months. He pursued me, and he claimed that he didn't care about the distance because it was love at first sight for him. I had strong feelings for him once I got to know him, but something was keeping me from him from falling head over heels in love with him. He said it was hard to get me to soften up and let my guard down. So I did something that I usually would never do. I drove two hours to surprise him. Last week, I snuck in the gate at his complex and I was sitting in my car in a skin tight dress when he got home from work........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/07/2413m 18s

If He’s Going I’m Going Too

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for three years and my husband had two sons when we got married. I'm cordial with the mom of his nine year old son. It's the mother of the two year old that I don't vibe with. Here's why my husband and I split up a month before our planned wedding date because we were arguing over wedding plans and money. He started sleeping on the couch and we ignored each other for weeks, so we postponed the wedding and he moved in with his cousin. During that time, he met a girl and was having sex with her without protection..........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/07/2413m 19s

I Had No Idea Where His Clothes Were Going

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with my boyfriend for five years. I moved in with him when I got pregnant, and he asked me to marry him on our daughter's second birthday. We haven't had money for a wedding because he was in the process of starting his clothing line right when I got pregnant. He has a line of sweats, t-shirts, shorts and baseball caps. He runs a business out of our guest room and I help him ship the items. I can see when the inventory is low, and I noticed that a lot of the women's short sets vanished, but we didn't get any orders for them...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/07/2413m 21s

He Wants Me To Share Him With Women At Church

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for twelve years and he is on just about every committee at our church, so he's always doing something for ladies at our church. He does not offer to take me with him, even though I complain that he does not spend time with me like he used to. He told me that it's part of his calling to serve others. He likes to mirror what our pastor does, so he'll drop everything to go help the single church women do odd jobs around the house. Just like Saturday, he went to change out the filters and a single church member's air conditioner. He came in late and said the unit was in the attic and he had trouble getting to it......................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/07/2413m 22s

What's Up With My Spoiled Old Man

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty four year old married woman and my husband has been sleeping in the other room lately. He and I got into an argument on Easter weekend and he told me that he could do a lot better than me and find someone that doesn't nag him or treat him like a child. He's sixty seven and we've been married for four years. Since we got married, I bathe him every night.  I put lotion on his body and I suffer through bad sex. I also cook every night. I wash all of his clothes, and I wash both of our cars whenever they need to be cleaned.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/07/2413m 26s

He Stole My Wife From Right Up Under Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hard-working, faithful man. I was married for 15 years to my college sweetheart. I never had any problems in my marriage until I tried to help out a friend. Here’s what happened… my wife had a best friend and the friend was married to a bigtime cheater. We were always there for her if she was going through drama with her husband. Their marriage finally ended when her husband got her cousin pregnant...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/07/2416m 36s

My Husband Is A Thug And A Prominent Pastor

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 7 years. I’m 43 and my husband is 38, but he acts like the world owes him something and always has a chip on his shoulder. He is argumentative and a wanna-be thug. He grew up in a rough area and he had to make it out of the hood on his own, but he won’t acknowledge that he’s in a much better place spiritually and financially now. He will preach a good sermon on Sunday, but Monday thru Saturday, he curses, drinks and he’s a womanizing thug.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/07/2412m 55s

Went From WAP to HAP

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old mother with 3 children. My children’s father and I have been together over 10 years so let me say this before you bash me… he has asked to marry me him several times and I respectfully declined because we need to go to therapy before we get married. Here’s why… My confidence is at an all-time low because my children’s father has cheated many times...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/07/2413m 17s

My Wife Keeps Leaving Me and Coming Back

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 35 year old man with 2 kids and a stepdaughter by my wife. I love my family, but I have come to a breaking point with my wife. For the second time in 4 years she has left the home and cut off all contact with me and the kids. The first time she left, she ran off with a man that she met online. She bought a bus ticket and rode out west and didn’t contact us for a month. Eventually, the guy dumped her and she reached out to me.............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/07/2413m 22s

I Wasn’t Able To Tell Her Husband Goodbye

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been sad for a while now and I’m seeking advice on how to move past this situation. I have been in a relationship for 6 years with a married man that was loving and attentive and treated me like a priority at all times. We live about an hour away from each other and he would make a point to see me weekly and take me on business trips with him and weekend outings whenever he could................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/07/2413m 23s

My Children's Momma Or My Sugar Momma

Dear Steve and Shirley, I love my wife very much and she is the mother of my children, but I have another woman. My wife is very beautiful and smart, but she doesn’t submit to me like my mistress does. My wife wants me to be the man of the house all of the time and when I ask her for help on certain things, she huffs and puffs. I just want a partnership with her and raise our children together..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/07/2413m 22s

I Don’t Mind Working Overtime

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 29 year old single woman with a great job, but I have an issue with a co-worker. I went to a local bar a couple of weeks ago and had a few drinks. I noticed a man and woman in the corner cuddling and didn’t think anything of it at first. Later on, I went to the bathroom and passed the couple and realized it was two of my co-workers in the corner boo’d up. Both of them are married and when they saw me, they instantly took their arms off each other and separated...........  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/07/2412m 54s

This Drinking And Cussing Has To Stop

Dear Steve and Shirley, my husband of 22 years has made a lot of changes in the last 6 months. He’s been in the military since I met him and he retired last year, but he still hangs around with his co-workers. He has always cursed like a sailor because he was a sailor when he was younger. When we had our first child, I asked him to watch what he said around our daughter and he slacked up with using profanity.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/07/2413m 16s

He Loves To Mention His Ex-Wife

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m married to my high school sweetheart but we have only been married for 4 years. After high school, we went our separate ways and he was married for 20 years and had 3 kids with his wife. I was married for 13 years and I got a divorce and was raising my 2 children alone, when I reconnected with my high school sweetheart. We blended our families and picked right back up where we left off in high school....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/07/2413m 16s

The Hood The Bad and The Bougie

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a very beautiful woman that is hood and bougie. She’s a bad dresser and she has a bad figure. She’s got a bad ride and she’s got a mean walk. I mean bad as in good, Steve, real good. We met at a lounge and she stood out from her group of girlfriends. She was poised and graceful and I watched her sip wine while her friends were all loudly chanting and taking shots.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/07/2412m 58s

You Have To Watch The Babysitter

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your advice on an issue with my husband. We’ve been married almost 2 years and we are parents of a 7 month old baby girl. I’m a nurse and I work nights, 7pm till 3am. My husband is an optometrist and he had a licensing exam in Maine last month so he had to be gone for 5 days. I suggested that my best friend’s sister babysit while I was at work. She’s 25 now and I’ve known her since she was in 3rd grade..................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/07/2413m 13s

My Ex Paid For My Grandma's Funeral

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am engaged to a man that I work with. We both teach elementary school and when he transferred to my school, it was love at first site for me. At the time, I had only been divorced a few months and my ex-husband was still pursuing me and trying to work things out. He cheated on me more than a few times when we were married, so I divorced him...................................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/07/2413m 19s

Why Would He Cheat On Her And Admit It

Dear Steve and Shirley, I started messing with the man that lives next to me. He was in a long distance relationship, so we started messing around out of boredom. I'm separated from my husband, so it was helping me out, and it was convenient. His girlfriend has moved to town and she's always at his house, so we can't spend as much time together as we used to. I went out and I met a man at karaoke night and he came back to my place. One thing led to another and we had sex, and I mean it was good too. I must have been too loud because I heard banging on the wall..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/06/2413m 30s

Any Child That I See Could Belong

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27/06/2413m 26s

Is It Too Risky To Stay with My Husband

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband has put my life in danger for the last time. When we started dating, he had a lot of loose ends to tie up with women from his past. Even at our wedding, an ex of his was in the parking lot crying and one of his cousins had to get her under control. We've been married for two years and we live in his house. Things have been quiet lately, and even his ex wife has settled down and stopped annoying me. He mentioned to me how one of his exes lost her dad and he was close to the guy. He said his ex moved to London, and they lost touch. He admitted that she used to live with him for a short period of time, but they broke up and he hadn't heard from her in over five years....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/06/2413m 25s

I Wanna Teach These Twins A Lesson

Dear Steve and Shirley, you are not going to believe this. I am 30 years old and my longtime girlfriend has an identical twin sister. I can barely tell them apart sometimes. They both have short curly afros, they both have dimples in both cheeks and their bodies are the same. My girlfriend and her twin love to prank me and confuse me since they look so much alike. Their little pranking went too far and now I want in on the fun.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/06/2413m 21s

Get The Funk Out Of My Face

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been dating a guy for close to three years and I need some advice on a major issue I’m having with him. I love this man and he is a great guy. He loves me, too, and we have been talking about marriage. But here’s my issue… I can not stand going to his house because it is always a mess. When we spend quality time together, we’re always at my house and I have to encourage him to pick up after himself and not eat all over my house. He and his teenage son live like slobs and I have told him that I don’t feel comfortable at his house............................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/06/2413m 25s

His Female Company Is Too Comfortable

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend is very outgoing and when I started dating him, I gained several new friends, mostly females. I trusted him and I had no reason to think he would ever try to have sex with his female friends. We've been dating for three years and I went to his house Thursday and his friend Grace was in his bed sleeping. He told me she had a migraine, so he picked her up from work and brought her to his house so he could look after her and he told me not to turn the TV on because she needed the house to be quiet and dark. Grace started throwing up and he ran to take care of it............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/06/2413m 15s

My House My Rules

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for four years and I just had my first child at age forty. My husband has two children from a previous marriage. When I came home with the baby, he had his two children at my house and it was a mess. His son is fourteen and his daughter is eleven. My husband said they're not used to cleaning up, so he would get to it. His entitled children have a housekeeper at their main home with their mom so they don't have to lift a finger. I didn't speak to him for days because the house was filthy, and he shouldn't have me and our newborn daughter come home to filth. I told his ex wife that she should start now. It's not too late to give the kids basic chores around the home........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/06/2413m 14s

I’m In The Military And I Never Enlisted

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am 57 years old and have been married to an intelligent, extremely good looking 60 year old man for ten years. We’re admired by friends and family because we seem to have the perfect marriage. At home and in public, we act like two teenagers in love. We send each other silly texts all day and we play all kind of silly games at home..............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/06/2413m 14s

I Can’t Stop Loving Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty eight year old married woman and I've been living alone for the past three years. My husband moved out and he's living with one of my girlfriends. Okay, wait, yeah, I had to let that be right for a moment. Yeah. I found out they'd been messing around for years, and I was hurt but not surprised, and I took it better than they expected me to. Instead of acting a plump fool, I called her up and asked her why she did it. She told me that I was neglecting him sexually. I can accept that because I did. He came to me a few days after that and asked if he could go be with her. I told him that I wanted him here with me. He said he didn't want to be here with me. We have a twenty four year old son, and he was there when my husband said it. He told me to let him go. It would not have been that easy if my son wasn't there................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/06/2413m 14s

He Who Finds A Wife

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in need of advice. I am a 36 year old divorced man and I’m engaged to be married. I’m a middle school teacher and I have 2 children by my first marriage. My first wife is also a teacher at the same school and we divorced after I caught her cheating on me in her car with the track coach at our school. After the scandal, he transferred to a high school and my ex-wife married him. It was hell to have to work with her after she moved on with the guy that she cheated on me with..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/06/2413m 13s

Can You Please Stop Touching Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a man and fell in love. I'm forty five and he's fifty five. I didn't like him at first, but he wore me down and stole my heart. I have to weigh the pros with the cons all the time because he is very annoying. He's been very handsy from the beginning of our relationship. We went on a blind date and I was very nervous because he's older. He reached across the table and grabbed my wrist and told me that he could feel my heart racing by the pulse in my wrist. I wanted to snatch my hand from his because he was being too familiar. He walked me to my car and he had his hand in the small of my back............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/06/2412m 59s

His Family Never Has Any Money

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to the sweetest man on earth, and he's very outgoing and he loves to cook. Because of that, we never can have a quiet dinner at home. If he makes pasta, he has enough food to feed the multitude, and his family knows it, so they automatically drop by and fix a plate. My husband has styrofoam to go plates just for his family. I complain about his family taking advantage of him, but he doesn't see it that way. I do sneaky little things, like I'll ask his mother to bring a gallon of milk when she comes, but she always has an excuse not to do it. She'll say she wasn't dressed to run in the store, or she forgot to shop...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/06/2413m 12s

He Described A Different Experience

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that I dated in high school. We both married other people, and we both got divorced last fall, so we decided to give dating a try again, but he lives almost three hours away, so I don't get to see him as much as I'd like to. He came to see me over the weekend, and this was our first time having sex in nineteen years. I was so ready for it. He got in Thursday and I went to his hotel room after work. I took a shower, and then he put it on me like he promised. He kept on saying that I had been waiting for that moment for years, and he said I'm by far the best woman he ever had sex with...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/06/2413m 21s

I Took Up For Him And It Backfired

Dear Steve and Shirley, My brother and I were best friends, and I love his wife like she's my blood relative. Her family has become my family because my brother and I lost our mom ten years ago and our daddy is a loser. His wife's family has welcomed me for Christmases, Birthdays and other family gatherings. All of that has come to an end because I took up for my brother and it backfired on me. I manage a restaurant that is in the county, far away from the city, so it's become the creep spot for cheating men to go on dates. My brother is the main one that's always hitting me up for a table in the back. Back in November, I put him in the back for a date with the lady that flew into town to see him........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/06/2413m 53s

My Sister Can’t Have My Girlfriend

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have some news to share with you and I need your input. I am a 33 year old woman and I have a female friend that everyone thinks is just a friend, but secretly, she’s my girlfriend. Girlfriend, as in lover. It all started about four years ago when we both were having issues in our love life and we started venting, crying and holding each other. One thing lead to another and it was on! I totally loved the experience and wish I could be with her more, but we live in different cities................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/06/2413m 7s

Why Would My Husband Pay For Her Vacation

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seven years and I need advice because my husband is being inappropriate with the girl that keeps our kids. I was at the hair salon and a girl that goes to church with me asked if I had the same babysitter that used to come to church with me. I told her yes, and she asked if I had seen the pictures from the babysitter's trip to Destin. I am not on TikTok, so she showed me the babysitters videos. I've only seen her as a twenty four year old, sweet, introverted girl that loves my two kids. On the video, she was taking shots of alcohol and twerking on her girlfriends and throwing her middle fingers up............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/06/2416m 43s

I Was In The Closet The Whole Time

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 28 years old and single and I’ve had the worst dating history of all of my friends. I was recently dating a guy that told me he had a stalker and we had to lay low for a while until she left him alone. I understood why he might have a stalker because he is fine and sexy with a bald head and full beard. He’s 36 years old so I was intrigued by dating an older man for the first time........................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/06/2416m 39s

He Was Outside Ready To Rumble

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm separated from my husband because he cheated on me and the girl he was dating had a miscarriage. He left me and his son to be there for her while she was grieving. Yes, it was his baby. I decided to move on too, and I've been with my new boyfriend for two months. My husband never expected from me to get a boyfriend, and he was shocked when our eleven year old son told him that he's met mommy's boyfriend and he's really tall and he has a basketball court in his backyard. My husband did not like it one bit. He told me that my side piece is off limits to our son, and I had to remind him that his side piece almost had a baby by him, so he can't tell me what to do................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/06/2413m 16s

My Phone Died So I Went To His Neighbor's House

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in the most trifling phase of my life, but it took the last incident to shake some sense into me. I was with the married guy that I deal with occasionally. He told me to stop by to get some money. So I went by his house while his wife was having dinner with her parents. I have my Lyft driver drive by the restaurant so I can make sure her car was still there. I went into the back door of the house and he greeted me in his underwear. He took them off and I had to earn the money. I love stuff like that, so I told my Lyft driver not to wait for me. We had sex on the floor and it was magnificent. He gave me five hundred dollars cash and I was headed out when we heard the garage door going up............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/06/2413m 23s

Motivational And Manipulating Man

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a man that calls himself a preacher without a church. I call him a motivational manipulator. He goes on Facebook and says he's a prophet, and he sees stuff differently than anyone else. He said he can sense when our dog has indigestion. Everyone in our house can sense it too, because we can smell it, but we humor my husband. He tries to spook our kids into not doing things that he doesn't agree with. My daughter wants to be a Majorrette at her school, and my husband made up a statistic about girls not getting accepted into good schools if they had been shaking their booties in high school...................................... See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/06/2413m 24s

He Won’t Fight Back But I Will

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been with Don for four years, off and on. That kind of threw me because she put his name in there. I've been with Don for four years, oh, on and off. He's a great friend, lover and hard worker, but he's messy. He tells all of his sister's business and his older sister beat him up several years ago. He didn't learn his lesson, and he did it again. His older sister is supposedly an escort, and he decided to share it with their dad, and she showed up but their dad's house and wore my man out. I couldn't stand by and let that happen because he didn't run from her or anything.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/05/2413m 21s

I Never Knew That Men Fake It Too

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty nine and divorced. My male cousin is thirty, and he's been staying with me for the past month. I'm in a long distance relationship and I'm usually with my man, so that means my cousin has my house to himself a lot. I trust him, and I don't mind if he has company. But I was shocked to come home early and hear him and his female companion having sex. I heard him as soon as I walked through the door, and his screams made me think he was being attacked, so I was scared to walk back to his bedroom.......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/05/2413m 23s

If I Had A Dollar For Every Time…

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty seven years old and my husband is seventy four. I used to work for him and we became close over the years, but we never had any romantic interest in each other. His wife passed in 2021 from pneumonia, and I was there for him. I made sure he ate and took his medicine. I got a few ladies from my church to assist me with cleaning out his wife's closets so he could move on. It was a process that took a full year. He told me he was used to seeing me every day, not just at work. He said he liked how I took care of him, and he asked me to have sex.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/05/2412m 42s

I Fell In Love With The Cookie Monster

Dear Steve and Shirley, In 2017 I met a handsome man at a nail salon. He stared at me the entire time so I gave him my card as I left. He called and invited me to his apartment for dinner and we have been together since that night. He’s a big flirt and a bit too outgoing and it’s always bothered me. Two years ago, I started checking his phone and he was always talking to different women. Whenever I called him a flirt, he would say he’s a people person. He works long hours and I don’t get to see him every day so that bothers me too.................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/05/2413m 0s

He Left The Restaurant With His Wife

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was dating Mr. Right for almost one year and we got a condo together and looked at rings together. He is a physician and his practice is about an hour from where our condo is. We dated publicly and I met all his friends and his sister. He never gave me any reason to suspect that he was married. He is an avid golfer in his spare time and he usually stays at the resort where he golfs on the weekend.................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/05/2417m 10s

Love @ First Bite

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 57 year old single woman but I am dealing with a man that is slightly older than me. He’s a nice man and he just lost his wife so he’s trying to settle down with me. We have great chemistry in the bedroom and that is what’s the most important to me. He matches my freakiness and has taken it to a whole new level but after five months of dating, he said he wants to only do certain things for special occasions................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/05/2415m 55s

The Lounge Closed Last Year

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for eleven years and we have our separate spaces in the house. This has helped us cope with the day to day stress of being married. I have a group of friends that I play cards with once a month, but I prefer to be at home, watching movies and reading. My husband is nothing like me. He's very outgoing and he loves to be outside, as he calls it. His need to be outside has caused a lot of problems, and it's the reason he's in trouble. He told me a string of bad lies and I called him out because he thinks I'm stupid. It was almost 2am when my husband came home Sunday morning............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/05/2413m 21s

All of These Woman Can't Be Lying

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22/05/2416m 32s

He’s Not Used To The Real Thing

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21/05/2416m 39s

My Daddy Is For The Streets

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20/05/2413m 26s

Perserverance: Successful real estate broker overcame drug addict mom, being teenage mom twice and school dropout.

Two-time Emmy and Three-time NAACP Image Award-winning television Executive Producer Rushion McDonald interviewed Kimberly Kelly.   Talking Points: Talking Points: Her background and overcoming challenges as a youth How she figured out how to make money with little or no assistance How she got involved in her current industries How she utilized marketing techniques to remain consistent in spaces of transition The type of message she can give about learning how to persevere through difficult moments Her various businesses and how she connects them all for her clients Real estate broker with six agents under her company Tax professionals and bookkeeper Property preservation educator Consultation services provider The pro's and con's of managing a business with a partner or spouse Family / Career Balance / Legacy Being a wife, mother and businesswoman How her son followed in her footsteps as a teenager New goal success strategies for entrepreneurs #AMI #BEST #STRAWSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/05/2425m 50s

He Wants To Be The Center of Attention

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17/05/2413m 24s

He Asked To See It and I Heard Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have an auto detailing shop, but we make the most money with our mobile detailing truck. My husband has been running the mobile detailing business all by himself because he said he can't find anyone that's as good as he is. Most of his mobile customers are single females that don't like going to a car wash. I go by the shop daily to pick up the cash so I can deposit it. I was there the other day and I overheard a female telling my detail shop manager that she had to stop getting mobile detailing because the owner was flirting with her and her husband didn't like it since she was talking about my husband........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/05/2413m 8s

He Let The Two Girls Sleep Over

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old and my husband is forty two. We've been married for six years and his business has taken off in the past three years. He used to be a club promoter and now he owns a lounge with three other guys. I was scared to date a man that's always in the streets, but he's proven that he's just out to get the bag and bring it home so he can spoil me. I trusted him until this past weekend. It was his birthday weekend, so his partners threw him an all white party.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/05/2413m 25s

My Wife Used To Keep Herself Up

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for thirteen years and my wife and I work from home. I do food deliveries two nights a week just so I can get out of the house and give her some space. She goes walking with ladies in our neighborhood to give me space. I love that she's lost weight and kept it off, and so have I. We don't have sex as much as we used to, but when we do we still have the best chemistry. Everything would seem to be great with us, but it's not because my wife has let herself go in a lot of ways....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/05/2413m 27s

My Children Are Inconvenient

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 51 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 7 years. We met at a rap concert while picking up our daughters who were both 16 at the time. He and I started talking about how we shouldn’t have let our daughters go unchaperoned. My daughter and her friends came out first and he got my number before I walked away. We instantly clicked and he proposed after a year of dating..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/05/2413m 15s

Don't Threaten Me With A Good Time

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband is driving me batty with his occasional drinking and mood swings that come with it. He has embarrassed me for the last time, and I hate that he can never remember what he did or said when he was drunk. On the flip side, he's the sweetest man in the world when he doesn't drink. Saturday, we had an engagement party to go to and my husband started drinking around noon. I could tell that he was going to be a problem because he made a few rude comments about my outfit........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/05/2413m 25s

He Said If I Write Y'all It's Over

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09/05/2413m 24s

I’m Tired of Raising His Child and His Ex-Wife

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for three years and married almost one year. When I met him, he was just getting a divorce and he was struggling with being alone. He said he was still really cool with his ex-wife, even after she cheated on him. They have a four year old daughter, so he has no choice but to talk to her to co-parent with her. He's thirty five and his ex-wife is twenty eight. He explained to me that he started dating her when she was twenty two, and when they moved in together, he had to teach her the basics like money management and how to take care of their household. I couldn't imagine how much he had to prepare her to be a mother. He made it sound like she had no home training................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/05/2413m 18s

He Loves My Love Handles and Dimples

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty nine years old, and I'm sad to say that I've been a side chick for most of my adult life. I got used to men saying they were in a terrible marriage or they weren't married at all. So I started calling wives and girlfriends of the men that I was sleeping with. Earlier this year, I started going to church regularly, and I was celibate for three months. Then I met a really great guy named Jarvis. Jarvis is my preacher's nephew, so I figured he's a stand up guy. He said he was attracted to me because I'm always smelling good. He said he loves my love handles and the dimples in my butt. He asked me to be his girlfriend, and I got butterflies. I had to investigate him first though. I found him on Facebook and I saw pictures of his skinny girlfriend all over his page..............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/05/2413m 28s

His Delivery Is Always So Shocking

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a man, we clicked. He showed me his representative for the first few months. Now I see some things that make me wonder if I want to continue our relationship. These are things that I think he can control, but he didn't act like this in the beginning of our relationship. He has no filter in anything he says or does, and his delivery is always so shocking. I took him to meet my mom and he unleashed the madness as soon as we got in her driveway......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/05/2413m 6s

It Was All Recorded On Her iPad

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty eight year old married woman. This is my second marriage and my husband's first marriage. I have a twenty one year old child and an eighteen year old child, but I felt obligated to have a child with my husband because he didn't have any kids. We've been married four years and we have a three year old daughter. He used to be my world, but now my children are my world. After my daughter's iPad exposed my husband as a cheater, it was caught on videos, so there's no way he can make me believe what I heard was not what I heard. My husband runs a tax prep business and he does the payroll for his brother's business......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/05/2413m 24s

How Does She Know Your Nickname

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for five years and I had a baby in December, so I'm eager to get these few extra pounds off. Pilates has always been my thing, but my pilates instructor moved to another city. My husband loves his class at the gym, so I asked if it's worth me giving it a try. He said, his class is full and there's a waiting list because his instructor is the best. I'm a member at his gym too, so I went by one day and enrolled in any class I could take. I ended up in a pilates class with a nice older lady. But after one session, I realized I'm too advanced for her class, and she agreed. She suggested I sign up for the other pilates class, so I did. It was just my luck that there was not a waiting list like my husband said there was................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/05/2413m 25s

He Needs To Freshen Up Everything

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm twenty eight years old and dating a man that is five years older than I am. We've been together for eight months and he's someone I can see myself settling down with. He doesn't have any children, so that's a plus for me. The only issue we have is that he has sex with other ladies. He told me that even though he has sex with other women, I'm the only one he spends his time and money. He said, he doesn't want to cheat on me, so he's just getting some things out of the way before he settles down. We talk about marriage and having children together, and he wants to be married before he's forty..........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/05/2413m 24s

My Topless Sister In The Hot Tub

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married nineteen years and we have two teenage daughters. My husband has seen it all and he has adjusted to bras and the laundry makeup all over the house, and he doesn't mind buying special items for the girls. The girls are totally in love with my younger sister, who's twenty four and care free. She's a nail tech and she's probably sleeping with an older man because she drives an expensive car that her quote man bought. She's a free spirit with a big personality and big wild hair. My husband jokingly calls her a weirdo, and she calls him a nerd............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/04/2413m 25s

How Do I Explain The Silence

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for three years and I work from home, but I have to travel sometimes for conferences. I often ride with co-workers if it's a short distance. Last week I drove and Don and Calvin from work jumped in with me. I made sure not to tell my husband, who was riding with me, until we got in the car, so I could act like I went up to the office and the guys just happened to end up in my car. My plan worked, and my husband called right as we pulled up to the hotel in Austin. I stayed in my car to take the call while Don and Calvin got our bags. It started raining, so I had to rush off the phone and get into the hotel because I couldn't find my umbrella................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/04/2413m 22s

It’s Always My Fault

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for nine years. In the beginning, we talked about starting a family, but he wasn't able to make that happen. We went to see a specialist and we were told that his little swimmers are weak. The doctor said he should improve his diet and exercise more often. But my husband made his issue my fault because I cook a lot of red meat and we eat a lot of bread and potatoes. I was so hurt that he blamed that on me. Then sex with him got worse. Gradually, he said it's all my fault because I come to bed partially naked and wearing a scarf over my hair. He said, those visuals don't go together, and he can't perform with me looking unpresentable. That hurt my feelings too. The bottom line is he cannot perform and his main character is smaller than normal......................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/04/2413m 25s

Fight or Flight

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty four year old married man and I'm in a very high leadership role with my company. My wife and our two children enjoy my annual company picnic, and they've been out of the country twice with me on my work trips. I came from the hood and so did my wife, and we want better for the kids. I've worked at this manufacturing company since I was in the tenth grade, and I worked my way up. My wife and I got married after high school.................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/04/2413m 14s

He Is Not Meeting My Basic Needs

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seven years, but we are separated. My husband saw text messages and pictures I sent to another man, and he didn't try to work things out with me and see why I was involved with someone else. I have had a boyfriend for a few months and he is a great lover and an excellent provider. I didn't have to ask for a thing. I don't have to ask for a thing or lift a finger when I'm around him. He knows how to treat a woman. My husband, on the other hand, would get upset and call me trifling if I ask him to put gas in my car or wash it for me. My husband didn't care if I was happy with our sex life or not. He only cared if his needs were being met....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/04/2413m 25s

He Makes Excuses For Her Body Count

Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my oldest friends got reacquainted with a girl we went to high school with, and he was so excited that she wants him. He is trying to marry her. My husband and I invited them to dinner, and I purposely did not tell my husband anything about the ladies past. I let him meet her and form his own opinion just from sitting and talking to them for two hours. My husband said that my friend is so caught up by her beauty. There's nothing I can do or say about this girl to make him leave her. This woman is thirty three years old now, and she slowed down a lot and said she's in love with my friend and ready to be a wife............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/04/2413m 26s

She Is Going To Push Me To Do It

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm divorced and my ex husband and I are great at co-parenting. My son is fourteen and my daughter is ten, so she prefers to stay with me and my son prefers to stay with his dad. After we have been divorced seven months, I got a mommy makeover and my ex came and stayed a few nights to help me with the kids. He also drove me to my doctor's appointments and we worked on becoming friends again. Ten months after our divorce, we started having sex again. Then I found out he had a girlfriend and I asked him about it, and he admitted that he was in love with a new chick. I met the woman and she told me they were getting married......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/04/2413m 27s

He Doesn’t Want Me To Be With His Brother

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I live in a duplex and his brother and the brother's girlfriend live next to us. I don't get along with a girlfriend, and she knows she will never be welcome in my house. My husband's brother and I are the same age. We're forty six. My husband is fifty eight and he has problems with sleep apnea, so he's been sleeping with a CPAP machine to help him sleep at night. Because of it, I don't have a lot of sex with my husband. I have it with his brother instead. He gives me all of the great sex that I want and need, and we don't even have to sneak around to do it. He comes over after my husband falls asleep, and the sounds of his sleep machine drown out any sounds we're making in the next room.........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/04/2413m 27s

My Husband’s First Aid Kit

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for twenty five years and married for twenty two. Our youngest daughter finally moved out, and my husband and I hit the road and visited his parents, and then we drove up to Michigan to see my sister and her children. It was a great two weeks of spending quality time with my husband. The only drawback was that we didn't have a lot of sex because his back was hurting. He had his doctor phone in medication for his back and we picked it up as soon as we got back into a few days after the trip, I was still unloading stuff from the back of my husband's SUV. I mistakenly dropped a bunch of things in the driveway and I heard a crash............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/04/2413m 24s

I'm Gonna Take Him Back Everytime

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm almost sixty years old and I've been a live in girlfriend for over twenty years. When my honey and I started dating, he was fresh off a terrible marriage and I was married to an old man that died on me and left me homeless. I had saved up a lot of money and lost it all taking care of him. When he died, his children took what little money he had. So my current honey and I said we'd never get married, but he'd never leave me like the last one did. He makes sure I have access to everything that's his, and he doesn't have any children, so I'm good on that part. We have a comfortable life and he loves to travel...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/04/2413m 27s

My Wife Is An Activist At The Wrong Times

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty nine year old married man. My wife is thirty seven, and she volunteers throughout our community and it's become her life passion. She got fired right after the pandemic because it was too hard for her to keep her composure with her coworkers after all of the Black Lives Matter movement stuff. Every day she comes home ranting. She came home ranting over something a coworker said, and I'm sure she usually took it the wrong way. Currently, she's the director of a nonprofit organization that does gardens in underserved areas of town...............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/04/2413m 27s

I’m Falling For Him Not His Daddy

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm fifty six years old and my husband will turn seventy five in May. My husband is a great provider and great daddy, but I don't get butterflies when I'm with him like I did in the beginning. I will admit he wooed me with expensive things and I was caught up at first. We met and got married all within a year. I didn't snap back into reality until I met my step son at our wedding a year ago. Now I want my step son more than I want my husband. He's a fifty two year old bachelor and a big flirt............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/04/2413m 25s

Why I Can’t Go With My Friend and Her Cousin

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for nine years and I've been mad at my husband for the last year. For an entire year, he has questioned my faithfulness to him and demanded me to drop friends that I've known longer than I've known him. My husband is projecting his character traits on me. He's a cheater, not me. He is the one that texts women and comments on their pictures on IG while he's in bed next to me. When he started tripping about who I hang with, it set me off. I've known my girl Fay for twenty two years, and I met her cousin, John John about five years ago. We've had Faye and John John over to the house hundreds of times. My husband enjoyed hanging with John John until I told him that John John is Fay's cousin and not her man.....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/04/2413m 27s

He Smells Like Grease and Moth Balls

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met a man online and he's a decent guy that's eight years older than I am. He's fifty nine and divorced and I have never been married. When we met, we talked about everything and I really got to know him. I found out that he's the cafeteria manager at an office building downtown and he loves to cook. He lied on his dating profile and said he's a chef's so I brought that up to him. All he did was brag about his cooking, and he said he's the best chef I'll ever meet. So our first date was a makeshift picnic at a park by my office, and he brought all of the food. My first impression of him was not good.........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/04/2413m 20s

Big, Black, Beautiful and Broke

Dear Steve and Shirley, The love of my life is a six ' four beautiful man that is black as tar with the straightest teeth I've ever seen. He's a singer with no gigs, but I've been patient with him since we started dating because he's a good man. He's messed up his credit so he doesn't have a car right now. I allow him to use my car when he's going to go sing, and he brings it back on E because I don't want him to use a little money that he has on gas. I'm twenty nine and he's twenty eight. We moved in together and my dad stopped talking to me because he knows my man can't take care of me like he should.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/04/2413m 27s

I Wanna Tell Her So Bad

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am the baby girl of two older sisters. My oldest sister lives in a gated community and she's a housewife, but she's not too bright. She's just a rich and a pretty homebody whose husband has been cheating on her for a long time. I felt bad about it for years, but now I feel worse because I have a secret that I can no longer keep. My middle sister is having sex with my brother in law, and I saw it for myself. I stayed over at their house to babysit for them while they had a Christmas party at the house. My nephew and I were upstairs in his room playing a video game, and I heard a lot of banging on the bathroom wall closest to his room....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/04/2413m 26s

But What Is She Doing In My House

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm remarried and I was living my best life until my stepdaughter graduated college and moved back in with her mom. My husband has two children from a previous marriage, and my bonus son is a sweetie. But the girl is a stepdaughter for a reason. She has caused problems in my home from day one. She was sixteen when we got married, and she stayed one weekend at our house and she found my weed stash, wore a brand new shirt of mine, and let a whole roast go to waste because she left it out all night. Her own mother admitted she was being vindictive.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/04/2413m 26s

This Is Not The Blended Family I Expected

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty seven year old married man and this is my second marriage. I have a twenty one year old daughter from my first marriage, and my wife has a twelve year old and an eight year old. We're living in a house. We're living in my house, which is four bedrooms and three bathrooms, and it's busting at the seams. My daughter just moved in and she has a one year old son. My wife's children split time between our house and their father's house. I wish they could go live with him full time, but my wife wants them to live with her, which is understandable. I think they should be with their dad.....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/04/2413m 26s

Pre-Existing Conditions

Dear Steve and Shirley,  I am a 58 year old single woman.  I have been divorced for four years and my two children are grown.  The man that I have been dating hasn't been honest with me so I need your advice.  We met at a blind date and it was one of the worst dates I have ever been on.  The guy was not feeling well and he kept going to the bathroom.  I told him that I could not see myself going on anymore dates with him and after a few days he started begging me for a second date, I fell for it and went to his house for dinner...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/04/2413m 25s

She Gave Me More Than I Bargained For

Dear Steve and Shirley, I need your help on how to resolve a big mess with one of my girlfriends. I have a non- profit organization for homeless women and I provide clothing and toiletries for the ladies. I’ve been using part of my living room to sort donations. An old friend of mine recently lost weight and donated her old clothes to my organization. I went by her house to pick up the items and I was happy to see that she had two big black garbage bags full of clothes..............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/03/2413m 9s

My Husband and Part Time Lover

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for four years, but we have been together six years. My husband charmed me and I was head over heels in love with him. He was always considerate and very loving, but over the years he's become distant in everything that we do. He stopped dating me after the pandemic. We had just got married, and when the world opened back up, he never resumed his duties as my husband. Now we make love and he gets in the shower and then goes to sleep on the sofa. He said it's because I don't like to sleep with the TV on. But I will compromise if he'll stay in the bed with me. I even tried to lure him back in for sex twice in one night, but he said he was tired. When we go out for dinner, we don't have much to talk about, so we talk about whatever's topical on social media.............................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/03/2413m 27s

The Visiting Pastor Is My Sugar Daddy

Dear Steve and Shirley, I live in North Carolina, and I'm in a long distance relationship with a man I've known all my life. He's a great man that would never cheat on me because he barely has enough money to take care of the two of us. After dating him for seven years without him having a real plan for our future, I cheated on him. I got a sugar daddy that lives in the same city as my man.  He is a preacher and he's thirty one years older than me. He spoils me with gifts and he knows exactly what he is doing in the bedroom. But I have a potential problem coming up Easter weekend, and I don't know what I should do..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/03/2413m 27s

Why Is My Mom Sharing My Daddy

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty three years old and I moved back to my hometown two months ago. My dad is ill and my mother is doing the best she can to take care of him, at least that's what she told me. I kicked right in and started taking Daddy to the doctor and to get his medication. When I couldn't do it because of work, Daddy had another woman taking him, and I thought she was some kind of nurse or assistant that his insurance provided. My mom said it was just a lady that my dad knows.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/03/2413m 27s

He’s Late On His Payments

Dear Steve and Shirley, I think my husband is cheating on me. I found out after a woman called me and said my husband was late on her car payments. She said they've been having sex for almost a year and bought her a car. He bought her a car for her birthday last August. She said that she started dating another man in October and my husband got mad and said he would take the car away from her. She said she kept dating her boyfriend, but she was still sleeping with my husband..........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/03/2413m 12s

How Could He Possibly Want More

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty four and my partner is forty eight. We've been together for thirteen years total and living together for the past nine years. He's been married before, so he didn't want to get married again. I have never seen a great marriage, so I'm not big on the institution of marriage either. Even now, nothing but married men hit on me. I'm a realist and I know that ninety eight percent of men cheat, so I've tried not to stress out over what my partner is doing when he's not with me.............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/03/2413m 11s

He Wears More Shapewear Than I Do

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am newly divorced and dating again at fifty three years old. My aunt set me up with a handsome, bald man that has a great smile but a quirky personality. I cannot figure out what's up with him until recently. He's a school administrator and he does educational videos for the school district, so he's really into how he looks. On our first date, he told me that he bleaches his teeth regularly and he gets fillers in his face. We have been dating four months and he still won't tell me how old he is, but he looks like he's slightly older than I am........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/03/2413m 12s

She’s Has No Idea What He’s Doing

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a thirty four year old married woman and I'm staying at my cousin's house temporarily while I'm working on a project in Austin. My cousin is fifty two and her husband is forty eight. My room is on the other side of their house, by the kitchen. I've heard my cousin's husband on the phone mumbling late at night, damn near every night since I've been staying with them. He's usually on the couch every night until 3am, and then he goes to bed. My cousin is up and out early in the morning for work, and then her hubby is free to FaceTime some woman that has an annoying laugh........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/03/2413m 12s

Should I Keep Competing For A Spot

Dear Steve and Shirley, I moved to a new city and I met a man at my apartment complex. He doesn't live there, his sister does. He asked me to go out, and our first date was so good that he wanted to show me around town. We became inseparable, but we haven't had sex or put a title on our relationship. It's been three months and I'm sexually attracted to him, so I asked if we were dating?..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/03/2413m 11s

I Don’t Think My Husband Likes Black Women

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty years old and married to an older man. He's an entrepreneur and I'm in the insurance field. He's out and about rubbing elbows with big wigs every day, at least that's how he describes his line of work. He dabbles in real estate and he owns a few parking lots and he just acquired another one. When he's at home, he's sleep or he's on his computer. We used to cook at home together and watch movies. That was our thing............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/03/2413m 12s

I Think My Wife Is Ashamed of Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a fifty eight year old married man. I'm a dump truck driver. I retired from teaching after thirty years in the classroom. I was only fifty five, so I decided to reinvent myself and get back to work. I was talking one of my homeboys that has a hauling business. I hadn't talked to him in years. One day I ran up into him and he was telling me how he bought a truck and he gets a lot of business hauling dirt, tree limbs, and debris, and he sets his own rates. He said he already made twenty seven thousand this year and it's only March. I went to my wife with the idea of buying a truck and taking a class to become a certified driver.....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/03/2413m 12s

Figure Me Out or Get Out

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met and immediately fell in love. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty four. I met him at work and he relocated and asked me to come with him after we had known each other for only two and a half months. Everything was rosy back then, and all I could think about was getting married and having babies with curly hair like his. My fairy tale life lasted for almost a year.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/03/2413m 11s

He Overthinks Everything

Dear Steve and Shirley, I love my husband with all of my heart, but I do not like him, and I don't like being around him. I cannot have a conversation without him weighing the pros and cons of what I'm telling him. For example, prom season is coming and our son has a date, but our daughter chose to go to the prom with a group of girls. He tried to get my daughter to ride to the prom with our son, and I had to shut that down. He thought of every reason in the world to keep my daughter from doing her junior prom her way. When we are out with friends, he can't decide which credit card he is going to use because one card gives him perks and the other one has a better interest rate..............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/03/2413m 26s

My Best Friends Are My Exes

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 33 year old married woman and I’ve been with my husband for 8 years, married for 5. My husband just found out that my male best friend is my ex-boyfriend. I also have a female best friend that I used to have threesomes with. We are all close and they loved my husband and he loved them. I was on FaceTime with my best friend the other night and he mentioned a tattoo on my lower back and said he remembered when I got it.................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/03/2416m 14s

He's My Brizly Bear And I'm His Sugar Baby

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08/03/2413m 24s

Where Is He Getting His Information

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07/03/2413m 27s

He’s Feeling Himself But I’m Not Feeling Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for fourteen years and married for ten. After our third child, we gained a little too much weight, so when our toddler started school, we started to work out. My husband has lost a lot more weight than I have, but I am glad that my clothes are fitting again. I have to hear my sweet husband bragging about losing more weight than he imagined he would. I have to smile when he flexes his flabby arm muscle in my face like he's Hulk Hogan...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/03/2413m 28s

If It’s In The House It’s Mine

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for eleven years and we have a son. My husband is eight years older than I am, and he has old school values and ideas. He is great with our finances and I'm not. I spend a lot of money on our child's extra curricular activities and his annual school fundraisers. I hate that I have to ask our friends to support our child, and I have to do this single handily because my husband won't ever help me. So I use cash that he keeps in the house, or I use our credit card. My husband never questioned me...........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/03/2413m 27s

I’m About To Take Another Flight

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married and I have a male best friend that just moved to Hawaii. My husband couldn't be happier that he moved so far away. I'm excited too, because we've been sleeping together for three years. I was tired of playing things off in front of my husband. I went out to Hawaii to help him find temporary housing, and I told my husband I was in San Antonio with my sister. My sister is in on it, and she makes me feel bad about sneaking around on my husband. She says that's when things happen.............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/03/2413m 27s

The Jump Off Jumped On Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 32 years old and I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months and we’ve had fun getting to know each other. He was honest in the beginning and told me he had some loose ends to tie up before we got serious and I appreciated that honesty. The fact that he didn’t hide his phone or turn his ringer off made me feel that he was ready to be in a relationship with me so I didn’t trip. We went out all over town and I stayed at his home all of the time...........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/03/2416m 39s

He Has Clothes Hidden Everywhere

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I just moved in together and he had four months left on his lease, so he kept his furniture and a few personal items there until he completely moved out. It was our crash spot. If the traffic was bad in the city, we'd stop by there and wait for the traffic to die down. Last week he had wine, cheese, and crackers and a jar of olives in the fridge. I asked who the snacks were for, and he said they were for us. We have never had wine and cheese together. It made me wonder if he had been entertaining someone else there at that time, I could only get into the gate by calling him to let me in..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/02/2413m 28s

Should I Tell Him What His Daddy Showed Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I met in the seventh grade and I have loved him since then. We got married when we were twenty two years old, and we have two grown children. His parents are like my parents and vice versa. His mom is staying with us for a while because my father in law was going through her personal things and he started following her. When she found out, she called us with a sob story and my husband sided with her. I immediately gave my father in law the benefit of the doubt because his wife is very dominant and he lets her run all over him. My husband always takes his mom's side, and he got upset with me when I asked him to hear his dad out................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/02/2413m 9s

He Caught Me In His Backyard

Dear Steve and Shirley, I got busted and I don't know what to do to get my man back. I will admit that I search his phone and I look for makeup on his clothes, but other than that, I trust him. He has had a few slip ups makeup on his shoulder of a shirt, but he said he likes to hug people instead of shaking hands. Right before his birthday, he planned a party for his boys at his house. He just rented a nice house and it has a huge deck with a built in bench and rope lights. I asked if I could come over and host the party for him and his friends and he said that it wasn't that kind of party. He said it was going to be strippers and everything, and I didn't need to be around all of that.......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/02/2413m 27s

Clear The Room Before We Start

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in love with a man that's dramatic and very high strong. He overreacts in everything he does. Whenever he's driving, he swerves all over the place to avoid potholes and he swings out to make right turns. It gets on my last nerve, but it's also entertaining. You ought to hear him gossiping when he talks to his mama. When I hear him say oh nah, I know they will be at it or while the funniest part of our marriage is how he acts in the bedroom, I have to clear the room before we start. He will knock over anything on the night stands........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/02/2413m 8s

We Love To Do The Switcharoo

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for seventeen years, and when our marriage got stale, my husband asked for a Hall pass. He said he didn't want to cheat on me behind my back. I told him I wanted to see who he had in mind for his hall pass it so I just so happened to know the woman and her husband. I told him, let's both get a hall pass and we can invite the couple over. That was two years ago, and we've done the switcheroo at least once a month with them. I introduced my husband to another couple, but we haven't hooked up with them as much because the man makes my husband very insecure. This newer couple is my favorite for so many reasons. The husband is Jamaican and that's all I need to say about him....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/02/2413m 17s

I’m Too Out of Shape For Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a forty eight year old divorced female and I'm trying online dating. My niece helped me do my dating profile and we used a real photo of me, but she suggested that I lie about my interests so I would attract a man with a nice body. So I said that I love working out, running and traveling. The app matched me with a tall, muscular, older man. He isn't cute, but we've been dating for six weeks getting to really know each other and I like him a lot. He runs marathons and he asked me to do a charity run with him in April. I said yes because I didn't know how to say no..................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/02/2413m 14s

He Had Nine Missed Phone Calls from His Co-Worker

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together for eight years and married for three years. In the beginning, I told him that I had a problem with all of his female friends. He said he would cut them all off for me. He's a hairstylist and barber and his best lady friend as he calls her, is in the same salon with him. My husband and I are thirty nine years old, and his best lady friend, Tammy is thirty. I've always wondered how he and Tammy's friendship has lasted for six years. I told him, as his wife, I should be his best lady friend, but he is stuck on stupid.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/02/2413m 18s

She’s Picking Up What I’m Putting Down

Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my best girlfriends was sleeping with my husband and I feel like a fool for trusting her. She was smiling in my face and acting like she and my husband couldn't stand each other. It was like Martin and Pam's relationship back in the day. I sent my husband to her house for years whenever she needed help with minor things. The most shocking part was that my husband told me everything after he'd been trying to end the affair for months. He saved text messages from the beginning of their relationship and it showed that she initiated everything...........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/02/2413m 19s

Why Won’t His Wife Leave Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 44 years old, divorced and single for 10 years. My husband divorced me because I cheated on him and the man I cheated with was married and he’s still married. We met at work and the rest is history. We are still in a relationship and it’s been 10 years now. Our sex life is great but our relationship has a few challenges. We have a 6 year old son and he has 2 children with his wife............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/02/2413m 14s

I Can’t Stand How He Dresses

Dear Steve and Shirley, In relationships, I know you have to take the good with the bad, but my boyfriend is a terrible dresser. He's fifty two years young and a well known DJ in the city. He's still got all of his hair, but he keeps it braided up. He goes to get his hair done just as much as I do. But that's not a problem because I like to be neat and clean. My problem is the way he dresses. I don't know if he's trying to look younger or not, but his jeans are way too tight. They're tight and short. He calls them ankle pants and I wear ankle pants, so I begged him to stop calling them that. Most of the young white guys in our area dressed like my boyfriend, but they are about twenty five pounds slimmer in the waistline.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/02/2413m 18s

Who Is They

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a forty six year old gossiper and my life went downhill when I let him get on Instagram. He loves to take pictures when he gets addressed, when he gets dressed up, and I would always post his pictures on my Facebook and Instagram pages. His friends would poke fun at him because he wasn't on social media. So I asked him if he wanted me to set him up a page. I did, and all he posts are pictures of his car after he washes it. The other day he posted a picture of our son after he got a haircut. He's really not a poster, but he's a creeper........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/02/2413m 18s

He Re-gifted A Teddy Bear She Gave Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, My honey and I are on shaky ground and I'm not in a loving mood. This Valentine's Day, we celebrated our two year anniversary and Valentine's Day on Sunday because he has a flight on Valentine's Day. He's a flight attendant, so he flew in on Sunday and met me at a hotel for our little staycation. We ordered room service and he had his friend drop off my gifts. He got me a necklace with a diamond encrusted two on it for the two years we have been together. I also got a teddy bear wearing a T shirt that said I love you, and I got a bottle of Creed perfume................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/02/2413m 18s

Less Is More and He Loves It

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm twenty nine years old and my boyfriend of two years broke up with me and when I asked for closure, he finally agreed to tell me why he broke up with me. He said he got bored because I'm shallow. He said it was fun at first, but when he got to really know me, there was nothing there but a pretty face and a lot of unbelievable sex. He told me all about his new girlfriend and he said things are going great because she is who she says she is inside and out. I know that I'm the total package and his new girl is around a six on a scale of one to ten..............................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/02/2413m 26s

He Can Light The Candle But Can’t Keep It Lit

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a Christian woman and new to dating. I was married for twenty two years and my husband divorced me in 2022. I have dated men at church and men that my friends hook me up with. I'm very traditional, so I like to be courted. I want my doors opened, and I want my man to order for me and when we're on a date. I also like passionate love making and refuse to settle for wham bam thank you, mam in the bedroom.......................................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/02/2413m 17s

She Gives My Husband Marital Advice

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband played a significant role in politics in our city for fifteen years, and then he started a business that we now run together. When he was in politics, he interacted with lots of prominent females that he called his associates. When rumors swirled about him cheating, there was no way for me to find out if they were true because he was around pretty women all the time. When he started our business, we interviewed a lady that worked on his campaign. She seemed to know all about marketing, so I agreed to hire her. I've regretted it for three years..................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/02/2413m 18s

Her Pillow Talking Made Me Homeless

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm staying with my sister because my husband said he needs space. I can't blame him for how he feels about me, but I can blame my best friend for what she did to me. I argued with my husband all during the holidays over the smallest stuff, and he was on my nerves. When I'm upset, I have no desire to have sex, so he wasn't getting any. I told my best friend what I was going through, and she said she was stuck in a rut too and it was time for a girls trip for the MLK holiday weekend.........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/02/2413m 27s

He Picked Me Up In My Pajamas At 3am

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm forty six years old and married, but over the past two years, my relationship with my husband has tanked. We've been sleeping in separate bedrooms since last October because he sleeps with a CPAP machine. He also has the TV on and he sleeps under the ceiling fan. We have not had sex since August. He's tired and cranky all the time, so I started going out after work with a co-worker instead of going home to a hostile environment. My co-worker and I drank so much one night that we ended up in a hotel room having sex in the shower. My affair is fun and exciting because I'm sneaking around to have great sex.......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/02/2413m 17s

Let's Stay At Your House Tonight

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty one years old and my boyfriend and I have been together for eight months. We live almost an hour apart, so he gradually started staying at my house for days at a time. I just let it happen because it was cold outside and I wanted to cuddle. He lives in the house he grew up in with his sister. His parents moved back to their hometown and left the house to his sister, but she couldn't afford the upkeep, so he is living with her. I've stayed overnight there a few times, but there is no real privacy with his sister there. In the past few days, I have switched things up and I asked if we could stay at his house..............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/02/2413m 21s

I Need To Move Out He Won’t Let Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty seven years old and my sister is forty five. I'm staying with her and her live in boyfriend of seven years. I've been having sex with her boyfriend and it started after I was here only a week. For years, the sexual tension has been strong between me and her boyfriend, but I was married at the time. A few years ago. She mentioned it, but she wasn't mad. I wondered if it was on her mind when I moved in with him, but it's like she doesn't care at all....................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/02/2413m 17s

Every Time She Calls Him He's Over Here

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend is married and we've been together for a year and a half. He calls me his wife two point zero or the new and improved version of his wife. We met when he came in to pay his property taxes. He was so fine that all the women in my office did a double take. I started flirting with him instantly before one of the other girls snagged him. I gave him my number and he came over late that evening........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/02/2413m 24s

It’s Not My Fault He Fell in the Bushes

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a single mother of a seventeen year old high school senior. I had my daughter when I was forty, and my grandma loves to say that babies are for young people. She got that right. On Friday night, I went to the movies and my daughter went to the basketball game at her school. Another parent called and said, my daughter left the game early and she was wondering if everything was okay. I felt like she was trying to tell me something without telling me something. I could not get my daughter on the phone, so I ended my date early and went home...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/02/2413m 20s

Line Them All Up And I Still Win

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been in a relationship for twelve years and my girlfriend confessed that she cheated on me seven years ago. She blurted it out during an argument and it cut like a knife. I have never cheated on her when I could have, I remained faithful. The worst part for me is that she won't tell me who she cheated with. She thinks that clearing her conscience is enough and I should be able to deal with it and move on, but I can't. How can she halfway confess it could be one of my friends, co-workers, a guy at the gym, or even a family member?........................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
31/01/2413m 19s

Please Get Off Of Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old and I have a two year old and a two month old. My husband and I have been married two years and we've been busy growing our family, but not on purpose. He has an eighteen year old son and he told me that having more children wasn't high on his list of priorities when I met him, but as soon as we held our first daughter together, he started saying he wanted another son. Then we had our second daughter two months ago and he still mentions wanting another. I have to try to avoid him in the house because he can't keep his hands to himself...................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/01/2413m 16s

I Plan To Move No Matter What

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I live about thirty minutes away from the city on his family's land, and we're renovating the home he grew up in. I used to love being away from the madness of the city, but now my country bumpkin in-laws have moved in on us. It's their land, so we can't say anything about them living right across from us. When my husband's grandmother died, everyone started fighting over who would get her house. Unfortunately, she had a will and it stated that the house belongs to my father in-law. So they left a house they built in 2018 to live on the family's land...................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/01/2413m 12s

Am I Dating Cinderella

Dear Steve and Shirley, When I met my new friend, it was like a fairytale romance. I'm twenty eight and he's thirty five and perfect for me because I prayed for an older man but not too old. He has a photography studio and I booked him for a Christmas photo shoot for me and my daughter.  After the photo shoot, he asked me to have dinner with him, so my daughter and I went to dinner with him. After that, he planned dinner dates with us every night that week. I couldn't wait for my daughter to go to her dad's later that week so I could spend quality time with my new friend. He had kept telling me how good he was in bed, and I couldn't wait to see. It was supposed to go down at his house, but it was raining really badly, so he came over to my house.......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/01/2413m 27s

Do I Stay Or Move On To Number Five

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm fifty four years old and I'm married to my third husband. I have a tendency to get bored in relationships, so I was really trying to make my marriage work. I get hit on by men at least three times a week and I always have to flash my diamond ring so men know I'm taken. I guess it's my cute dimples and my sweet voice. Each one of my husbands told me that it's the baby talk that drove them crazy. Whatever it is, I know I can always get a man. But my current husband is boring and he's not into explicit videos or role playing. We've only been married two years and he's already stopped flipping me around when we're intimate..................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/01/2413m 28s

Can We Please Close The Door

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm married to a caveman and he invades my space all day every day. We've been together for eight years and married for four years. We work from home and we were sharing our home office until I moved my desk into the foyer to get away from him. As soon as you walk in our front door, my desk is right there. It looks junkie, but I'm willing to endure the mess over having him in my personal space all day. When he's not working, he's on the phone gossiping with one of his friends or co workers, and he talked so loudly that I can't get work done.......................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/01/2413m 27s

She’s Only Sexy Outside The House

Dear Steve and Shirley,  As a man, I'm ashamed to write you for help, but I don't know what to do with my girlfriend. I met her at a cookout and we bonded instantly because we have a lot of mutual friends. She was gorgeous and had white toenail polish, glowing skin, and flowing hair. We've been together for almost two years, and I moved in with her because we were spending every night together. Anyway, I pay all the household expenses as a man. I know I'm supposed to do that, but I mentioned it for a reason. I'm handling all of the bills and her car is paid for. She might buy the grocery sometimes, but usually she puts them on my AMEX, so that leads me to believe that she is stacking her money, and I'm cool with that...................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/01/2413m 27s

He Needs New Underwear

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband is very particular about all of his things. He had a professional organizer come and do his side of the closet and I had to have a tantrum to get him to pay to get my closet done. I'm so glad we have separate closets because with my busy schedule and a newborn, I don't have time to keep my closet neat like his. My husband has a shopping addiction too. When he goes to hang with his boys, he needs a new shirt or a new jogging suit or new dress pants. I have asked him a million times if he's really going to hang with his friends, because he is dressed so nicely. He has a thing about his underwear too. There is only one designer that he will wear, and they're expensive.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/01/2413m 25s

He Needs Hennessy To Holla

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty two years old and single because I will not tolerate a drunk living in my house. My ex and I got into a big argument because for the past two years he's been drunk when we are intimate and whenever I want him to be on his best behavior, his Hennessy is like liquid confidence, and he has been sneaking it in on me. I don't drink like that anymore. Back when we first met, though, I used to to try to out drink him..................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/01/2413m 23s

Her Injury Is Not My Fault

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am dating a cheater and he just asked me to marry him, and I was thinking of saying yes, but then one of his side chick's pressed charges against me. In November I found my man on the side of a building in his car, naked from the waist down, and a woman was running across the parking lot away from his car because she saw me pulling up. I fired a warning shot with an air gun that I keep just to scare a criminal away. When the gun went off, she got scared and fell like she had been shot...........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/01/2413m 27s

He Wants To Talk To My Ex

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was married for four short years and my ex husband and I are still really good friends, but we can't seem to get along well enough to live together. I moved to a nearby city to start over so I wouldn't have to run into him all the time. As soon as I moved and got a job transfer, I started dating a guy at work. I've been seeing him for a little over a year, and we have a lot in common except sex drive. So a few days ago I drove back to my old stomping grounds to finalize my divorce. Then my ex husband and I ended up having sex in a parking lot of the courthouse. He followed me home over an hour away, and we got busy all night..............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
17/01/2412m 52s

If He Can’t Share Neither Can I

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty nine years old and my husband is forty two. I stopped working a nine to five when my tax business took off two years ago. I run a small office space and I offer debt relief services after tax season. In my mind, my husband never expected me to do so well and make so much money. He started hating on me early on, and he was negative about every advancement I made in getting set up. He wouldn't even come to my office until I have moved in it. He's really upset that I am making a lot more money than he is, so that's a problem..........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/01/2413m 13s

I Really Love Our Mail Man

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband of fourteen years must be losing his mind because he cheated on me once and I took him back. So he's got to be crazy to do it again at this stage of our lives. We got our marriage back on track after his affair, and I haven't. I hadn't suspected anything else was going on until November. He started going to bed early and getting up before I got up, so we couldn't have sex. My intuition told me to keep an eye on him, and my intuition never fails. My husband is cheating again and the woman lives in Maryland.....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/01/2413m 15s

Why Does He Like To Eat In Bed

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a teacher and I cater events and I do weekly meal prep for three people. My husband gets to feast on the leftovers, and he loves my cooking. He also loves my cookie. I am a well rounded wife and I provide my husband with good food and good loving. Wherever he wants it, he gets it, and as soon as we're done he wants a full meal. That's fine and dandy, but it's a problem when it's late at night or early in the morning and he has to eat a full meal afterwards. Something about the cookie makes him so hungry.............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/01/2413m 16s

The Motion of the Ocean

Dear Steve and Shirley, I caught my husband on the phone with a female reminiscing about the sex they had earlier that day. I tried to control my laughter so he wouldn't hear me. I was cracking up inside because the girl was talking about how he put it down and it was the best she had in a long time. She sounded young, so I wondered how many men she'd been with. I was very relieved to hear that they used protection..............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
10/01/2413m 16s

His Sister Catfished Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm thirty eight years old and I've been with the same man for five years and he's not focused on marriage or taking our relationship further, but he won't let me go. He accuses me of seeking attention from other men because of the way I dress and I see that as him not trusting me. He's so paranoid all the time, so I reassure him that I'm not up to no good when I'm hanging out with my friends. I told myself i'd give him another year to propose. I would never tell him about my deadline because I don't want him to propose unless he really wants to........................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/01/2413m 17s

New Year, New Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married for eleven years and can honestly say that I trusted my wife and loved her unconditionally, but now I'm questioning our commitment because she lied and withheld information. The week before Christmas, she and her best friend went to Orlando to do some Christmas shopping and she transferred thousands of dollars to her personal account, like six thousand dollars, but I was cool with it because she works hard and she is a great mom.  While she was gone, I took the kids to Tennessee to visit with my parents. My wife and I were both distracted, so we didn't talk much during the few days we were apart. I told her that I would be back in time to pick her up from the airport, but she said she would ride with her best friend......................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/01/2413m 14s

Three Years Later We’re Still Friends

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 34 years old and my significant other is 39 and we’ve been together for 3 years. I call him my significant other because he has yet to define our relationship. We started as friends, just like most couples do and as we got closer, he told me that he didn’t want anything serious but he enjoyed spending time with me. We started having sex a month after we met and at that time, I was very busy at work and helping my sister with her new baby, so I was not ready for anything serious either.............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/01/2413m 12s

I Don’t Know My Husband At All

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am an older married woman and this is my second marriage. When I met my husband, he was extremely handsome and generous. We connected spiritually and he joined my church. We didn’t court for long and he said he knew I was his soulmate the minute we met. I knew things could be going too fast because I’m his third wife, but I felt the same connection to him so I agreed to marry him................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/01/2413m 7s

His Ex-Wife Won’t Let Me Visit

Dear Steve and Shirley, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 5 months and he’s the best man I’ve ever been with and he treats me really good. There’s a situation that I’m dealing with and my man doesn’t understand why it’s bothering me. When we first met, he had just gotten a divorce. I mean it was literally finalized the day before I met him. Because it was a quick divorce, he was still living in the house he shared with his wife.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/01/2413m 18s

My Best Friend’s Wife Too Much

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year old man and I have a best friend and we've been super tight for years. We have been thru all the good and bad girlfriends together and now that he’s married, I want to tell him so bad that his wife is too much. She’s too much of everything. She’s tall, thick, wears big hair, big lashes and her nails and toe nails are very long.....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
02/01/2413m 18s

She Took Away All My Joy

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am having a major problem. My fiancé and I have been together for almost 2 years. She is 37 and I am 29. In the early stages, we use to throw down in the bedroom! I'm talking about doing it everywhere like 5 times a week and multiple sessions at a time, to the point where we ended up with bruises or bite marks. Her hair could never stay done back then. But lately, I can barely get her to take care of my needs and her mood about sex has drastically changed..................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/01/2413m 10s

Choosing Between Two Toothless Men

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 48 year old single, educated and professional woman that has never been married. I have dated 3 guys in the last 8 years and decided to give it a rest until recently when I met a very nice man that works with my aunt. We talked a few weeks over the phone before we met. Then he called me one day and said he’d been in a bad car accident and his face hit his steering wheel so he had to have emergency oral surgery and all he could think about was me....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/12/2313m 18s

My Homie Is My Sidepiece

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old single man and I started a sexual relationship with a female that hangs out with me and my boys. She’s like one of the boys and we party together, work out together and she travels with us on our annual guys’ trip. She is a good friend and we respect her and her sexual preference. We’ve never talked about her love life, but I assumed she never dated a man before. We’ve been friends since middle school and she has always been a pretty girl........................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
28/12/2313m 10s

He's Got The Sugar, But He's Not Being Sweet

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I are in our late 30s and we’ve been together for almost 20 years. We have 4 children and we always had a robust sex life until 2 years ago when everything changed. My husband gradually lost interest in sex and whenever we’d try, he would stop in the middle of it and tell me he was tired. I had no idea what was wrong with him and I started to think that he wasn’t attracted to me anymore. One night when he told me no to sex, I started crying. He finally came clean and admitted that he was diagnosed with Type 2 Diabetes and it affected his ability to perform..............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/12/2312m 59s

There's No Way To Bless This Mess

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been kicked out of my church and I need some advice. I attended a very messy church and if you did not do things the way the pastor thought you should, he would call you out. I have had a few run-ins with him over stuff I post on my personal Facebook page. I told him that I can post what I want on my page and it has nothing to do with him or the church. I’m sure the real problem was the fact that I was sleeping with one of the deacons, but the pastor couldn’t say anything because everybody knew he was having an affair............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/12/2313m 16s

Is This Considered Cheating

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been in a relationship for 4 years and my boyfriend and I live 3 hours apart. We’ve always been in a long-distance relationship and I thought everything was fine, until recently. He started talking about marriage after we dated 2 years and he said he would gladly move to Philly to be with me. I got all excited about marriage and I started preparing myself emotionally and financially to be with him for the rest of my life....................................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/12/2313m 20s

He Picked The Wrong Sister

Dear Steve and Shirley, about 2 years ago I messed around with my sister’s husband after a drunken night out. I made him swear that nothing would ever happen between us again. We managed to stay away from each other but he would text me often, begging for just one more night with me. He would tell me how sexy I am and I’m the best he’s ever had and he’s with the wrong sister and all of that......................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/12/2313m 9s

His Ex-Wife Got A Real Christmas Tree

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm on my second marriage and there's an issue in my marriage. My husband was married for 18 years and he's got two daughters and joint custody of them. I have a daughter that lives with us. We've blended the family nicely and his daughters are sweet to my daughter, but they like to remind her that their father is not her father. My husband is not good at setting boundaries for his ex-wife. When we started dating, he let me know that he and his ex are friends and whatever he does for her is for his daughters. I can accept that, but when it gets to be too much, I step in to help him set boundaries...................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/12/2313m 11s

I Am Emotionally Drained

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 42 year old single mother of a son that is 20 years old. My son’s girlfriend just had a baby that is fair skinned and they both are chocolate. This girl is 21 and a dancer at a bar across town. She says she’s not a stripper but that’s all she is. My son is afraid to ask this girl for a paternity test, so I did. When my son went to visit the baby, she jumped on him and then called me and said if I keep putting my son up to this foolishness, I would be next....................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
19/12/2313m 16s

Behind The Christmas Tree

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 14 years and I have a busy schedule as a high school basketball coach. After years of marriage, my wife still doesn’t get how stressed I am around this time of year and she had been pressuring me to buy a Christmas tree and have it up by December 1st. I missed her deadline cause of my schedule.........................................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
18/12/2313m 21s

Smoke and Mirrors

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in a long distance relationship with a man that my daughter hooked me up with. He's a bodybuilder, and my daughter met him at her gym. She said, "She was looking in the mirror working out when he came and stood in front of her to see himself in the mirror." She said, "other than being vain, he's extremely quiet and nerdy." He and I talked a lot in the beginning, and it was fun to have someone to talk to.........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/12/2313m 11s

Trying To Get Through Holidays

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm in love with another man, and I just need to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get with the new guy, but, I need your advice before I let a sure thing go and move on to a fairy tale lover. I don't want to leave my current boyfriend just yet, because he is getting my brakes fixed on my car and he's getting me a bracelet that I want for Christmas. I already saw it hiding in his drawer, so I'm doing all I can to stay faithful until the new year. My new man is in a similar situation, but he's married. He advised me to stay put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out.......................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
14/12/2313m 24s

He Can Laugh But I Can't

Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been married for eight years and we have three children under age six. That means I'm always tired and trying to get a nap whenever I can. If I happen to be in the bed lying down or on the couch lying down, my husband thinks it's a perfect time for him to ask for sex. Although I might be very tired at the moment, I will always give him a quickie so he won't feel neglected. I don't want to be so tired that I make him go seek intimacy from another woman. Last week, I was so tired that I fell asleep a couple of times during intimacy and my husband did not stop.............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
13/12/2313m 24s

Went Undercover and Ended Up Under The Covers

Dear Steve and Shirley, One of my sister's best friends has been dating a man for ten years and he hasn't proposed to her yet, but he's cheated on her several times. He swore that he would never cheat on her again and he joined her church to gain her trust back so she wouldn't leave him. She's still with him and she started to suspect he was cheating again after he turned his phone off her few times while he was out at night. My sister had a brilliant idea that was supposed to help her friend out.............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/12/2313m 22s

He Can't Talk Without Touching Me

Dear Steve and Shirley. I met a man online and he's a decent guy with a good job and a great set of friends. We've gone on double dates with my friends and his friends, and I did that because that's how you get to really know a person. The drawback of it is that my friends also get to point out the bad things about my man. We had a double date with my best friend and her man and my best friend.  He said that it's too soon for my man to be as hands on as he is, meaning he can't talk without touching me. She said he was going to start pressuring me for sex too soon. She was spot on with that one, so I couldn't be mad at her...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/12/2313m 22s

He's A Big Man With A Small Mind

Dear Steve and Shirley. I used to think I was the luckiest girl in my city because of who I was dating. My boyfriend is tall, with creamy brown skin and a decent body. He's on the city council, and he sits on the board of a very prestigious private club in our city, and he's known for making things happen in our community. Dating him is not what I expected it to be, though. As soon as he changes out of his suit, he reverts to the little boy from the hood, and it's scary to be around him. He won't just have one drink, it's half the bottle. So I have to entertain him and laugh at his drunken sense of humor................................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
08/12/2313m 18s

He Always Does Too Much

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm dating a man that goes overboard to please me. We've been together for three years, and from our first date until today, he's always done too much. Our first date was at a place where you could eat and play games. I wore a dress and a pair of heels, and he came in workout clothes. I didn't know where he was taking me, so I was shocked. When we pulled up. He made us matching shirts to wear and told me that he wanted to see how good I was at basketball............................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/12/2313m 18s

She's Getting More Than Money From Him

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a fifty one year old man and I have a wife, but I haven't lived with her in four years. It's a long story, but I'll try to make a brief. Four years ago, my cousin had a bad divorce and he needed somewhere to stay, so my wife and I let him rent one of our side of a duplex we own. I made him promise to be respectful to my older tenant that shared the duplex with him, because she's a Christian woman that loves peace and quiet. He moved in, and in less than two weeks, the old lady called me to complain about sex noises coming from his side of the duplex........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/12/2316m 26s

He Says He Loves Her Every Time They Talk

Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been friends with my boyfriend for seven years.  I met him at work and there's another girlfriend of ours that is our bestie.  We were inseparable back when we met and it was a shocker for our other friend when we started dating it just kind of happened that one night.  We talked until the sun came up and we ended up having sex on the top of his car.  He told me that it's always been me the apple of his eye the girl of his dream and my heart melted.  I called our other friend to tell her the news and she started crying.  I asked if she was happy or sad and she said both.  She explained that she didn't want to lose our friendship but she was happy that we finally hooked up because all he did was talk about me...................................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/12/2313m 20s

Is His Mama That Important

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04/12/2313m 3s

I Know My Man's Hands

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01/12/2313m 22s

3 Times In A Row Should I Go

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30/11/2313m 55s

I Fixed Him Up For His Queen

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29/11/2313m 23s

I Knew It Was Too Good To Be True

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28/11/2313m 21s

He Prefers It Soft And Squishy

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27/11/2313m 21s

I Had The Drummer But I Want The Pastor

Dear Steve and Shirley, about a year ago I left my home church to join another church. I was dating the church’s drummer and he invited me to join. I fell in love with the atmosphere of the church and the senior pastor was really good. When I joined, I was asked to help put together a praise dance team. I enlisted the help of the associate pastor to help me. The associate pastor is only 3 years older than me and we connected on so many levels................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
24/11/2313m 17s

Keep Your Nasty Hands Off Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 30 year old woman that’s in a dirty situation with my man. I love my man and couldn’t have asked for a better partner, but there’s one thing about him that ticks me off. He hates to wash his hands! We've been together for 6 years and we just got engaged. We moved in together last month and that’s when I noticed his nastiness. He works long days at a factory and when he comes home, he changes his clothes and flops down on the bed..............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
23/11/2313m 8s

My Daddy Loves My Friends

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year old single woman, forced to live with my 46 year old father for the first time ever in my life. I moved in with him last year after I got pregnant and lost my job all in the same month, during the pandemic. My parents got pregnant with me in high school, so I was raised by my 2 grandmothers and I thought of my dad as an older brother or a playmate because he didn’t do anything but play with me when I was younger...................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/11/2313m 17s

Thanksgiving Surprise

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 57 year old married man and I’m on my second marriage. My wife has two daughters from a previous marriage and they’re both grown and live in different cities. The oldest daughter is 29 now and she has a 1 year old son. My wife is looking forward to Thanksgiving because she will have the girls home and she can spend quality time with her grandson, but I’m not excited about us all being under one roof, because I had an affair with the oldest daughter....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/11/2312m 46s

Body Heat and Sweaty Feet

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20/11/2313m 17s

A Small Bottle of Prosecco and A Straw

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17/11/2313m 22s

My Wife Makes Sure My Son Hates Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m going to jump right on in. I cheated on my wife two years ago with a woman that constantly threatened to call my wife when she didn’t get what she wanted. This went on 2 years until I ran out of money and decided to end the affair. This woman called my wife a few days later. I was out, cutting the yard when she called my house and my wife answered..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/11/2316m 24s

Figure It Out or Get Out

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15/11/2313m 21s

He Doesn’t Do It Right

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14/11/2313m 13s

All My Co-Workers Are Men And He Hates That

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13/11/2313m 18s

He Went Missing And Magically Reappeared

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10/11/2313m 15s

Real Men Can Cry But There’s A Limit

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09/11/2313m 16s

She Brings Nothing To The Table

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08/11/2313m 16s

Two Pigs In A Blanket

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07/11/2313m 19s

He Will Be Buried Next His Mama

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06/11/2313m 14s

You’re Not As Sexy As You Think You Are

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 30 year old married woman and my husband and I have been together for 6 years. We have a 3 year old son and since I had the baby, our intimacy has gotten a little stale. We tried role playing, watching videos and talking dirty to keep the magic going, but nothing helped. A friend suggested we put a full-length mirror next to our bed because it worked for her and her hubby. They love watching themselves getting it on. My husband and I decided to try it.............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
03/11/2313m 12s

Why Is His Background Blurred Out

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02/11/2313m 16s

My Husband Has An Emergency Phone

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01/11/2313m 16s

Am I Nagging Or Is This A Cover Up

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31/10/2313m 27s

The Most Emotional Man I Ever Met- Crying Dog

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30/10/2313m 26s

In Her Bed With My Man

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27/10/2313m 3s

Who Cares If His Auntie Hears Us

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26/10/2313m 4s

The Kids Seen The Whole Video

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25/10/2315m 5s

Get In Here And Work

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24/10/2313m 9s

He's Working Off The Money He Owes Me

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23/10/2313m 4s

He Stole My Wife From Right Up Under Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a hard-working, faithful man. I was married for 15 years to my college sweetheart. I never had any problems in my marriage until I tried to help out a friend. Here’s what happened… my wife had a best friend and the friend was married to a bigtime cheater. We were always there for her if she was going through drama with her husband. Their marriage finally ended when her husband got her cousin pregnant...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/10/2316m 2s

His Father Has To Keep It Down

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19/10/2313m 16s

What About The Rumors About Her

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18/10/2313m 6s

Who's Halloween Costume Is This

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17/10/2313m 19s

He Let Her Plan My Party

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16/10/2313m 20s

I Can’t Keep Lying About My Injury

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13/10/2313m 20s

Why Did He Get Rid Of All Our Trash

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12/10/2313m 3s

He Doesn’t Want Me and She Doesn’t Either

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11/10/2312m 47s

Why Were They In My Kitchen Whispering

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10/10/2313m 22s

I Want To Have Multiple Women But I Love My Wife

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09/10/2316m 14s

My Wife’s Young Friend

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 8 years and my wife has owned a trendy clothing boutique for 4 years. She decided to hire young, attractive females to represent the type of clothes she sells. The store manager is a gorgeous 28 year old woman with a banging body. Two years ago, my wife decided to help her pay for body contouring procedures so she can always look great in the clothes at the boutique. I didn’t approve, but my wife said it’s her money and she did it anyway...........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/10/2313m 3s

He Slid In My DM’s

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05/10/2313m 7s

There Are Some Things I Just Won't Do

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04/10/2313m 8s

Find Somebody Else To Play With

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03/10/2313m 24s

I Wish I Enjoyed It As Much As He Does

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02/10/2313m 27s

How Do I Keep Her Out Of My Clothes

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29/09/2313m 5s

He Hid My Pajamas

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28/09/2313m 8s

You Can't Blame That On The Medicine

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27/09/2313m 17s

Why Does He Keep Giggling

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26/09/2313m 15s

Why Can’t I Have The Good Stuff

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25/09/2313m 14s

I Smell Like Him All Day

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22/09/2313m 20s

Scratchy and Stubly But I Love Him

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21/09/2313m 14s

A Near Death Experience Each Time

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20/09/2313m 17s

She Was Supposed To Be Just For Me

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19/09/2313m 15s

Boogie Wonderland

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18/09/2313m 21s

Stuck On The Third Row

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15/09/2313m 18s

Tomorrow Isn't Promised, Do It Today

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14/09/2313m 20s

If She Won't I Sure Will

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13/09/2313m 17s

He Goes From Suave To Smelly Real Quick

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12/09/2313m 16s

Shirley's Story

My estranged husband is in jail. He's been in jail for over a year since right up to the 4th of July 2022 and recently, some phone calls from last year between he and I were leaked and on those calls, you hear me saying you were winded going up the stairs at your home and Marjorie looks at us as the help. Right here and now, I want to apologize to you and Marjorie for what I said. As much as I wish I could, I can't take it back. I can't. I said it, and now I want to apologize..............................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
11/09/2333m 15s

My Ex Broke In And Painted My Kitchen

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08/09/2312m 40s

She’s Coming Over Where

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07/09/2313m 23s

I Don’t See How That’s Possible

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06/09/2313m 19s

It’s So Wild He Pulled A Hamstring

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05/09/2313m 22s

I'm Tired Of Sneaking Around With Her

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 27 year old single man and I would love to stop sneaking around with the love of my life. I have been friends with my secret lover for 20 years and our parents are best friends. Our families did everything together for over 20 years but they had no idea about our secret romance. She and I have been best friends since we were 7. By the time we turned 13, she was blossoming into a woman and I liked it................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
05/09/2315m 42s

He Brought Home Bedbugs

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in my late thirties and I’m married to an older man. We dated for a short period of time and he moved in with me before we got married 4 months ago. My home is in a cozy, close-knit community and one of my neighbors recognized my husband and couldn’t wait to come give me some gossip on him. She said my husband was messing around with her aunt a few months before he met me and she thinks he’s been seeing her again since we got married..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/09/2313m 16s

Low Vibrational Loving

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31/08/2313m 23s

He Left Me But He’s Not Gone

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30/08/2313m 22s

He Prefers Teasing Over Pleasing

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29/08/2313m 23s

He’s So Good At Cheating, It’s Scary

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29/08/2313m 23s

My Husband Is Becoming An Old Man Too Soon

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25/08/2313m 19s

His Playlist Is Going To Break Us Up

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24/08/2313m 22s

Too Fake And Phony For Me

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23/08/2313m 20s

She's Getting More From Him Than Money

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m a 51 year old man and I have a wife but I haven’t lived with her in 4 years. It’s a long story but I’ll try to make it brief. Four years ago, my cousin had a bad divorce and he needed somewhere to stay, so my wife and I let him rent one side of a duplex we own. I made him promise to be respectful to my older tenant that shared the duplex with him because she’s a Christian woman that loves peace and quiet................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
22/08/2316m 26s

She Acts Like A Bitter Old Bitty

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 50 year old married man and my wife and I have been married for 11 years. When we got married, I was working on my doctorate degree and I worked full time and struggled to take care of her and our newborn child. She decided to start school herself after having our second child. She got her master’s degree in 2019 and I expected her to apply for a job but instead, she decided to get a doctorate degree......................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/08/2313m 9s

Anyone Can Get It

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18/08/2313m 27s

I Had The Hoodie Made For Him

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17/08/2313m 26s

My Best Friend Is Marrying A Big Problem

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16/08/2313m 28s

He Needs To Check His Bed First

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15/08/2313m 25s

How Do I Temporarily Break Up With Him

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14/08/2313m 19s

If It’s Not Three, Don’t Call Me

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11/08/2313m 13s

My Man Or Hers

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10/08/2313m 26s

There's Something He Needs To Know

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09/08/2313m 27s

It’s A Hard Habit To Break

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08/08/2313m 23s

His Draws Was Under The Driver’s Seat

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07/08/2313m 27s

He's Not The Only Man I've Been With

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04/08/2313m 15s

I Like Taffy He Doesn’t

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03/08/2313m 21s

He Knew He Married A Black Woman

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02/08/2313m 20s

Take Your Time Young Man

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01/08/2313m 0s

I Went Home In His Shirt

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31/07/2313m 21s

I Would Rather Live In My Truck

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28/07/2313m 11s

He Wants Me and Not the Children

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 49 year old female married to a 49 year old man. I have five children and five grandchildren. Here is the problem. My current husband is not the father of my children. I married this man when my children were young. So he's been in their lives for a very long time. My youngest son just graduated from high school and will be going away for college. So now my husband thinks that we're done raising children and from now on it will be just the two of us. He has said that we don't have to worry about the kids anymore because they are all grown and have their own lives. So am I not supposed to be involved with my children since they are no longer living at home..........See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
27/07/2313m 8s

I Don't Think We're Really Cousins

Dear Steve and Shirley, in high school I liked a girl and she liked me. We talked on the phone and hung out together all the time and her mom and my mom were close too, so she was always at my house or I was at hers. By the time we graduated from high school, we were even closer and I told her that I wanted her to be more than my friend. She’s always been really close to her mom and tells her everything, so she told her mom that she and I were dating................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/07/2313m 17s

Why Did He Keep Calling Out His Ex's Name

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25/07/2313m 22s

When I Want It He Doesn't

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24/07/2313m 18s

I Taught This Young Man Everything He Knows

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have a confession to make and I know I can count on Steve to give it to me straight. I’m a divorced female and I work as a corporate trainer. I’m 49 years old and I have one daughter and a granddaughter. Last fall, I was called to train staff at an insurance agency. One of the male trainees got my attention and asked me for a business card before I left. He left a message on my office phone and invited me to dinner the next night. I knew he was a bit younger than I am, but I was flattered and went on a date with him....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
21/07/2313m 12s

He’s Too Big and Fine To Be This Way

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20/07/2313m 19s

Baby I Can’t Tell My Man He Ain’t Fine

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19/07/2313m 19s

Why Does He Have Videos of Our Neighbor

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18/07/2313m 18s

Put Up Or Shut Up Because You Messed Up

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17/07/2313m 19s

How Big is Too Big

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am in a struggle right now and I need a little advice for a big problem. I have a male friend that I’ve known since 1st grade and we’re almost 40 now. I’m divorced and dated a lot of men after my divorce. One day recently, I had a revelation that my soulmate is someone I have known all of my life. My good male friend and I hang out all of the time, but he’s not who I had in mind if I were to date someone I’ve known a long time...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16/07/2313m 12s

He Doesn’t Wear Anything Under His Clothes

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13/07/2313m 17s

This Romance Is A Problem For Me

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12/07/2313m 25s

It Can Not Be That Serious

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11/07/2312m 44s

My Wife Needs To Find Something To Do

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10/07/2313m 17s

My Sugar Daddy Set Me Up

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year old woman grieving the loss of my 77 year old best friend and sugar daddy that had been in my life since I was 19. He was also my father’s closest friend so we kept our relationship a secret for obvious reasons. When it all started, he was married to a woman that I looked up to. She was beautiful and classy and he turned me into her, with all of the nice gifts and trips he sponsored for me. We didn’t have sex until I was 23 years old and he never pressured me for sex........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
07/07/2313m 13s

He Face Times With Me When He Is With Her

Dear Steve and Shirley, I met the love of my life 7 years ago and I was 21 years old at the time. He’s 3 years older than me and had already had a child. He was my first everything and he influenced everything I did. I overlooked a lot of things he did because I was young and crazy in love. He would be intimate with the mother of his child and he didn’t try to hide it. It made me feel like I wasn’t good enough or skilled enough at sex because he kept on having sex with her...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/07/2313m 12s

This Young Man Has Me Weak In The Knees

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 63 year old black woman and I’ve never been married and I don’t have any children. I was raised to believe sex outside of marriage was wrong, so I didn’t have sex until I was 32 years old. It was never that exciting to me, so I did not put much effort into having a great sex life. I always met and dated great guys, but they would all tell me that I had no passion or promise in the bedroom. For that same reason, I have never had an orgasm until this year....................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
06/07/2313m 13s

My Husband Needs To Learn A Few

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05/07/2316m 3s

His Ex-Wife Wants To Sleep Over

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 2 years and when I met my husband four years ago, he had just gotten divorced and he was in a bitter custody battle with his ex-wife. His daughter is very sweet and she loves her dad, but the ex-wife is dead set on her not having a relationship with her dad. When we met, he had to limit communication with his ex because she told everybody he kept calling her to work things out and he wanted his family back............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
04/07/2313m 18s

He Jumped In Feet First

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 28 year old woman and I’ve been having bad luck on the dating scene. Finally, I met someone and thought he was great. Emotionally, he fulfilled my needs and he planned the best dates. We formed a bond over the fact that we were both tired of dating and being disappointed. After dating for 2 months, we decided to take things to the next level and we had sex..........................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
01/07/2313m 8s

I Caught My Boyfriend Spending Time With His Wife

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29/06/2313m 22s

He Bought Us The Same Pair Of Shoes

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28/06/2313m 20s

He Still Sleeps On His Wife's Pillowcase

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27/06/2313m 21s

You Can Yell And Shout Cause I'm Out

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26/06/2316m 33s

There’s No Emotion In His Motion

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23/06/2313m 20s

I Can't And He Won't

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22/06/2313m 16s

Big And Hot For The Wrong Reasons

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21/06/2313m 20s

Pack A Bag & A Snack Because You Ain’t Going Back

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21/06/2313m 20s

I’m Stuck Between A Sister And A Brother

Dear Steve and Shirley, for the past year I have been sleeping with my best friend's little sister. When I went to college, I lost all contact with her until we reconnected last year at her brother's 4th of July party. I hadn't seen this woman since she was a young girl and my oh my God she’s aged like fine wine. I’m 14 years older than her but we’re all grown now. The Lord took his time with that body..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
20/06/2313m 11s

My Husband Has Done Everything Except Leave

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16/06/2313m 25s

Why Is He Trying To Finesse My Fineness

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15/06/2313m 22s

I Stayed All Night And Heard Everything

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15/06/2312m 52s

Body Gels Oil Lotions and Potions

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13/06/2313m 22s

He's Got To Get Out Of Here

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12/06/2313m 21s

She Got Buck Wild On The Dance Floor

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09/06/2313m 10s

My Wife Makes Sure My Son Hates Me

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m going to jump right on in. I cheated on my wife two years ago with a woman that constantly threatened to call my wife when she didn’t get what she wanted. This went on 2 years until I ran out of money and decided to end the affair. This woman called my wife a few days later. I was out, cutting the yard when she called my house and my wife answered..................  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
09/06/2316m 19s

Room Temp Water and Dish Soap

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08/06/2313m 21s

We Go To The Hotel But Not A Room

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06/06/2313m 22s

I Feel Like Bustin Loose

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05/06/2312m 57s

Where Should I Sit

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02/06/2315m 30s

Everything Ain’t Funny

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01/06/2313m 15s

Talk Dirty To Me But Not That Dirty

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31/05/2312m 51s

She's Got Him Fighting For Her

Dear Steve and Shirley, my co-worker and I have a strong bond. I am what you would call his work-wife. My work husband and my real husband talk often and since my work husband is dating a scandalous woman, my husband has been counseling him a lot. When my husband and I met the girlfriend, she looked at us like we were garbage and didn’t deserve to be in her presence...............................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
30/05/2313m 9s

My Best Friend Is Just Trying To Help Out

Dear Steve and Shirley, I have been married to my husband for 8 years and we have a 5 year old and a 2 year old daughter. My husband has 5 other kids, not including the two we have together. Yes, I know that is a lot of kids, however, I want to try for another baby next year. I am 32 and he is 40 and he says he is too old to have more kids. I don’t have a son and would like to try for a son. I always told him I wanted to have three children. We don't have sex because he says he doesn't want to get me pregnant and if we do have sex, he buys me the Plan B pill to avoid any possible pregnancies...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
29/05/2313m 0s

Number 2 Will Never Be Number 1

Dear Steve and Shirley, I was a single and attractive, 34 year old woman, losing hope at finding love. I grew tired of the dating cycle and I decided that I would not have sex again until I was married. I prayed and practiced celibacy and a year later, I met the man of my dreams. He is handsome, educated, gainfully employed and he loves the Lord. I fell hard for this man and a year after we met, we got married. I was so excited for my wedding night because it would be our first time making love. He is blessed with the proper equipment, but it’s his skillset that’s lacking..................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
26/05/2313m 2s

There Are Way Too Many People in One Bed

Dear Steve and Shirley, I’ve been married for 22 years and I have a big problem with my husband. My husband’s co-worker recently bought a motorcycle and my husband wants one, so he showed me pictures of the motorcycle on his phone. As I swiped through the pictures, my husband walked outside, so I kept swiping thru his pictures. I went as far back as March and came across a video of my husband, naked..............  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
25/05/2312m 32s

It’s Amazing How Nice He Could Be

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24/05/2313m 23s

I Want To See It Every Time

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23/05/2313m 11s

My Marriage Or My Pleasure

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22/05/2313m 11s

Take My Money, My House, My Car

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19/05/2316m 26s

He Had On New Boxers

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18/05/2313m 19s

I Told Him About His Wife And My Side Piece

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17/05/2313m 15s

His Sister Or Secret Lover

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16/05/2313m 16s

I'm So MF'ing Tired

Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 32 year old single mother with one child and I’m pregnant with my second child. I’m pregnant by my best friend, who happens to be married. We’ve been friends with benefits for almost to 10 years and his wife thinks we’re just best friends, so she’s accepted me as part of the family. She’s aware that I’m pregnant but thinks it’s my ex-boyfriend’s baby. I’ve told her husband that it’s time for us to stop messing around and be serious now because we have a baby on the way................See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
15/05/2312m 57s

Is He A Loser, Or A Work In Progress

Dear Steve and Shirley, I'm a 32 year old woman and I'm falling for a 43 y/o man. We met online and bonded because we were both very lonely for the last 10 months in quarantine. I work full time at a school and he is a screenwriter, waiting for one of his movies to get greenlit by a big producer. He said if that happens, he will be set for life. We decided to meet up and I asked him to meet me half way, since he lives an hour from me...............See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
12/05/2315m 57s
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