Gay Relationships Are Hard

A Gay and A NonGay

By James Barr and Dan Hudson

Gay Relationships Are Hard

Wednesday, 8 May

James thinks back to his childhood and the effect that's having on his... boyfriend! Plus our listener Nic is having a meltdown so the boys offer support and there's A LOT of admin. This episode contains themes of sex and child abuse.

Today's episode celebrates Digital Pride: the online movement, created by Gay Star News so you can take part in pride whoever and wherever you are. This year Digital Pride is tackling loneliness and isolation, find out more at

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