Revenge, A Dish Best Served Cold... Or Not At All

Every generation has its opinions and wisdom about revenge. We’re taught all too often that revenge should be equal to the crime, and even that we owe it ourselves or those we love, to take revenge when we’re hurt.  

But it’s a mindset that holds far too many people back. Why, when we spend so much time planning and mapping out our goals and our path in life, should we then spend so much time away from that plan, so that we can get our own back when we feel we’ve been wronged.  

In this episode, Gavan discusses this fascinating issue, and provides you with the tools and examples you’ll need to remain focussed on what’s important. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS 

Every judgment you make is not based on the facts that you believe are true. It’s based on your perception of what fact is. It’s filtered through prejudice, emotion and experience.   

 

The energy wasted on chasing these false perceptions is tragic. Imagine the good you could do with that energy. Imagine the time you could save by concentrating on something positive instead.  

 

In the heat of the moment, people can feel a burning desire to teach a lesson to those who have wronged us; to make them feel humility or to make them understand what they’ve done wrong.   

 

Remember that if this person’s crimes were an extension of their personality, then they’ll most likely learn a lesson when they do the same thing to someone just like them down the line.  

 

Set your own personal goals properly. Take care of the stuff that takes you towards them. That’s the part we can control, and the only part we should control.   

 

Instead of seeking revenge, aim for more personal success. Remember that karma will take care of the bad guys! 

BEST MOMENTS 

‘We’re all different, so why do so many look the same?’   ‘Let’s get real. It’s cancerous stuff we’re talking about here’   ‘Your perception is probably based on the grey stuff, instead of the black and white you think it is’   ‘Get over yourself! Pray for them!’   ‘You’ll have an arms race on your hands'   ‘Do better. Be better!'  

ABOUT THE HOST 

Welcome to the Speed Mentor Podcast. 

Do you want success and abundance in your life?! 

Do you want to hear how to achieve it? 

Then you’ve come to the right place where the world’s only Speed Mentor, Gavan Wall will mainline you with micro bite-sized chunks of inspiration fused with knowledge, built into a daily routine to help you deliver success. 

After walking away, a decade ago from his gilded life as a leading Barrister and property investor, Gavan Wall started his entrepreneurial career in inauspicious circumstances as he lost everything in the property crash. 

But he refused to give up, re-building a financial fortress from scratch, until now he leads multiple successful multi-million £ companies across FMCG, Franchise, Tech, Property and Mentoring. 

He’s the Speed Mentor and serial entrepreneur, who shares with you all the breadcrumbs of success and just as importantly the failures. If you listen, you can avoid the potholes and learn to conquer your fear and live a life of success and abundance just like him. 

But be warned, his message can be stark and will not be for those seeking shortcuts. If you’re wanting to be told that the law of attraction will deliver success wrapped in a bow to your front door, then this Podcast isn’t for you, as that’s never going to happen! It’s time to own your own sh#t, never blame others and take the massive action to create the attraction. 

The opportunities and white space are everywhere. Gavan will help you get outside your comfort zone, connect with others, shed the scarcity mindset, set gorilla goals and achieve so much more.  

If you want to make your ideas soar…then talk to the Wall! 

CONTACT METHOD 

Gavan’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gavan-wall-b828a56b/   Gavan’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gavanwall   Gavan’s Twitter: https://twitter.com/gavanwall   Speed Mentor Podcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SpeedMentor   Subscribe to Gavan Wall’s YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZyfsl7Au5_tM7gKA_vuitw   Gavan Wall Official Website: www.gavanwall.com   Email him at success@gavanwall.com